CALMONE20###
Roots in Somaliland + Somali Region ✝️
Does it mean that you and that person are close relatives
If you're from the same sub tribe does that mean you are related ?
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CALMONE20###
Roots in Somaliland + Somali Region ✝️
How about same sub sub tribe
CALMONE20###
Roots in Somaliland + Somali Region ✝️
Like,say someone marries from the same sub tribe ,for example, habarjeclo marrying habarjeclo.
Abu Hesi
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That's fine, you are related but not close.
What about reer diini or Wagardhac?
Khaem
VIP
Welcome back
Even that would be too far. I think if you have a subclan that's within 5 generations, then you can consider them close relatives. Anything beyond that is not that close.
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Gacmeey
Madaxweynaha Qurbo Joogta 🇸🇴
You related but whether you are close relatives depends on how far back you have to go to reach a common ancestor
again, youre more closely related but it could still be a very distant cousin. really depends on how big the sub sub clan is
To know how close or far people are based on subclan alone is misleading. You could be indirectly related to people through a variety of ways. Generally, you will know of your first and second cousins sometimes even further in relation but it can be a little dicey.
Unless someone is my relative (known) or Its been determined through relations I can map out, or they show up on 23andme then we aren't related even if we're from the same clan.
Unless someone is my relative (known) or Its been determined through relations I can map out, or they show up on 23andme then we aren't related even if we're from the same clan.
When Somali boys are sent back home for dhaqan-celis (rehabilitation) purposes, I saw their parents getting them to marry girls back home as part of their efforts to make sure their sons were rehabilitated. What I didn't know Somali girls getting the same thing also when they are sent back home for dhaqan-celis purposes. It seems a new trend started for the girls as well.
Khaem
VIP
You know I wouldn't mind that, just that I would be lacking in formal education to I prefer to stay here until I get my education finished with.
What are these parents trying to rehabilitate they kids for? Sending them off to a different continent won't stop them being delinquents. They just won't get supervised as well. Somali parents should start leaving these bad areas that we tend to cluster in. You just can't raise a child in a gang infested counsil housed neighbourhood without risking them getting involved in that crap. You may say that you'll raise them differently but many don't understand that the streets raise you child as well, the child will not only learn from the parents but also from their surroundings and community. If their surroundings are ghetto gangs then they will adapt and become like that.
You are delusional. Somali girls are not being sent back home to marry Somali guys.
You were sent back home to the cilaaj as well even though you were a grown up woman
You described how the guy over there used to beat you up and other girls there as part of his effort to get the jinn out of you.
That’s always been a thing. I’ve even meet some who were very happy with their fob husbands, whilst others it’s a traumatic experience. As for the guys haven’t met any who’ve been traumatized from being married back home, but I’ve heard of a few who’ve traumatized the poor girl instead.
But some women (or girls for that matter) didn't get any hubby when they were sent back home for dhaqan-celis purposes. Case in point: @HabarSteven12.
Can you ponder why? As you can see, the dhaqan-celis didn't work out for her. 
