I will get married soon

[wonyluvr]

You know what sis, those kids back home act like little adults. I've noticed they're far smarter than kids in the diaspora when it comes to being street-wise and having an expansive vocabulary. That said, I do worry about the lack of education and I hate to see a girl get married without securing a high school diploma at the bare minimum.

Some people back home don’t even go to school it’s a big problem.There’s no mandatory education that’s why marriage is so common for teenagers the education system back home must be fixed

 

[Kisame]

But you're fishing in secondary schools.

I remember creeps like you when I was in secondary schools, lurking behind the gates, trying to entice girls with a few shillings and a rusty car. Knowing full well that the girls their age, would laugh at them.

Oh that’s not bad but 20 is fine you are literally 23

No wonder this guy never answered my questions about child marriage. This mf is an actual pedo

 

[wonyluvr]

No wonder this guy never answered my questions about child marriage. This mf is an actual pedo

He should think this through srsly

 

[_Yusuf_]

First of all, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23 etc, etc, is still young.
Secondly, purity isn't determined by age, but by faith, (unless someone was assaulted, Allah forbid).
Thirdly, people get what they deserve, a chase woman for a chaste man and vice versa. No amount of little girl chasing, will change this.

In Somalia man can marry 17 year old woman. That’s hala, so what the big deal?

 

[JamalFarah]

Our outrage comes from a specific preference 16-18 from a guy aged 23. We cannot pretend that this is normal. Because what happens to a girl above 18? Besides achieving a high-school diploma and maturing slightly more?

I did mention in my original post that it seemed weird. I have limited knowledge about the man, aside from his less insightful posts in the Somali politics section.

In my largely unfounded opinion, its the influence of red-pill podcasts and influencers causing him and many others to believe that women, as they age, "become worse."

This belief is unfounded. Both women and men tend to be at their most immature in the closing years of their late teens and early twenties. Hormones are coursing through their veins, newfound freedoms, and a lack of experience often lead to a lot of mistakes. Contradiciting their believes.

There is also an element of paranoia involved. The older a woman is, the less some men tend to trust the truthfulness of her chastity, using language like "she's been longer on the market."

This perception is perpetuated by figures like "sheikh" Andrew Tate, who is hilariously already backtracking from his conversion to Islam. His and the other charlatans business are based on misogyny and gender wars.

Most of these ideas perpetuate harmful stereotypes that only contribute to the gender wars in our already heavily divided and tribalistic culture.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

I did mention in my original post that it seemed weird. I have limited knowledge about the man, aside from his less insightful posts in the Somali politics section.

In my largely unfounded opinion, its the influence of red-pill podcasts and influencers causing him and many others to believe that women, as they age, "become worse."

This belief is unfounded. Both women and men tend to be at their most immature in the closing years of their late teens and early twenties. Hormones are coursing through their veins, newfound freedoms, and a lack of experience often lead to a lot of mistakes. Contradiciting their believes.

There is also an element of paranoia involved. The older a woman is, the less some men tend to trust the truthfulness of her chastity, using language like "she's been longer on the market."

This perception is perpetuated by figures like "sheikh" Andrew Tate, who is hilariously already backtracking from his conversion to Islam. His and the other charlatans business are based on misogyny.

Most of these ideas perpetuate harmful stereotypes that only contribute to the gender wars in our already heavily divided and tribalistic culture.

Oh 100% facts.

I know ladies in their 30s who are single, virgins, who get accused of being Zaniyahs by their male counterparts. A lot of them seem to have trouble believing that there are women who don't fornicate. It's absolutely true, that the older we get the more we can control ourselves. On the bright side, men who consume red-pill content, or even ascribe to far older sexist beliefs, aren't worth lamenting over. Let them be paranoid. I just wish they stayed away from little girls too, but here we are.

 

[Kisame]

I agree, I noticed this discussion heading towards extreme stances, with one asserting that women above 20 are too old, while another seemed to be insinuating labeling him as a pedophile, despite the fact that the prophets married women of similar or younger ages.

Fortunately, Islam grants women the autonomy to decide when they want to get married, and they should fully exercise that right to marry at the age of their choice.

You are always the right age when you get married.

The niggas with the extreme views are all low iq niggas that need to be exterminated.

 

[Kisame]

Some people back home don’t even go to school it’s a big problem.There’s no mandatory education that’s why marriage is so common for teenagers the education system back home must be fixed

A decent amount of niggas prefer it this way because they want us to have a big population. Uneducated poor people breed the most.

 

[_Yusuf_]

I did mention in my original post that it seemed weird. I have limited knowledge about the man, aside from his less insightful posts in the Somali politics section.

In my largely unfounded opinion, its the influence of red-pill podcasts and influencers causing him and many others to believe that women, as they age, "become worse."

This belief is unfounded. Both women and men tend to be at their most immature in the closing years of their late teens and early twenties. Hormones are coursing through their veins, newfound freedoms, and a lack of experience often lead to a lot of mistakes. Contradiciting their believes.

There is also an element of paranoia involved. The older a woman is, the less some men tend to trust the truthfulness of her chastity, using language like "she's been longer on the market."

This perception is perpetuated by figures like "sheikh" Andrew Tate, who is hilariously already backtracking from his conversion to Islam. His and the other charlatans business are based on misogyny and gender wars.

Most of these ideas perpetuate harmful stereotypes that only contribute to the gender wars in our already heavily divided and tribalistic culture.

Imma give you two options. The first girl is 25 lives in America has her own car. Using social media heavy (big snap score). She has a lot of autonomy to move around without any supervision.

The other option is a Somali girl who lives in (X) please related to your clan back home. Good family bond, watched her whole life. Is 18.

I not gonna lie I’m trusting the chastity of the ladder more. I’ve seen too many horror story. I refuse to be the goof that settles down with the sister that has a “past”.

 

[mohammdov]

@mohammdov , you're not telling us why you have this specific type. And thus, we are all here, trying to guess what it is.

I told you I want a long, healthy marriage The previous girl was a year older than me and asked for 150 grams and her family started causing problems with my family
That's why I changed the age and region so that there would be no problems between the two families I am a man who saw his friend get married 8 months and then divorce another Only two months That's why I don't want this to happen to me
Things are different here, and I told you that she will graduate this year, so I am waiting for her
And please close this topic. You are saying I'm a pedophile.??!What you are saying is crazy.
I'm a teacher and I never even thought about this

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Imma give you two options. The first girl is 25 lives in America has her own car. Using social media heavy (big snap score). She has a lot of autonomy to move around without any supervision.

The other option is a Somali girl who lives in (X) please related to your clan back home. Good family bond, watched her whole life. Is 18.

I not gonna lie I’m trusting the chastity of the ladder more. I’ve seen too many horror story. I refuse to be the goof that settles down with the sister that has a “past”.

Are you a virgin.

 

[Ximan iyo Xadeed]

It depends actually, but nah you don’t be single and start giving advises and telling people who’s about to get married what’s right and wrong…because did you looked at your self at the mirror first?

Unmarried =/= bad/undesirable

I had an amazing unmarried aunt AUN marriage isn't a be all end all thing, its rizq from Allah SWT .

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

I told you I want a long, healthy marriage The previous girl was a year older than me and asked for 150 grams and her family started causing problems with my family
That's why I changed the age and region so that there would be no problems between the two families I am a man who saw his friend get married 8 months and then divorce another Only two months That's why I don't want this to happen to me
Things are different here, and I told you that she will graduate this year, so I am waiting for her
And please close this topic. I am a pedophile. What you are saying is crazy.
I'm a teacher and I never even thought about this

The one that is 1 year older, asked for a large meher. So did you think a much younger girl would not ask for a large meher?

You even expressed gratitude at part of the meher being returned to you.

So. Again, I ask. Do you think younger girls are more 'affordable'?

 

[Dalac Bilaash]

I don't think you should ruin the life of that young girl you're grown man you must go and find a girl same as age as yours or 1 or 2 years younger than you

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Unmarried =/= bad/undesirable

I had an amazing unmarried aunt AUN marriage isn't a be all end all thing, its rizq from Allah SWT .

That's how sexists think. They believe a woman has no worth, unless she is catering to a man.
Don't hurt his brain by mentioning things like 'rizq'.

These kind of people, think that people decide themselves when they marry, have children, die etc.

 

[_Yusuf_]

Are you a virgin.

No already married. I did what described already. I’m a Hala guy never did a drug in my life either. Going to have my firstborn this month. I’m (21)

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

No already married. I did what described already. I’m a Hala guy never did a drug in my life either. Going to have my firstborn this month.

Were you a virgin before marriage.

 

[KaiMarvin]

I dont know how yall do it honestly. at 26 shukaansying a 20yo college student felt soo wrong.
she was fine asf too but that horrible feeling in my stomach never went away

leave them kids alone

 

[_Yusuf_]

Were you a virgin before marriage.

Ofcouse.

 

[Ximan iyo Xadeed]

That's how sexists think. They believe a woman has no worth, unless she is catering to a man.
Don't hurt his brain by mentioning things like 'rizq'.

These kind of people, think that people decide themselves when they marry, have children, die etc.

Some of the most amazing pious people in my family were without caruur