An 'Oxymoron' example in the dictionary should be 'Feminist Muslim'.
I cringe when I hear that Sheit! Confused Mofos!
That being said, it is not feminism for Xalimos to expect Faaraxs to help out domestically. At the end of the day, no one is asking us to pick up most of the slack if the wife is mostly at home. Moreover, women are Masha Allah more giving generally, even in non-Muslim households they are more sacrificial when it comes to domestic chores, dealing with bills etc. Some empathy and assistance does not hurt. If it takes 2 incomes to raise a family in the West for most, then it surely requires traditional gender roles to be revised in light of the extenuating circumstances forced upon families in the West.
You either work as a team or sink into a toxic marriage followed by divorce.
The above is dependent on finding a decent human being. If it is not destined, accept your fate that you married a Cu.nT!