If you died would you want your wife to remarry?

[Yahya]

Thoughts and opinions please. Imo part of me wouldn't mind but then my gheerah makes me disagree with this slightly. Firstly I wouldn't trust anyone else raising my kids and having them call him aabo, that in itself would personally make me roll over in my grave. Then again it would be a lonely life without a spouse especially if I died young and therefore this would be a worst case scenario in which remarrying would be the logical thing.

In conclusion I don't know how I'd process such a thing, I guess since I would be dead and resting in my garden of bliss in my grave I wouldn't really be bothered by it but in life it's something that I think about at night. Islamically spouses have a right to remarry after their significant other passes away. What do you guys think?

 

[Lahaine]

I don't mind her remarrying if she died I would remarry too

 

[Qeelbax]

I don’t know how I feel about this.

 

[Yahya]

I don’t know how I feel about this.

It's difficult isn't it. Also Islamically the wife would have to choose which husband she would like to remarry on judgement day. That kind of moral conundrum is the last thing I'd need on judgement day.

 

[Ozymandias]

Nah I don't want my woman alone, she's a human too , we don't own our significant other

 

[Farax Jamac Somalicus]

Absolutely not, she belongs to me in life and death. If she gets with another man after my death, I'm haunting her .

 

[Qeelbax]

It's difficult isn't it. Also Islamically the wife would have to choose which husband she would like to remarry on judgement day. That kind of moral conundrum is the last thing I'd need on judgement day.

Wait what now? We have to choose? Why can’t we have both then? I thought we got everything we wanted in Jannah.

Idk if I could remarry if I loved my husband but if he would then I have no reason to be loyal. Cadaans say things like “ I can’t deprive my children of a mom/dad, you can remarry if I die” and I’m not like that. No way in Heaven or Hell.

Raise them alone, I will be their only mom

 

[Qeelbax]

Absolutely not, she belongs to me in life and death. If she gets with another man after my death, I'm haunting her .

I’m sending all my jinns his way

 

[Kisame]

f*ck NO!!! I want to see her in hell alongside me so I'm not lonely.


She's need to commit seppuku as soon as I die.

Luckily for me I somehow seem to attract crazy women. So I can easily find a women this obsessed with me.


I'm trying to be like this with my Boo

 

[wonyluvr]

f*ck NO!!! I want to see her in hell alongside me so I'm not lonely.


She's need to commit seppuku as soon as I die.

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Luckily for me I somehow seem to attract crazy women. So I can easily find a women this obsessed with me.


I'm trying to be like this with my Boo

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SELENA WHY SHE IN THAT GIF

 

[TekNiKo]

Of course I wouldn’t like it but I am dead she can do as she pleases its not like you can stop her..

 

[Arkan]

You can't stop whatever's written from happening. I'd be more worried about what awaits me in the afterlife than what my wife does.

 

[Lostbox]

I don't care. I'm dead. I'm either in afterlife or I'm don't exist. I'm not on this realm anyway. What's the point of caring? We both agreed, if one of us dies early to live happily.

While she want to be remembered. I told her to through my body in the trash

 

[El Nino]

I will be on my death bed begging her to remain single, eyes wide and tears flowing

 

[Keep it a boqol]

If she gets remarried she never really loved you bro

 

[HuunoHunter]

I have no use for anything in this world once I have returned to my Lord.

Be more worried about what awaits you ahead instead of looking back on this fleeting existence.

May Allah protect us from his anger on that day.

اَللّٰهُمَّ إِنِّيْ أَعُوْذُ بِكَ مِنَ الْبُخْلِ ، وَأَعُوْذُ بِكَ مِنَ الْجُبْنِ ، وَأَعُوْذُ بِكَ مِنْ أَنْ أُرَدَّ إِلَىٰ أَرْذَلِ الْعُمُرِ ، وَأَعُوْذُ بِكَ مِنْ فِتْنَةِ الدُّنْيَا ، وأَعُوْذُ بِكَ مِنْ عَذَابِ الْقَبْرِ.

 

[AbrahamFreedom]

If she gets remarried she never really loved you bro

There are so many people whose spouses have died and they never got a new partner even though they could easily get one. It's true anyone who does never loved you or they never had the chance to have kids.

 

[n1zen]

doesn't matter!

 

[HabarSteven12]

I will be on my death bed begging her to remain single, eyes wide and tears flowing

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Ina adeer Ilaahay cimri dheer iyo caafimad haku siiyo

 

[Fobnimo Till I Dhimo]

Nin dhintay kabihiisa ayaa dhaama

Also, don't underestimate women's ability to move on quickly