In Defence of Mercury

[Etacovda S'lived]

I’m sure @Mercury could care less
Home boy getting married soon


@Etacovda S'lived are you @Bidaar Wanagsan ?

I don’t have a bidaar.

 

[Shamis]

I must respectfully disagree sister. Put your faith in your man and see what you get. Allah will provide for you if you are a good wife to your husband and a good mother to your children. I don't really believe in Allah but I really believe this. Men and women are different. They are different for a reason.

How about no. Besides I'm HIS fiance not yours. Get yourself a fiance and have this discussion with her and stop projecting your relationship goals on to me.

 

[Etacovda S'lived]

How about no. Besides I'm HIS fiance not yours. Get yourself a fiance and have this discussion with her and stop projecting your relationship goals on to me.

Good point. I've had many relationships and they all failed. I realize that but I'm trying to get the young generation to avoid the mistakes I made. Marmar waan iskudhex darsama. I'm an old man.

 

[Shamis]

Good point. I've had many relationships and they all failed. I realize that but I'm trying to get the young generation to avoid the mistakes I made. Marmar waan iskudhex darsama. I'm an old man.

My fiance is attracted to me because I have a career and still love kids. He wouldn't want me to stay home and leech off him.

My previous marriage didn't work out either so I'm not judging you. Men have ages to find the right partner. But the key is to be honest from the beginning and tell your partner what your expectations are.

 

[Etacovda S'lived]

My fiance is attracted to me because I have a career and still love kids. He wouldn't want me to stay home and leech off him.

My previous marriage didn't work out either so I'm not judging you. Men have ages to find the right partner. But the key is to be honest from the beginning and tell your partner what your expectations are.

Good point. Well said. What happened to your previous marriage? Mine fell apart because white women have an expiration date no matter how well put together they are at the beginning of your marriage. My last two marriages ended because they both claimed I was cheating, and a stupid judge believed them and helped them rob me of my earnings. I'm still paying one of them.

 

[bluebird]

What the hell has @Mercury done wrong?
Everything he's saying is very reasonable and understanding.
What @VixR was saying in an earlier thread is 100% accurate, he looks like a saint in comparison to the rest of the khasaaros who are more concerned with their machismo and not looking like a "cuck" than actually contributing in their household.
She said that his opinions would not garner a second look out in the real world, but out here he looks absolutely perfect in comparison to the rest of you.
Wallahi I 100% agree. This guy is being hounded for not having these insane views one way or the other and he's being labelled as a spineless pussy who will bend over backwards for anyone with two X chromosomes.
Fix up.

I disagree, his opinions would still be out of place in the real world. He's a rarity for males. Most men hold hostile opinions regarding females

 

[DuctTape]

I disagree, his opinions would still be out of place in the real world. He's a rarity for males. Most men hold hostile opinions regarding females

Most?
Hostile?
I wouldn't use such extreme words. Although I guess, being a guy, I would be more biased
Well, I still think that his views aren't "rare". Maybe not as common as I originally stated, but not rare either.
At the end of the day, it's a shame that someone who holds such seemingly inoffensive views (that I assumed were a given, honestly) would be attacked

 

[DeadStar]

Nobody is attacking mercury.
As i said i'll let him marry my sister. He'll make a good father and a husband.
Its just jokes and he knows that.

 

[Vanessa]

@Mercury don't take it serious from the trolls. Remember what the prophet (saw) said “The best of you are those who are the best to their wives..."
Even simplest tasks like getting the kids ready for bed or doing weekly shopping will keep your wife sane.
Sane wife equals happy marriage.

 

[GeKo]

In his universe, anything that goes wrong is the man’s fault, thereby removing any responsibility or accountability of the female counterpart. This inevitably leads to the woman taking advantage of you and taking liberties. If you don’t set obvious red lines, she will walk all over you. People are like that. Give them an inch and they’ll want a mile. @Mercury seems to not mind this lifestyle. He thinks any disagreement or line in the sand is a major no no.

I agree.
That's true in life, you can't be too merciful and not hold anyone accountable or you'll be walked on by everyone.

There has to be a balance in the relationship or else you'll get the short end of the stick.

 

[chink-in-a-box]

@Mercury you need to assert dominance and beat her from time to time to ensure her loyalty

You need to beat her "near-daily" Thats the most important part, finding the balance of when to beat her. If you beat her everyday she will resent you and will feel like a piece of meat, she would just be a zombie going through life. Thats not what the aim of the beatings is. She must be in a constant state of nervous bewilderment, kept on her toes as to whether today Im going to be hot or cold with her, thats how all her sweetness and submissive side comes out. Its not about the actual beatings, its the work to break her mind and make her happy to be your inferior. This only comes with perfect timing. On days where I dont hit her, she is completely and utterly devotional to me (giving me foot massages, running to hug me when i come back from outside, making me my favorite foods)

Days like that give her the hope to live

 

[ManlikeYJ]

@Mercury you need to assert dominance and beat her from time to time to ensure her loyalty

You need to beat her "near-daily" Thats the most important part, finding the balance of when to beat her. If you beat her everyday she will resent you and will feel like a piece of meat, she would just be a zombie going through life. Thats not what the aim of the beatings is. She must be in a constant state of nervous bewilderment, kept on her toes as to whether today Im going to be hot or cold with her, thats how all her sweetness and submissive side comes out. Its not about the actual beatings, its the work to break her mind and make her happy to be your inferior. This only comes with perfect timing. On days where I dont hit her, she is completely and utterly devotional to me (giving me foot massages, running to hug me when i come back from outside, making me my favorite foods)

Days like that give her the hope to live

wallahi wad walan tahay

 

[supz]

@Mercury you need to assert dominance and beat her from time to time to ensure her loyalty

You need to beat her "near-daily" Thats the most important part, finding the balance of when to beat her. If you beat her everyday she will resent you and will feel like a piece of meat, she would just be a zombie going through life. Thats not what the aim of the beatings is. She must be in a constant state of nervous bewilderment, kept on her toes as to whether today Im going to be hot or cold with her, thats how all her sweetness and submissive side comes out. Its not about the actual beatings, its the work to break her mind and make her happy to be your inferior. This only comes with perfect timing. On days where I dont hit her, she is completely and utterly devotional to me (giving me foot massages, running to hug me when i come back from outside, making me my favorite foods)

Days like that give her the hope to live

. May your wife saved wasakh.

 

[Kingjames]

@Mercury you need to assert dominance and beat her from time to time to ensure her loyalty

You need to beat her "near-daily" Thats the most important part, finding the balance of when to beat her. If you beat her everyday she will resent you and will feel like a piece of meat, she would just be a zombie going through life. Thats not what the aim of the beatings is. She must be in a constant state of nervous bewilderment, kept on her toes as to whether today Im going to be hot or cold with her, thats how all her sweetness and submissive side comes out. Its not about the actual beatings, its the work to break her mind and make her happy to be your inferior. This only comes with perfect timing. On days where I dont hit her, she is completely and utterly devotional to me (giving me foot massages, running to hug me when i come back from outside, making me my favorite foods)

Days like that give her the hope to live

I hope her family finds out so they can beat you up. Abaha waase

 

[Shamis]

Good point. Well said. What happened to your previous marriage? Mine fell apart because white women have an expiration date no matter how well put together they are at the beginning of your marriage. My last two marriages ended because they both claimed I was cheating, and a stupid judge believed them and helped them rob me of my earnings. I'm still paying one of them.

Exportation date? You mean looks? I'm confused.

You'll find someone but don't be shallow.

He just wasn't right for me. It's hard to go into in public.

 

[Etacovda S'lived]

Exportation date? You mean looks? I'm confused.

You'll find someone but don't be shallow.

He just wasn't right for me. It's hard to go into in public.

Not just looks. Personality too. They’re normal until you’re a few years in.

Did he beat you? Was he limp in bed? Did he smell?

 

[Shamis]

Not just looks. Personality too. They’re normal until you’re a few years in.

Did he beat you? Was he limp in bed? Did he smell?

Stop dating them then. To be fair to them, marriage can change people.

He was mentally abusive.

 

[DeadStar]

Stop dating them then. To be fair to them, marriage can change people.

He was mentally abusive.

Mmmh..

 

[Mercury]

@Mercury you need to assert dominance and beat her from time to time to ensure her loyalty

You need to beat her "near-daily" Thats the most important part, finding the balance of when to beat her. If you beat her everyday she will resent you and will feel like a piece of meat, she would just be a zombie going through life. Thats not what the aim of the beatings is. She must be in a constant state of nervous bewilderment, kept on her toes as to whether today Im going to be hot or cold with her, thats how all her sweetness and submissive side comes out. Its not about the actual beatings, its the work to break her mind and make her happy to be your inferior. This only comes with perfect timing. On days where I dont hit her, she is completely and utterly devotional to me (giving me foot massages, running to hug me when i come back from outside, making me my favorite foods)

Days like that give her the hope to live

 

[agnes]

@Mercury you need to assert dominance and beat her from time to time to ensure her loyalty

You need to beat her "near-daily" Thats the most important part, finding the balance of when to beat her. If you beat her everyday she will resent you and will feel like a piece of meat, she would just be a zombie going through life. Thats not what the aim of the beatings is. She must be in a constant state of nervous bewilderment, kept on her toes as to whether today Im going to be hot or cold with her, thats how all her sweetness and submissive side comes out. Its not about the actual beatings, its the work to break her mind and make her happy to be your inferior. This only comes with perfect timing. On days where I dont hit her, she is completely and utterly devotional to me (giving me foot massages, running to hug me when i come back from outside, making me my favorite foods)

Days like that give her the hope to live

You're truly evil.