I will get married soon

[mohammdov]

Are you telling me you born bred there in motherland? I always thought you a diaspora nigga

Haaheey I find this place by chance

 

[Aseer]

no nobody is any of that it’s just that she hasn’t finished her education

I don't understand what you are saying can you rephrase that?

 

[Richard Pearson]

this is not something to joke about,
I mean political and qabiil things

If you being serious akhi meet me at Al Yemen Al Saeed in the summer and we will discuss finding me a wife as well I will pay you a scouting fee.

 

[wonyluvr]

It's heartbreaking walahi. I am very grateful for My father, who encouraged my mother to study, he even wanted her to get a Doctorate. He extended the same energy to his daughters.

This is why I warn women to choose the right man, to be the father of their children. Don't settle for a sexist, they'll ruin your life, and the life of your entire bloodline.

I agree abayo education is a must it is a right not a privilege

 

[mohammdov]

Guys is it paedophilia on the girls side if she is like 19 or 20 and the guy she is marrying is like 17?

War cadaanka ku waalee yaanay siwaakhroonku kaa yaabin
Everyone gets married early here, we are not in the West

 

[JamalFarah]

You can't negotiate when you will have children, condoms break/fail, and accidents happen. Once a couple gets married, they should mentally prepare for a baby.

Saudi Arabia has a law that states girls must be over 18, because they recognise the importance of an education. But of course, there is a stipulation to please certain people.

As Muslims, our highest authority should be the Quran and Sunnah, and if we are to refer to any legal framework, it should be the civil law of Somaliland, where Mohammedov resides.

While I don't necessarily disagree with your comment, for example your right; it's important to recognize that the will of Allah determines the efficacy of any protections.

Again, it is strictly forbidden for us to prohibit something deemed permissible in Islam. Mohammedovs marriage and marriage like his are permissible, and our religion speaks favourable about getting married young.

 

[wonyluvr]

I don't understand what you are saying can you rephrase that?

mo has finished his education good for him the girl he’s marrying hasn’t she should finish her education before marrying him so that in the future if she wishes she can get a job that she sees fit

 

[wonyluvr]

As Muslims, our highest authority should be the Quran and Sunnah, and if we are to refer to any legal framework, it should be the civil law of Somaliland, where Mohammedov resides.

While I don't necessarily disagree with your comment, for example your right; it's important to recognize that the will of Allah determines the efficacy of any protections.

Again, it is strictly forbidden for us to prohibit something deemed permissible in Islam. Mohammedovs marriage and marriage like his are permissible, and our religion speaks favourable about getting married young.

I just want the girl to finish her education that’s all as I previously stated I saw for myself how much girls regretted not finishing their education

 

[_Yusuf_]

It's a made up marriage Honestly it is better than love marriage Loving a girl you don't know and who doesn't know anything about her family is not a good idea.
Last year, I was going to get married I thought we liked each other But problems come between her and my family She also asked for 150 grams of gold then I told her iska tag inader

This girl is from ceerigaabo and I went to her and met her She is 17 years old, so I will now get engaged to her and move her to Hargeisa After a few months

Mabrook

 

[mohammdov]

If you being serious akhi meet me at Al Yemen Al Saeed in the summer and we will discuss finding me a wife as well I will pay you a scouting fee.

insha'Allah It's easy I live in Masalaha Near the airport, come there and I'll take you to our geel

 

[JamalFarah]

I just want the girl to finish her education that’s all as I previously stated I saw for myself how much girls regretted not finishing their education

I agree, I noticed this discussion heading towards extreme stances, with one asserting that women above 20 are too old, while another seemed to be insinuating labeling him as a pedophile, despite the fact that the prophets married women of similar or younger ages.

Fortunately, Islam grants women the autonomy to decide when they want to get married, and they should fully exercise that right to marry at the age of their choice.

You are always the right age when you get married.

 

[_Yusuf_]

But you're fishing in secondary schools.

I remember when I was in secondary schools, with creeps lurking behind the gates, trying to entice girls with a few shillings and a car. Knowing full well that the girls their age, would laugh at them.

Why are you so mad? Aren’t you married yourself?

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

I agree, I noticed this discussion heading towards extreme stances, with one asserting that women above 20 are too old, while another seemed to be insinuating labeling him as a pedophile, despite the fact that the prophets married women of similar or younger ages.

Fortunately, Islam grants women the autonomy to decide when they want to get married, and they should fully exercise that right to marry at the age of their choice.

You are always the right age when you get married.

Our outrage comes from a specific preference 16-18 from a guy aged 23. We cannot pretend that this is normal. Because what happens to a girl above 18? Besides achieving a high-school diploma and maturing slightly more?

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Why are you so mad? Aren’t you married yourself?

Should I only respond when something personally affects me? If so, none of us would be on this forum.

 

[wonyluvr]

I agree, I noticed this discussion heading towards extreme stances, with one asserting that women above 20 are too old, while another seemed to be insinuating labeling him as a pedophile, despite the fact that the prophets married women of similar or younger ages.

Fortunately, Islam grants women the autonomy to decide when they want to get married, and they should fully exercise that right to marry at the age of their choice.

You are always the right age when you get married.

He’s not a p* it’s fine it’s just that he thinks that 19 and above is too old I know it’s different back home

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

He’s not a p* it’s fine it’s just that he thinks that 19 and above is too old I know it’s different back home

And he is still not telling us why he wants 16-18 year olds only.

@mohammdov , you're not telling us why you have this specific type. And thus, we are all here, trying to guess what it is.

 

[_Yusuf_]

Should I only respond when something personally affects me? If so, none of us would be on this forum.

For a man youth and purity are the most important virtues of a woman. I’m confuse why you’re acting like this is new. This guys has good money from diaspora ties so he will get cream of the crop.

 

[wonyluvr]

And he is still not telling us why he wants 16-18 year olds only.

@mohammdov , you're not telling us why you have this specific type. And thus, we are all here, trying to guess what it is.

teens back home are miskeen wallahi.some of them don’t even know basic maths

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

For a man youth and purity are the most important virtues of a women. I’m confuse why you’re acting like this is new. This guys has good money from diaspora ties so he will get cream of the crop.

First of all, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, etc, etc, etc, is still very young.
Secondly, virginity isn't determined by age, but by faith, (unless someone was assaulted, Allah forbid).
Thirdly, people get what they deserve, a chase woman for a chaste man and vice versa. No amount of little girl chasing, will change this.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

teens back home are miskeen wallahi.some of them don’t even know basic maths

You know what sis, those kids back home act like little adults. I've noticed they're far smarter than kids in the diaspora when it comes to being street-wise and having an expansive vocabulary. That said, I do worry about the lack of education and I hate to see a girl get married without securing a high school diploma at the bare minimum.