In Defence of Mercury

[Etacovda S'lived]

What do you make of the western family courts and divorce courts? Do you think they favour women or men?

Western divorce courts are deplorable and unfair. They favour women. Why did you ask?

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

Western divorce courts are deplorable and unfair. They favour women. Why did you ask?

Why would you settle down in the west when you know at anytime your other half can just up and leave with you property savings and children denying access to them?

 

[DeadStar]

Your face is khasaaro sxb. Your genes let you down. But a man is not judged by the distance in cm between eyes or facial structure. As they say, it’s not the size of the dog that matters but the size of the fight in the dog. Your questionable appearance is not unique. The most famous Somali actor got his job for his bad looks.

Now let me disagree with your critique of @Shamis. I heard she went through a lot and suffered at the hands of a useless deadbeat husband. Her argument comes from a good place but is misguided.

I am confused wallahi.
Who said anything about my looks.

Is my picture bothering you saaxib?


If anyone has a right to insult me its @Shamis but you insulting me is just ironic wallahi.


@Cognitivedissonance we got an updated version of mercury on our hands saaxib.

 

[Etacovda S'lived]

Why would you settle down in the west when you know at anytime your other half can just up and leave with you property savings and children denying access to them?

I am 44. I was born and raised in the west. I have 6 kids from 3 white women and I haven’t contacted them in years. I’m not a proponent of settling in the west but I’m a lost cause sxb.

 

[Etacovda S'lived]

I am confused wallahi.
Who said anything about my looks.

Is my picture bothering you saaxib?


If anyone has a right to insult me its @Shamis but you insulting me is just ironic wallahi.


@Cognitivedissonance we got an updated version of mercury on our hands saaxib.

You missed the point sxb. Calling shamis khasaaro was a red line for me. I don’t give a shit about your pic lol.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

I am 44. I was born and raised in the west. I have 6 kids from 3 white women and I haven’t contacted them in years. I’m not a proponent of settling in the west but I’m a lost cause sxb.

Shaidanka Iska naar that’s what he wants you to believe boowe like lauryn hill said why be a hard rock when you really are a gem as the saying goes home is where the heart is.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

You missed the point sxb. Calling shamis khasaaro was a red line for me. I don’t give a shit about your pic lol.

Why diss him shamis is the one talking about her mother is too old to cook qumayoda I don’t even think she’s human maxa weeye a translucent being from another dimension described in the book of Genesis Jezebel spirit weeye

 

[DeadStar]

You missed the point sxb. Calling shamis khasaaro was a red line for me. I don’t give a shit about your pic lol.

What red line waryaa??!


Are you her father?!
Are you her mother?!
Are you the husband?!
Are you her cousin?!
Are you her brother?!
How old are you?!


Bro.... You made this thread insulting niggaz you dont know.

Did you slide in her dms and asked her about her ex?!


How do you know her ex was a dead beat dad?!
Do you personally know @Shamis and her ex?!

So many questions wallahi.


You made this thread thinking you were smart but it back fired on your dumb ass.


Log off and think of your existence saaxib.

 

[Shamis]

He wasn't a dead beat dad but he was a shitty husband.

 

[Mercury]

Men who leave their families when they need them most are truly the scourge of the earth. Their kids miss out on an opportunity to know and love their dad, and the wife is betrayed and left alone raising kids and feeding them.

Clearly men who fall into this category are an embarrassment to the males of our species. There are a few proponents of this deadbeat culture on sspot, @Cognitivedissonance being chief among them . I would like to throughly condemn him and all others who espouse the same nonsense. They are so brazen that they attack @Mercury, arguably one the few responsible Somali dads in the world.

But there is a problem I need to address which is the subject of this thread. You see, Mercury is not the exact opposite of the pro-deadbeat father side. Unfortunately he takes it a bit too far to the point I disagree with him.

In his universe, anything that goes wrong is the man’s fault, thereby removing any responsibility or accountability of the female counterpart. This inevitably leads to the woman taking advantage of you and taking liberties. If you don’t set obvious red lines, she will walk all over you. People are like that. Give them an inch and they’ll want a mile. @Mercury seems to not mind this lifestyle. He thinks any disagreement or line in the sand is a major no no.

I hereby call on @Mercury to change his naivety and wickedness and grow a spine. I know your intentions are good but cmon sxb.

First of Men and Women both got rights over another one of them is being kind to one another

If both of you are working and you come home before her and prepare the dinner nobody is taken advantage of

If she makes money and instead of spending it on the family saving it nobody is taken advantage of cause Islamically shes obliged to spend it how she wants

Islam has given many rights to women yet people ignore them

 

[Shamis]

You should stay home and let him work. Care for the children and house chores. I’m a mid forties man whose never left Europe but I am finally getting in touch with my roots.

My job is my life. Without it I'd be depressed and poorer. My fiance earns more than me but I would hate to ask him for money and have to budget on his paycheck every month.

 

[Kingjames]

@Mercury which part of Sweden do you live in nigga? Because i think they put estrogen in the water where you live, let me avoid that place


@Shamis continue working and getting that money, don't listen to the niggas that are saying to stay at the house.

 

[DeadStar]

My job is my life. Without it I'd be depressed and poorer. My fiance earns more than me but I would hate to ask him for money and have to budget on his paycheck every month.

Anyways i am praying for your union with your husband.
It looks like your winning coz

Jilibka hadaa uu laabtidh i think he would still be happy.

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[Shamis]

Anyways i am praying for your union with your husband.
It looks like your winning coz

Jilibka hadaa uu laabtidh i think he would still be happy.

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I think I understand. He's very liberal btw very liberal.

 

[DeadStar]

I think I understand. He's very liberal btw very liberal.

Explain it to me then.

 

[Etacovda S'lived]

My job is my life. Without it I'd be depressed and poorer. My fiance earns more than me but I would hate to ask him for money and have to budget on his paycheck every month.

I must respectfully disagree sister. Put your faith in your man and see what you get. Allah will provide for you if you are a good wife to your husband and a good mother to your children. I don't really believe in Allah but I really believe this. Men and women are different. They are different for a reason.

 

[Mercury]

@Mercury which part of Sweden do you live in nigga? Because i think they put estrogen in the water where you live, let me avoid that place


@Shamis continue working and getting that money, don't listen to the niggas that are saying to stay at the house.

Meel fariiso mulatto

 

[DuctTape]

What the hell has @Mercury done wrong?
Everything he's saying is very reasonable and understanding.
What @VixR was saying in an earlier thread is 100% accurate, he looks like a saint in comparison to the rest of the khasaaros who are more concerned with their machismo and not looking like a "cuck" than actually contributing in their household.
She said that his opinions would not garner a second look out in the real world, but out here he looks absolutely perfect in comparison to the rest of you.
Wallahi I 100% agree. This guy is being hounded for not having these insane views one way or the other and he's being labelled as a spineless pussy who will bend over backwards for anyone with two X chromosomes.
Fix up.

 

[GlitzyCue_]

What the hell has @Mercury done wrong?
Everything he's saying is very reasonable and understanding.
What @VixR was saying in an earlier thread is 100% accurate, he looks like a saint in comparison to the rest of the khasaaros who are more concerned with their machismo and not looking like a "cuck" than actually contributing in their household.
She said that his opinions would not garner a second look out in the real world, but out here he looks absolutely perfect in comparison to the rest of you.
Wallahi I 100% agree. This guy is being hounded for not having these insane views one way or the other and he's being labelled as a spineless pussy who will bend over backwards for anyone with two X chromosomes.
Fix up.

I’m sure @Mercury could care less
Home boy getting married soon


@Etacovda S'lived are you @Bidaar Wanagsan ?

 

[Mercury]

What the hell has @Mercury done wrong?
Everything he's saying is very reasonable and understanding.
What @VixR was saying in an earlier thread is 100% accurate, he looks like a saint in comparison to the rest of the khasaaros who are more concerned with their machismo and not looking like a "cuck" than actually contributing in their household.
She said that his opinions would not garner a second look out in the real world, but out here he looks absolutely perfect in comparison to the rest of you.
Wallahi I 100% agree. This guy is being hounded for not having these insane views one way or the other and he's being labelled as a spineless pussy who will bend over backwards for anyone with two X chromosomes.
Fix up.

Thank you! Atleast you can see the bigger picture like @VixR

I stopped caring what people think about me ages ago lol

The things I mention arent that commandable But people here make it seem like a big thing