@Testo 21 Hada waxan ku bara
Gabar xoog iyo amar ma loo adeegsado. Caqli iyo hadal macaan aa wax lugu toosiya. You want something or decided on something for example. Instead of saying “do this or we are gonna do this”, say “ qalbi what do you think we should do, I was thinking we should do this, what are your thoughts?” Gabartaada hada la tashatid kalsooni bii kugu yeelinaysa.
2) Ciyalnimo hada waa ka gudubtay. You have to be the man of the house, you have to be a model for your wife and kids and be the best man you can become. Marriage is a responsibility and having children is a responsibility. Practice your deen, work for your families future and be a pillar that they can lean on.
3) And finally Patience. Marriage isn’t all happy, you will have bad days and good. Just be patient and don’t let little arguments turn into big prolonged arguments. If you have a fight in the morning, at night reconcile.
4) And bro pls let your wife and you have a rule that you keep everything ‘in house’. Don’t air your business to no one, even your mum,siblings or friends. Too many hands and outside voices in a marriage is a recipe for disaster. Sort your issues out between yourselves, that’s how you build communication and learn conflict resolution.
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will you be inviting people from sspot to your wedding? 
will you keep posting on here ?
