I never want a son

[Juliet]

Is there something wrong with me? I can only see myself with daughters tbh, I would feel very unhappy if i found out I was expecting a boy. My cousin announced she's having a baby boy today and this thought crossed my mind. Boys are so much more stressful to raise than girls, especially black ones

 

[Boqorada]

Well it only costs 4-5k to make that happen.

 

[digaagjecel]

Mother’s love their boys more then the father does but only through time do you realize that. Every guy says they don’t want any daughters until they have one.

 

[lst4RA]

i'm not saying this just to oppose you, but Id hate to have a daughter .
With a son I can be firm with him, even a few slaps if need be and he will always fear me and his mum(in a good way not abusive). However, Ill likely be soft with my daughter like every somali dad and she can get away with anything.

Second its so easy to manipulate girls these days. She just needs to 'fall in love' with a guy from college and he'll fuxk her.
Ive seen beautiful hijabi/modest sisters end up friends and hanging out with madow guys and maybe zina(dont want to accuse them, just assuming).

A guy wont be perfect, he can also do zina and drink like the faraxs. But atlesst i can do my best like take him masjid, Quran classes, football. Ill take my daughter too, but some places only men can go. I can have manly convos with him and inshallah he will grow up to be a respectful man.


I cant garuntee my wife will do the same to my daugter. She might even stop wearing her hijab so imagine what my daughter will see.

But all in all if I ever move to a non western country like saudi, dubai, uea I'd happily have a daughter.

Not discrediting all the good hijabi sisters that didnt get messed up like some. May allah bless them and guide them to me.

 

[trucel]

You don't deserve to become a parent then , stay single.

 

[Juliet]

i'm not saying this just to oppose you, but Id hate to have a daughter .
With a son I can be firm with him, even a few slaps if need be and he will always fear me and his mum(in a good way not abusive). However, Ill likely be soft with my daughter like every somali dad and she can get away with anything.

Second its so easy to manipulate girls these days. She just needs to 'fall in love' with a guy from college and he'll fuxk her.
Ive seen beautiful hijabi/modest sisters end up friends and hanging out with madow guys and maybe zina(dont want to accuse them, just assuming).

A guy wont be perfect, he can also do zina and drink like the faraxs. But atlesst i can do my best like take him masjid, Quran classes, football. Ill take my daughter too, but some places only men can go. I can have manly convos with him and inshallah he will grow up to be a respectful man.


I cant garuntee my wife will do the same to my daugter. She might even stop wearing her hijab so imagine what my daughter will see.

But all in all if I ever move to a non western country like saudi, dubai, uea I'd happily have a daughter.

Not discrediting all the good hijabi sisters that didnt get messed up like some. May allah bless them and guide them to me.

You big up hijabis so much,but drool over a non hijabi indhoyar in the other thread. Make it make sense, weirdo

 

[lst4RA]

You big up hijabis so much,but drool over a non hijabi indhoyar in the other thread. Make it make sense, weirdo

you hating for no reason, let hijabis get the respect they deserve

can a nigga multitask and praise both?

 

[Based]

I want to make it clear that I stumbled on this thread by mistake; I saw it at the bottom of the page where the latest posts are showing and I clicked on it.

I'll leave the explanation up for 20 minutes and then I'll delete it. I'm not here to invade women's spaces.

You're way too polite I'm a man and I just barge in to the womans den whenever a thread catches my eye. Nobody has ever questioned my presence

 

[Juliet]

You're way too polite I'm a man and I just barge in to the womans den whenever a thread catches my eye. Nobody has ever questioned my presence

Get out of here

 

[Qeelbax]

i'm not saying this just to oppose you, but Id hate to have a daughter .
With a son I can be firm with him, even a few slaps if need be and he will always fear me and his mum(in a good way not abusive). However, Ill likely be soft with my daughter like every somali dad and she can get away with anything.

Second its so easy to manipulate girls these days. She just needs to 'fall in love' with a guy from college and he'll fuxk her.
Ive seen beautiful hijabi/modest sisters end up friends and hanging out with madow guys and maybe zina(dont want to accuse them, just assuming).

A guy wont be perfect, he can also do zina and drink like the faraxs. But atlesst i can do my best like take him masjid, Quran classes, football. Ill take my daughter too, but some places only men can go. I can have manly convos with him and inshallah he will grow up to be a respectful man.


I cant garuntee my wife will do the same to my daugter. She might even stop wearing her hijab so imagine what my daughter will see.

But all in all if I ever move to a non western country like saudi, dubai, uea I'd happily have a daughter.

Not discrediting all the good hijabi sisters that didnt get messed up like some. May allah bless them and guide them to me.

You’d be more upset over hijab then zina/drinking?

There is no wa3eed (dire punishment) for not wearing the hijab but there is for zina/drinking. Are you dumb? Zina/Drinking is Class B Major Sin, Class A being Shirk, but hijab would probably at most be a Class A minor sin. You’re indeed mentally handicapped

 

[sagegreen]

i'm not saying this just to oppose you, but Id hate to have a daughter .
With a son I can be firm with him, even a few slaps if need be and he will always fear me and his mum(in a good way not abusive). However, Ill likely be soft with my daughter like every somali dad and she can get away with anything.

Second its so easy to manipulate girls these days. She just needs to 'fall in love' with a guy from college and he'll fuxk her.
Ive seen beautiful hijabi/modest sisters end up friends and hanging out with madow guys and maybe zina(dont want to accuse them, just assuming).

A guy wont be perfect, he can also do zina and drink like the faraxs. But atlesst i can do my best like take him masjid, Quran classes, football. Ill take my daughter too, but some places only men can go. I can have manly convos with him and inshallah he will grow up to be a respectful man.


I cant garuntee my wife will do the same to my daugter. She might even stop wearing her hijab so imagine what my daughter will see.

But all in all if I ever move to a non western country like saudi, dubai, uea I'd happily have a daughter.

Not discrediting all the good hijabi sisters that didnt get messed up like some. May allah bless them and guide them to me.

Oh so women should stay modest and virgin while men don't have to?
I will love to have a daughter. In sha allah more girls than boys. Girls are more likely to love their parents. They have 9/10 more mercy than boys.