Is it odd that I want a separate bedroom from my future husband?

[WaterBottle]

Cuddling is nice, Could be done after the deed. If y'all fall asleep together that night then so be it. Having separate bedrooms doesn't mean sleeping apart every night

Well doesn't it sound unusual and not worth the effort to do the deed with your spouse give them a hug walk across the house and slip in your own cold bed I would feel confused

 

[Yaraye]

yeh that’s a good idea. i’ll do the deed with my wife then go straight to my own bed afterwards

nice right! some people looked at me like i was crazy

 

[WaterBottle]

damn, is that why i wake up out of breath sometimes? i've tried sleeping on my side, but i end up waking up on my stomach

Most probably there is a hadith whereby the prophet SAW prodded a man sleeping on his belly whilst the guy was asleep and reproached him for doing so

 

[Yaraye]

Well doesn't it sound unusual and not worth the effort to do the deed with your spouse give them a hug walk across the house and slip in your own cold bed I would feel confused

It doesn't have to be awkward. Y'all do the deed, and cuddle for a while. talk/ conversate or whatever tf y'all wanna do. In the end you're gonna have to get up to take a shower. Before showering, kiss and say your goodbyes and just don't come back. beautiful idea without awkwardness

 

[WaterBottle]

nice right! some people looked at me like i was crazy

This is crazy

 

[Yaraye]

Most probably there is a hadith whereby the prophet SAW prodded a man sleeping on his belly whilst the guy was asleep and reproached him for doing so

I will try inshallah. Wish me luck to cut this habit, tho i don't think i'll be successful

 

[WaterBottle]

It doesn't have to be awkward. Y'all do the deed, and cuddle for a while. talk/ conversate or whatever tf y'all wanna do. In the end you're gonna have to get up to take a shower. Before showering, say your goodbye and just don't come back. beautiful idea without awkwardness

Idk I feel many of us men would like to keep their wife with them it feels wrong,

 

[WaterBottle]

I will try inshallah. Wish me luck to cut this habit, tho i don't think i'll be successful

You could die because of this, also if you suffer from sleep paralysis this is why, when I used to sleep on my stomach almost every night I woke up paralysed but it stopped when I switched to sides.

 

[Yaraye]

This is crazy

Idk I feel many of us men would like to keep their wife with them it feels wrong,

It's not for everyone walaal. If you don't think it's for you, that's not a prob. there are many men out there that don't mind like @Keep it a boqol I do hope you find what you're looking for

 

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[Yaraye]

You could die because of this, also if you suffer from sleep paralysis this is why, when I used to sleep on my stomach almost every night I woke up paralysed but it stopped when I switched to sides.

i do get paralysis time to time i need to start reading my sleep duas

 

[WaterBottle]

I will try inshallah. Wish me luck to cut this habit, tho i don't think i'll be successful

Action begins with thought think yourself to do as you please

 

[WaterBottle]

Action begins with thought think yourself to do as you please

Anyways goodnight spot I'm heading off to bed mysled salam

 

[Yaraye]

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[Yaraye]

Anyways goodnight spot I'm heading off to bed mysled salam

goodnight!!! make sure to read ayatul kursi and say your shahadah in case.... Make sure whatever you do, that the shahada is the last thing you say/do.

 

[Yaraye]

Seperate houses is crazy, sounds like you want an ATM machine you have sex with occasionally

add the cuddling and gossiping that combo would be so macaan

 

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