Is it too much to let my best friend make out with my fiancée before our wedding

[Calaf]

So. Yeah. Hit me with the likes and dislike and the whatnot.

Thanks @Dalmoor For the idea of the title

So Problem
I have a close male friend who I’ve had since I was about 18 and we’ve been great friends. There has never been any kind of physical relationship with him but I’ve always had a feeling he’s had a bit of a crush on me but he’s never asked me out or made any kind of intimate attempt.

He’s getting married this summer and I don’t think his girlfriend has ever been that fond of me. I can kind of understand why but I have never done anything to actively take her boyfriend away from her and I’m careful not to give cause for concern.

I’ve been invited to the wedding. I had confided in him that I was in two minds about my own relationship a couple of months ago and he had given some advice, but I got myself sorted with my boyfriend since. I was out a few weeks ago with my friend and a couple of other friends, and he started slagging me, saying that he had a few bachelors at the wedding for me. I ignored it.

Later, when the groom was gone, his friend blurted out that “The bride does not want you at the wedding – the groom loves you and the bride hates you”
I pretended I didn’t notice anything. I’m upset on a number of levels; my boyfriend will be uncomfortable if he comes, I don’t know if I can stay friends with my old buddy and I don’t know if I should go to the wedding.

Any advice.

 

[astorecalledkmart]

So. Yeah. Hit me with the likes and dislike and the whatnot.

Thanks @Dalmoor

So Problem
I have a close male friend who I’ve had since I was about 18 and we’ve been great friends. There has never been any kind of physical relationship with him but I’ve always had a feeling he’s had a bit of a crush on me but he’s never asked me out or made any kind of intimate attempt.

He’s getting married this summer and I don’t think his girlfriend has ever been that fond of me. I can kind of understand why but I have never done anything to actively take her boyfriend away from her and I’m careful not to give cause for concern.

I’ve been invited to the wedding. I had confided in him that I was in two minds about my own relationship a couple of months ago and he had given some advice, but I got myself sorted with my boyfriend since. I was out a few weeks ago with my friend and a couple of other friends, and he started slagging me, saying that he had a few bachelors at the wedding for me. I ignored it.

Later, when the groom was gone, his friend blurted out that “The bride does not want you at the wedding – the groom loves you and the bride hates you”
I pretended I didn’t notice anything. I’m upset on a number of levels; my boyfriend will be uncomfortable if he comes, I don’t know if I can stay friends with my old buddy and I don’t know if I should go to the wedding.

Any advice.

Your trolling abilities have improved enormously. I'm proud of you brother

 

[Dalmoor]

You're welcome, @Calaf

 

[Calaf]

Your trolling abilities have improved enormously. I'm proud of you brother

Just practising for fun, I want to see the result that comes out, but me, never a troller!

 

[Dalmoor]

I have a close male friend who I’ve had since I was about 18 and we’ve been great friends. There has never been any kind of physical relationship with him but I’ve always had a feeling he’s had a bit of a crush on me but he’s never asked me out or made any kind of intimate attempt.

PAUSE

 

[Calaf]

my boyfriend will be uncomfortable if he comes, I don’t know if I can stay friends with my old buddy and I don’t know if I should go to the wedding.

 

[CaliTedesse]

I was like wtf am I reading ileen Calaf waa khaniis and Somali marriages are becoming pro Khaniis

 

[Calaf]

I was like wtf am I reading ileen Calaf waa khaniis and Somali marriages are becoming pro Khaniis

It will all be explained soon!

 

[Xaruun]

I can’t even made a heads or tails of this shitpost. It comes across as a word salad

 

[Calaf]

No advice for a brother. Help me out people, what should I do!

Joking people, https://www.irishtimes.com/life-and...d-but-i-know-he-has-feelings-for-me-1.3082569

I could not let this go on, and people assume that I am Gay.

All part of my experiment on peoples opinion!

 

[J-Rasta]

You have fantastically finnesed the readers if you were prompting for a platinum thread ,
It took me minutes to come to a conclusion wether you are a male or a female
This story also doesn't make sense and the title is misleading
Are we talking about your best friend making out with your fiance or is this about his bride disliking you
, the bride dislikes you but why and is worried that you may crash her wedding

What's the relationship between you and the groom ( if you are female the story would be a lot more comprehensive )


lol

 

[Calaf]

You have fantastically finnesed the readers if you were prompting for a platinum thread ,
It took me minutes to come to a conclusion wether you are a male or a female
This story also doesn't make sense and the title is misleading
Are we talking about your best friend making out with your fiance or is this about his bride disliking you
, the bride dislikes you but why and is worried that you may crash her wedding

What's the relationship between you and the groom ( if you are female the story would be a lot more comprehensive )


lol

You forgot the last assumption that the writer of the post may be gay.:siilaanyolaugh:
Anyway, it was a cheeky, off topic not of the norm post made to see reactions of SSPOTERS.
:siilaanyolaugh:
Original Post was on this website : https://www.irishtimes.com/life-and...d-but-i-know-he-has-feelings-for-me-1.3082569

 

[Hodan from HR]

I lost brain cells reading this

 

[Shmurda]

What the fukk

 

[Nomoregames2019]

10/10 for this trolling ery shitpost though.

 

[strawberrii]

I don’t understand what you’re trying to say

 

[LoveandLight]

So. Yeah. Hit me with the likes and dislike and the whatnot.

Thanks @Dalmoor For the idea of the title

So Problem
I have a close male friend who I’ve had since I was about 18 and we’ve been great friends. There has never been any kind of physical relationship with him but I’ve always had a feeling he’s had a bit of a crush on me but he’s never asked me out or made any kind of intimate attempt.

He’s getting married this summer and I don’t think his girlfriend has ever been that fond of me. I can kind of understand why but I have never done anything to actively take her boyfriend away from her and I’m careful not to give cause for concern.

I’ve been invited to the wedding. I had confided in him that I was in two minds about my own relationship a couple of months ago and he had given some advice, but I got myself sorted with my boyfriend since. I was out a few weeks ago with my friend and a couple of other friends, and he started slagging me, saying that he had a few bachelors at the wedding for me. I ignored it.

Later, when the groom was gone, his friend blurted out that “The bride does not want you at the wedding – the groom loves you and the bride hates you”
I pretended I didn’t notice anything. I’m upset on a number of levels; my boyfriend will be uncomfortable if he comes, I don’t know if I can stay friends with my old buddy and I don’t know if I should go to the wedding.

Any advice.

Are you gay?

 

[Calaf]

Are you gay?

I don’t understand what you’re trying to say

It was a joke.

You forgot the last assumption that the writer of the post may be gay.:siilaanyolaugh:
Anyway, it was a cheeky, off topic not of the norm post made to see reactions of SSPOTERS.
:siilaanyolaugh:
Original Post was on this website : https://www.irishtimes.com/life-and...d-but-i-know-he-has-feelings-for-me-1.3082569

 

[Basra]

So. Yeah. Hit me with the likes and dislike and the whatnot.

Thanks @Dalmoor For the idea of the title

So Problem
I have a close male friend who I’ve had since I was about 18 and we’ve been great friends. There has never been any kind of physical relationship with him but I’ve always had a feeling he’s had a bit of a crush on me but he’s never asked me out or made any kind of intimate attempt.

He’s getting married this summer and I don’t think his girlfriend has ever been that fond of me. I can kind of understand why but I have never done anything to actively take her boyfriend away from her and I’m careful not to give cause for concern.

I’ve been invited to the wedding. I had confided in him that I was in two minds about my own relationship a couple of months ago and he had given some advice, but I got myself sorted with my boyfriend since. I was out a few weeks ago with my friend and a couple of other friends, and he started slagging me, saying that he had a few bachelors at the wedding for me. I ignored it.

Later, when the groom was gone, his friend blurted out that “The bride does not want you at the wedding – the groom loves you and the bride hates you”
I pretended I didn’t notice anything. I’m upset on a number of levels; my boyfriend will be uncomfortable if he comes, I don’t know if I can stay friends with my old buddy and I don’t know if I should go to the wedding.

Any advice.

My advice is simple. STAY AWAY! dont go to the wedding, People can tell if u have seen his Gu.s

 

[Ayubi]

@Crow you know what to do