I will get married soon

[_Yusuf_]

You’re a jahil of the highest order. How the hell is a divorced woman unchaste? If you prefer virgin women that’s on you, but to say someone who has had a halal marriage is unchaste is wild without measure. Unchaste means someone who lost their virginity outside of marriage you fool.

As for that Hadith Jabir was a young man who was also a virgin. He was literally a teenager who married an older non virgin, whilst you’re a married man. Get out of here. At least look at the context of the Hadith whilst you’re a married man looking for a second wife.

Also, Islamically it’s also Sunnah for women to marry unmarried men of a similar age like that of the Hadith of Fatima and the Prophet s.a.w rejecting the proposals of older married Sahabas in favor of Ali.



خطب أبو بكر وعمر فاطمة، فقالرسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم: إنهاصغيرة. فخطبها علي، فزوجها منه.
Abu Bakr and ‘Umar proposed to Fatimah. The Prophet salla Llahu ‘alayhi wa sallam said, “She is (still) young.” Later, ‘Ali proposed to her and he salla Llahu ‘alayhi wa sallam married her to him.


Source: Sunan al-Nasā’ī 3221

Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani

Al-Qari said, “The meaning is that she was too young to be suitable for the older age of Abu Bakr and Umar, so the Prophet married her to Ali, who was of suitable age.”

Source: Mirqāt al-Mafātīḥ 6104

عَنْ بُرَيْدَة قَالَ خَطَبَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ وَعُمَرُ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا فَاطِمَةَ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِنَّهَا صَغِيرَةٌ فَخَطَبَهَا عَلِيٌّ فَزَوَّجَهَا مِنْهُ

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I figured unchaste and non-virgin were the same honest mistake. Never meant to say those women engage in extramarital relations. Still preferable to marry a virgin as best option.

Islam QA analysis claims marry virgin is sunnah

 

[Angelina]

I figured unchaste and non-virgin were the same honest mistake. Never meant to say those women engage in extramarital relations. Still preferable to marry a virgin as best option.

I’m over this topic. Wish you the best. It’s Ramadan soon.