I went back on the breakup

[GodKnowsBest]

Guys, I started messaging my lover again after cutting him out of my life (rip) and he's doing that thing men do where they pretend like they don't miss you and wait for a couple of days before replying x_x.

I wanted to do the thing where I wait until he starts sending me I miss you texts but that could take up to a month because we both would be playing at that game and I literally told him I didn't want him in my life so if he had too much pride he wouldn't talk to me ever again.

I did it so early (three days) because I know that touchy time period in between a breakup and a relapse that hits about a week after you break up and you start going insane and want to text them. If I hit that point I would say a lot of things that I would regret so I'm doing it right now while I still have some senses. I was fine after the first day but I hung out with a friend yesterday and I would always talk to her about my problems and I would always talk to him about her so just being with her reminds me of him.

 

[Nightline Kid]

 

[GodKnowsBest]

I know x_x

 

[daacad]

sheekoy sheekoy sheeko, sheeko xariirto shimbir baa dhuustay.........

 

[Mohamud]

 

[GodKnowsBest]

sheekoy sheekoy sheeko, sheeko xariito shimbir baa dhuustay.........

What does xariito mean?

 

[daacad]

 

[GodKnowsBest]

I feel like I would be a perfect fit for that one Somali women Facebook group that talks about women proboems. What is it called again?

 

[daacad]

I feel like I would be a perfect fit for that one Somali women Facebook group that talks about women proboems. What is it called again?

 

[TooMacaan]

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I feel like I would be a perfect fit for that one Somali women Facebook group that talks about women proboems. What is it called again?

True, you'd fit in with a group of terrible fiction authors

 

[GodKnowsBest]

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I'm so sorry. It's just he was my Christian mentor and It's not to be in a relationship with him this time since idk if he loves me. It's to simply be friends.

 

[TooMacaan]

I'm so sorry. It's just he was my Christian mentor and It's not to be in a relationship with him this time since idk if he loves me. It's to simply be friends.

Lol, if this is actually a true story...it's best to let go of this guy completely. Cut it off. Maintaining a relationship(even if it's only friendship) with someone who makes you question their feelings for you >isn't healthy-- you'll only end up developing insecurities.

 

[GodKnowsBest]

Lol, if this is actually a true story...it's best to let go of this guy completely. Cut it off. Maintaining a relationship(even if it's only friendship) with someone who makes you question their feelings for you >isn't healthy-- you'll only end up developing insecurities.

I've been in this exact scenario with another guy which is why I'm so well rehearsed.

I learned from a mutual friend that this other guy no longer liked me and when I questioned him about it he told me the truth. I cut him out of my life completely even though he begged me to stay friends but after a couple hours I panicked and told him we could be friends. I became friends with the other guy again and we stayed friends up until I found a guy who occupied all my time. When the other guy started texting me asking me where I have been and trying to get my attention again I just put him on my block list. Men are stupid. They think because they no longer have those sparks that they don't have feleings but as soon as you leave them for another man they always come crawling back.

I'm not doing that with this guy though because he's an actual Christian mentor for me. I have no shortage of friends but he's my closest mentor.

 

[Vision]