You don't need marriage to Foster those kids and help them succeed. OR are you waiting for your future partner to pay their bills instead of you?Inshallah when I get married I will sponsor/foster Somali children.
We cannot let these predators get hold of our children. This is when the qabiil system should kick in! Not to fight or abuse others, but to protect each other. If a child's parent is unfit, the closest relative/s should step in.