If you had a daughter what do you

If you had a daughter what advice do you think you would advice her just before she gets married?

1)I think I would advice my future daughter (one day InshAllah) to always make Allah SWT number one

2) To love herself, flaws and all. To remind herself that she is a queen and she should carry herself as such. To always take care of her physical and mental health

3) To always maintain her personal hygiene and have her house in a clean/orderly manner

4) To love her husband in a healthy way

5) To make her husband feel respected

6) When he comes home from work, make sure that your house is a home where he can forget the difficulties of this world and that she should embrace him with love and comfort

7) To try and never talk badly about her husband to anyone, try and solve issues amongst yourselves and if that’s not working, then ask me or her Dad to mediate

8) To always be respectful and welcoming to his family but to also keep a healthy distance

9)To make sure that he looks good/presentable whenever he goes outside because they way he dresses/looks is a representation of what kind of wife you are

10) To be playful and often laugh with her husband

11) To listen and communicate in a healthy way and to try and not go to sleep angry at each other

12) No matter how angry you get at him, never deprive him of two things, his home made meals and his laundry lol
 

Dalmoor

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I'll tell her to practice social distancing when she sees a guy that's
  • Uneducated and is proud of it
  • Has no deen
  • Drinks because he's depressed
  • Sleeps with other naago and has all kinds of STD's(I'll help her do background check on a guy if she needs help doing it lol)
  • Qabilist
  • Disrespects women
  • Abusive, etc
I could go on and list more but she'll be too smart to know who to avoid.
 
I'll tell her to practice social distancing when she sees a guy that's
  • Uneducated and is proud of it
  • Has no deen
  • Drinks because he's depressed
  • Sleeps with other naago and has all kinds of STD's(I'll help her do background check on a guy if she needs help doing it lol)
  • Qabilist
  • Disrespects women
  • Abusive, etc
I could go on and list more but she'll be too smart to know who to avoid.
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I will not let her talk to non mahram until I find her the right man and will check guy backround adn sees what kind person he is his manner job is he virgin or not does he have criminal backround after is done and and he is clear and clean i then let them to get to know each other and advise my daughter to never be depend on him when it comes working tht he can't deny her right to working and buying land business owning house business and tht he can't deny her to visit or be with her some on weekends or not weekends days
And also will tell about sex what husband and wife should do and tht don't do oral sex cuz tht is disgusting and I think is not Islamic
And Ofc last ask meher tht is reasonable like 10k for financial support when divorce comes like dowry
And tell her take care of me and her mother when we reach a old age cuz tht is parents right
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Karim

I could agree with you but then we’d both be wrong
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Daughters are precious, they come with great rewards and blessings. If you offer care, love, support and education to your daughter, Paradise awaits you.

I would give her all the advices above and I would urge her to be submissive and obedient to her husband. That way she can easily book her ticket to the heavens.
 
Daughters are precious, they come with great rewards and blessings. If you offer care, love, support and education to your daughter, Paradise awaits you.

I would give her all the advices above and I would urge her to be submissive and obedient to her husband. That way she can easily book her ticket to the heavens.

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Desert you are the type of xalimo who's fierce until you get wifed up and then you'll become a submissive wife to the point you even massage his luugo baasto when he arrives home from work :mjlol:
Shame on you to think that I’d consider a fella who skips leg day. I thought you knew me better than that. Guess not. :kodaksmiley:
 

inflorescence

The Horn ~~~
7) To try and never talk badly about her husband to anyone, try and solve issues amongst yourselves and if that’s not working, then ask me or her Dad to mediate

Yeah. I've noticed when you complain about your partner to your friends & family. They'll 100% remember it, even after you've solved that problem with your spouse. Depending on the issue they'll side eye your spouse for a long time.
 

Phiirso

Getting draids inshallah
I'll raise my daughter to think logically over emotionally, something we can all beneift from. Anything more, experience is a better teacher.
 

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