I want a Somali surrogate mother!

[GodKnowsBest]

For the last few years I have really been thinking of having a surrogate mother after having seen the divorce rates within the Somali community and the decreased value of xalimos in the west.

But I want to keep the kids as pure as I can meaning I want them to be full somali. I don't want cadaan or Asian surrogate and Madow is not even an option. I have been saving a lot for that process and still got few more years before i want to start raising kids.

Is there a chance of finding a Somali surrogate mother? And at what cost if that is possible?

Welcome back nig nog

 

[Professor]

I understand mad mullah reasoning to a certain extent but I am planning to adopt a somali child into me and future wife's family.

 

[Professor]

No chance of living with the woman or her visiting the kids. I would marry if that is what i wanted.

So you are just going to kinda order the child like a car. Don't you think that is little detached to the woman and the child. When I mean live with her I mean look after while she is at least pregnant

 

[Hades]

That is quite expensive it's much cheaper in India and South America... but do you have anything appealing that can make the price reasonable? I mean in terms of looks for instance?

Prepare to pay big bucks it's a full time job that lasts 9 months. You need to afford more than peanuts. After all, you do want the best for your future child, right? :siilaanyosmile:

 

[TheMadMullah]

So you are just going to kinda order the child like a car. Don't you think that is little detached to the woman and the child. When I mean live with her I mean look after while she is at least pregnant

The whole essence of surrogate mom is to avoid the affection but the up keep is while she pregnant is not a problem people pay agencies anyway.

Prepare to pay big bucks it's a full time job that lasts 9 months. You need to afford more than peanuts. After all, you do want the best for your future child, right? :siilaanyosmile:

That is affordable as agencies will do that and with Somali girl I guess that won't even be needed. But still up for it

 

[TheMadMullah]

Please be a troll. If not..... Somali men's obsession with having hundreds of children has gone to another (scary) level.

I don't want more than 2 children so I wonder where you got that idea from

Is it even permissible in Islam?

why is it not permissible?

 

[VixR]

Increasingly appears Somalis are going to hell in a handbasket. Unfortunately, putting ones eggs in said basket seems more and more like risky business

 

[Bohol]

I don't want more than 2 children so I wonder where you got that idea from

why is it not permissible?

A surrogate mother means a woman you're not married to carrying your child in her womb. Basically the child will be a wecel/bastard.

 

[John Michael]

I don't want more than 2 children so I wonder where you got that idea from

why is it not permissible?

Why do you want children?

 

[TheMadMullah]

Why do you want children?

The same reason why you and everyone else want to have children

 

[John Michael]

The same reason why you and everyone else want to have children

Which is?

 

[Kia12]

I will take the offer. If you pay me 100K in EUROS.
What I can offer:

Never been pregnant before
Tall
Slim
Healthy
Light skin
From one of the best clans in Somalia
Good looks

 

[TheMadMullah]

So you are just going to kinda order the child like a car. Don't you think that is little detached to the woman and the child. When I mean live with her I mean look after while she is at least pregnant

Sxb if I wanted that don't you think I would have married and there are plenty of fish in sea?

 

[TheMadMullah]

I will take the offer. If you pay me 100K in EUROS.
What I can offer:

Never been pregnant before
Tall
Slim
Healthy
Light skin
From one of the best clans in Somalia
Good looks

That is 4-5 surrogates in India so I guess as a xalimo you should have lower demands but the qualities you offer are not bad except the qabil of which is irrelevant since your a female

 

[Pitta]

Can i ask how your going to raise them, im assuming you work full time and can afford being a single dad, so are your parents going to bring them up

 

[AussieHustler]

Ask your wife's sister or cousins to become a surrogate.

 

[TheMadMullah]

Can i ask how your going to raise them, im assuming you work full time and can afford being a single dad, so are your parents going to bring them up

I will raise them alone actually and it is very practical or atleast up until they are 6 years. That is is when i want to be involved with Somalis so that they learn Somali language ( most likely through my sister). As for the financial part I have a very stable job and a bright future in the European Parliament politics.

 

[Kia12]

That is 4-5 surrogates in India so I guess as a xalimo you should have lower demands but the qualities you offer are not bad except the qabil of which is irrelevant since your a female

Cool, I will send you my Paypal details.

 

[AbdiJew]

If you're going to go the surrogate route, get a white woman. Many will do it for free and they are more enthusiastic about it. You will also more likely avoid things like autism.

 

[TheMadMullah]

If you're going to go the surrogate route, get a white woman. Many will do it for free and they are more enthusiastic about it. You will also more likely avoid things like autism.

I'm very much aware of that but the thing is I'm a Somali nationalist and very much against intermixing with other races and for that reason alone I want my children too look very somali ( I look like Ahmed karaash in his 20's). And for that reason i want somali surrogate but if that fails then cadaan will be the last option.