I want a Somali surrogate mother!

[TheMadMullah]

For the last few years I have really been thinking of having a surrogate mother after having seen the divorce rates within the Somali community and the decreased value of xalimos in the west.

But I want to keep the kids as pure as I can meaning I want them to be full somali. I don't want cadaan or Asian surrogate and Madow is not even an option. I have been saving a lot for that process and still got few more years before i want to start raising kids.

Is there a chance of finding a Somali surrogate mother? And at what cost if that is possible?

 

[Edo Nene]

i always want to be surrogate. sadly, its frown upon in somali community.

 

[TheMadMullah]

i always want to be surrogate but i think its frown upon in somali community.

Well we can do things secretly and if your a virgin then you can do caesarean delivery (c-section). But at what cost?

 

[Edo Nene]

i aint a virgin but i need 45k plus insurance.

 

[TheMadMullah]

i aint a virgin but i need 45k plus insurance.

That is quite expensive it's much cheaper in India and South America... but do you have anything appealing that can make the price reasonable? I mean in terms of looks for instance?

 

[Edo Nene]

im going to be 9 month pregnant, my hormones are going to be crazy, ill be vomitting and having ache.
oh lord, the labour is so fucking painful. that pain ill always remember
i deserve 45k if im going to be pregnant again

 

[El padrone]

eternal light would volunteer for free

 

[TheMadMullah]

eternal light would volunteer for free

But there are certain qualities I will look into and im sure feminist and ratchet xalimos will not make the cut

 

[maestro]

Lol wtf this is dumb as f*ck

 

[Professor]

just go adopt some somali kids if you want children who somali so much. I don't know if any somali women would be a surrogate mother unless you pay her a lot of money. Also you have to lie to your family and friends on how you got the child.

 

[TheMadMullah]

just go adopt some somali kids if you want children who somali so much. I don't know if any somali women would a surrogate mother unless you pay a lot of money. Also you have to lie to your family and friends on how you got the child.

Lol why would i wanna raise another mans random child? My family have no issue with that infact my uncle has had a surrogate mother from Philippines and now he has twins who are 17.

I think my only hopes are from Somalis in Africa.

 

[Professor]

Lol why would i wanna raise another mans random child? My family have no issue with that infact my uncle has had a surrogate mother from Philippines and now he has twins who are 17.

I think my only hopes are from Somalis in Africa.

You could do that if u wanted personally I hoping to take the adoption route why I can take in a somali child that is unfortunately taken away from the family in the West. To be honest surrogate route might be difficult in the fact that the children would might want to see his mother but with adoption it is probably easier to explain. Also I think it would a better route if you tried it with the western diaspora rather then back home. The idea would be abhorrent in our culture like ours, Unless you bribed them.

 

[TheMadMullah]

You could do that if u wanted personally I hoping to take the adoption route why I can take in a somali child that is unfortunately taken away from the family in the West. To be honest surrogate route might be difficult in the fact that the children would might want to see his mother but with adoption it is probably easier to explain. Also I think it would a better route if you tried it with the western diaspora rather then back home. The idea would be abhorrent in our culture like ours, Unless you bribed them.

Yes the idea would be abhorrent but not that difficult to sail through. The reason why I think I have higher chances with xalimos back home is simply this:

1. The western women are more financially stable and not willing to do it unless they are heavy drinkers or druggies of which I won't want.
2. The xalimos back home are more desperate for the money and even easy to stay under the radar while pregnant ( maybe even say my husband lives abroad).
3. Legally easier to do since there aren't many obstacles in Africa and easier to disconnect the child from the surrogate mom since she will be in africa.

 

[SuldaanGuled]

You're not comfortable raising another man's child but want to "rent the womb" of another woman for your comfort ????



@Edo Nene you were considering it ??



What you believe to be a solution to the crisis you mentioned only creates more problems. Your reproductive rights should be taken away forcibly

The deviancy is strong with you


Waxaan ka barya Alle inuu ka fugaayo dumarka soomaliyeed. Ilaahay sharka adoonkaga naga badbaadi

Ameen

 

[Professor]

Yes the idea would be abhorrent but not that difficult to sail through. The reason why I think I have higher chances with xalimos back home is simply this:

1. The western women are more financially stable and not willing to do it unless they are heavy drinkers or druggies of which I won't want.
2. The xalimos back home are more desperate for the money and even easy to stay under the radar while pregnant ( maybe even say my husband lives abroad).
3. Legally easier to do since there aren't many obstacles in Africa and easier to disconnect the child from the surrogate mom since she will be in africa.

I understand you now but I want to ask you a question. Would you live with the women whilst she is pregnant with your child and look after her, also would you allow her to visit the child if she or the child ever asked.

 

[John Michael]

Lol why would i wanna raise another mans random child? My family have no issue with that infact my uncle has had a surrogate mother from Philippines and now he has twins who are 17.

I think my only hopes are from Somalis in Africa.

Please be a troll. If not..... Somali men's obsession with having hundreds of children has gone to another (scary) level.

 

[Ubax45_]

I hope we don't develop a culture like the Phillipine's and India on this issue. Xalimo's back home (and their families) will not agree to this and will probably see you as a crazy "dayuusbaro" trying to poison their wombs. Imagining the conversation is laughable...

 

[Bohol]

Is it even permissible in Islam?

 

[TheMadMullah]

I understand you now but I want to ask you a question. Would you live with the women whilst she is pregnant with your child and look after her, also would you allow her to visit the child if she or the child ever asked.

No chance of living with the woman or her visiting the kids. I would marry if that is what i wanted.

 

[Gambar]

"Decreased value of Xalimos in the west" right that's why you lot complain about mehr prices. Somali women are the ones holding it together, Somali men are ciyaal mama who are enabled by their mothers and are dulsaar on them. You sound incredibly immature to think it's a good idea to use a woman's womb to have your babies then want nothing to do with her. Are you even Muslim fam?