Is it sketchy if a potential has a very small social media presence?

[empressjamila]

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[Jaha]

No I don't think it is sketchy at all but in this clout driven world you're seen as weirdo if you decide to boomer out and don't partake in the cringe fest of shit content across the platforms blasting your images all around the web. Choosing to value your privacy doesn't mean you've got shit to hide.

 

[Boujie]

Anyone with gheera would LOVE if their wife has little to no sm presence, after all in what dimension do people have 10,000 friends? He sounds iffy if he is discontent with your presence on social media tbh

 

[Sophisticate]

There is nothing wrong with having a small social media presence. The only reason someone might take issue with that is if they think you're catfishing. That's more of a rare instance. I deleted all socials over a year ago. Having a large footprint online is unusual (unless you have a physical or digital product you're marketing).

 

[kickz]

Some people troll on socials and then just delete and start fresh when they want, he probably suspects you did that.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

If he keeps pressing you about it, leave him in the dust. It means he's too paranoid and people like that usually have something to hide and are projecting their own issues onto others. There are plenty of people out there who don't want attention from strangers and have very little to no social media presence. 60 followers is normal for a real person, nobody has more than a handful of real friends and family they stay in touch with.

People who post their business and pictures online are in threat of getting the evil eye or being catfished, nothing good comes out of it. Good for you for being low-key.

 

[ForwardSweep]

Being suspicious of someone with a small social media presence is exactly what the social media giants want. They want everyone using their services and are currently hard at work using social engineering to turn people who don't use their services into pariahs. Social media is mental poison.

 

[Nilotic]

People always read into things that are just not there; my white work colleagues found it strange that I don't drink, party or have pets -- and one of them asked:

'Are you like a serial killer?'

How does that follow?

 

[Jaydaan]

I don’t even have social media and had girls say it’s a bit weird. I tell them everyone I know and want in my life I have their phone numbers and can talk or text them. I also know I don’t really have the temperature for social media as I tend to say racist and disrespectful sh1t everyday. So I gotta protect my future. Obviously I don’t tell the girls that

 

[Ak47]

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Holla at me i dont care about that and i make 10 grand a month halal. I aslo live in canada.

 

[Basra]

I don't have social media presence myself. I am old school. But u should see it as a plus if your potential has no social profile. Thats good.

 

[World]

Sounds like he was just making conversation. I doubt he meant it in a condescending way.

 

[Abdisamad]

I don't use Instagram,

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