Is it odd that I want a separate bedroom from my future husband?

add the cuddling and gossiping :ahh: that combo would be so macaan :ohhhdamn::lawd:
Gahhhhhdamn if your nigga is doing xan with you in bed 🤣raganimadiisa shaki baa ku jiro.
It Should be illegal for a nigga to do xan with his naag let alone in bed where he's suppose let his raganimo side shine


That's some feminine shit,maybe u like niggas that r bit like yourself🤣
 

Yaraye

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Gahhhhhdamn if your nigga is doing xan with you in bed 🤣raganimadiisa shaki baa ku jiro.
It Should be illegal for a nigga to do xan with his naag let alone in bed where he's suppose let his raganimo side shine


That's some feminine shit,maybe u like niggas that r bit like yourself🤣
loooooool! Even though i say gossiping together, i actually prefer if he kept his mouth shut and occasionally interject with "yes", "that b!tch is crazy!" and laugh accordingly. He needs to let me do the gossiping :ulyin:
 
y'all can't be having s3x and then going your separate ways like its just a hookup, thats soul less. Plus, your probably going to change your mind after you get married. You will want to sleep in the bed of your lover even when he's not around
 

Yaraye

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y'all can't be having s3x and then going your separate ways like its just a hookup, thats soul less. Plus, your probably going to change your mind after you get married. You will want to sleep in the bed of your lover even when he's not around
maybe the right guy might change my mind. But that's how i currently feel. plus i said cuddling needs to happen afterwards. I never said separate ways right after s3x lol
 

Yaraye

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well that doesn't seem too unreasonable. hope you find him
inshallah. I don't think having my own bedroom with my own closet, vanity, and bathroom is too much to ask lol. If I or he wants to, we can often sleep in the same bed, but sometimes I wanna sleep alone
 

Somali Saayid

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separate bedrooms is actually better for marriages. Own space when y'all want it, otherwise y'all can sleep together.
It would be awkward as hell to have an argument with your wife during dinner and then you have to sleep inches away from each other just a couple hours later. :lolbron::cosbyhmm:
 
Idk girl, That would hurt my feelings ngl. Imagine your spouse doesn’t want to share same bed with you. Punch to the gut.
Damn thats your biggest concern? Mine would be the sounds of a car pulling up in my driveway and looking out of my bedroom window only to see her bringing another nigga into 'her private bedroom' and then knocking on her bedroom door only for her to lock it and tell me she's 'sleeping'. Now thats a punch to the gut
 
Duplex is way too much lmao, your basically living in separate homes at that point.

Maybe you should consider getting an extra large family bed mattress :ftw9nwa: given your concerns. Basically like having your own bed while still being able to cuddle together when you both want to. Alarms can be set on the opposite corner of the room so the other person isn't likely to wake up with differing sleep schedules.

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Sophisticate

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:kendrickcry:Good boy with a clean record that treats a wife like a sneaky link sounds like an interesting kink.

I believe they call this a LAT (Living Apart but Together) marriage. It's on the rise. I'm not surprised.

If your husband puts in the effort of a concubine it's a good sign. I'm sure he won't mind if you effortlessly switch from mistress to Mrs.
 

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