I never see any revert going for women on his own community.

[Qeelbax]

Look Chechen people for example, they had a war with Russia which decimated half of their population which explain why they don’t marry outside, the same for Afghani people (not so much), war with USSR, thousands of muhadjin dead.

I see afghans marrying out a lot on my fyp. As for chechens, they have problems and issues. I’d prefer they keep their abusive and savage manners to themselves. They need healing.

 

[Qeelbax]

Their former dictator Enver Hoxha destroyed everything,
He destroy mosques, arrested and executed thousands of Muslims even though he was from a Muslim father.

It isn’t something new. Ottoman states in europe were never religious.

 

[Man with a garuun]

It's the way they're speaking with authority on the matter

In the West, it is mostly black "reverts". And a new phenomena has started recently: Men in Middle East, Central Asia, and South Asia who are looking for visa to come to the West have been finding Somali girls on "match-making" sites, and have been coming to the West through that way.

So @SonOfMaverick is right that Somali girls in the West have become easy prey for men who are coming out of prisons, and I would add for non-Somali men who are looking for visa in order to come to the West. Not sure why you're denying the obvious fact that people are noticing nowadays. It is not like they're making up stories. This is a reality.

On my end, I honestly think unless the woman is your immediate relative, we should ignore them. It is their lives to live after-all, so ignore them. Let them deal with the consequences of their decisions. And when you see them crying online, the next thing that should follow is keep ridiculing them and remind them that they should've listened to the counsel of their parents and relatives when they were running with their "romantic" ajnabi men.

 

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[Man with a garuun]

I won’t care if we were 30 or 40 millions, the truth is that no other ethnic group that’s gone through what we did is doing this.

Look Chechen people for example, they had a war with Russia which decimated half of their population which explain why they don’t marry outside, the same for Afghani people (not so much), war with USSR, thousands of muhadjin dead.

Diaspora People don’t came back much to Somali, they don’t speak or speak broken Somali so how can i don’t care about that ?

So basically your goal is to raise awareness. Is that correct Mr @Aegon?

Or as some here have alluded to, have you been rejected by a Somali girl whom you "love" or "adore" so much and she married a "revert" and you want to settle score with Somali girls in these threads?

Perhaps clarifying the premise that you're coming from when you make these threads would help people understand the context in which you're making for these threads?

Fyi, some of the people who are attacking you could be married to ajnabi, and that could be why you've been receiving harsh responses.

 

[Man with a garuun]

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Not necessarily. Cyberspace gives people some unanimity where they feel free to post these topics. You never know the reasons behind everyone who posts these topics as some Somalis are nationalist warriors who don't want to see their women running with ajnabi, some are waging a gender war and want to ridicule Somali girls, and some may be posting them as you said for insecurity reasons. Nevertheless, cyberspace is huge and it removes the inhibition people would have had they been making these statements publicly. It is the unanimity that the Internet provides that is allowing some men to post these type of comments.

 

[Aurelian]

In the UK you have many anglophone West African and Bantu groups who are born Muslim like

1. Sierra Leonians (85% are Muslim)
2. Yoruba (50% are Muslims)
3. Gambians (95% are Muslim)
4. Tanzanians (50% are Muslims) (but Tanzanian UK diaspora is like 75% Muslim)
5. Ghanaian (20% are Muslim)

So I don't know why these Black/SSA reverts don't marry females from those communities?


In the UK you have Europeans groups who are born Muslim like

1. Albanian (50% are Muslims)
2. Bosniak (95% are Muslims)
3. Kosovan (95% are Muslims)

So I don't know why these White British (a large portion are ginger) reverts don't marry females from those communities?

You put it as in race grouping. While the white or even blacks never see any Jamacan muslim or white english muslim. These three white muslim countries you mentioned are muslims but not that much like Somalis or South Asians or even Arabs.

 

[Aurelian]

I haven't read any post on this thread so if what I said has already been said forgive me:

Reverts almost always come from a non Muslim ethnic background. So we should cut them some slack if they wanna marry a fellow Muslim.

There should be a way to marry new revert to a another revert from the same background. It would be easier for them instead of cultural clash

 

[Man with a garuun]

I did not do anything, now if to expose you a girl who appears publicly in a show by wearing the hijab and twerking in public it is qashin, there is a word for you in the Coran to describe you.

And i didn’t said that the girl was Somali

First, our holly book is spelled as the Qur'an and not the Coran.

Second, Mr @Aegon, are you a Somali? If you're, can you prove that you're a Somali? Can you translate the below info in English?

Waryaa, warka cadee, inaad Soomaali tahay is cadee or banaanka is keen. Hadba thread yar oo gabadh Soomaali ah oo mid ajnabi ahi ku aasey hanagu wareerine, is cadee oo noo sheeg waxaad uga jeedid sheekatan aan dhamaaneyn ee aad kaga hadlaysid gabdhahaan guursanaya nimanka ay u arkaan inay "romantic" yihiin? Ma taqaan macnaha Faarax Lugo Baasto? Haye is cadee oo banaanka iskeen waryaa.

 

[Chase]

In the West, it is mostly black "reverts". And a new phenomena has started recently: Men in Middle East, Central Asia, and South Asia who are looking for visa to come to the West have been finding Somali girls on "match-making" sites, and have been coming to the West through that way.

So @SonOfMaverick is right that Somali girls in the West have become easy prey for men who are coming out of prisons, and I would add for non-Somali men who are looking for visa in order to come to the West. Not sure why you're denying the obvious fact that people are noticing nowadays. It is not like they're making up stories. This is a reality.

On my end, I honestly think unless the woman is your immediate relative, we should ignore them. It is their lives to live after-all, so ignore them. Let them deal with the consequences of their decisions. And when you see them crying online, the next thing that should follow is keep ridiculing them and remind them that they should've listened to the counsel of their parents and relatives when they were running with their "romantic" ajnabi men.

Man, shut the fu#$ up, if I saw you in real life I'd crack your jaw, GTFO @here man

 

[Angelina]

In the West, it is mostly black "reverts". And a new phenomena has started recently: Men in Middle East, Central Asia, and South Asia who are looking for visa to come to the West have been finding Somali girls on "match-making" sites, and have been coming to the West through that way.

Don't lie. I've never seen a Somali girl marry a fob Arab or timo jelic unless she is a fob herself. All the Somali girls that marry Pakistani men are married to men whose families all live in the UK. That is why they are usually forced to live with the in-laws and why these marriages are difficult. Last time you tried to site 'lovehabibi' but att least more than 60% or more of those profiles are fake. A common google search will tell you how not reputable that site is. That was the first thing that gave away your bold faced lie.

So @SonOfMaverick is right that Somali girls in the West have become easy prey for men who are coming out of prisons, and I would add for non-Somali men who are looking for visa in order to come to the West. Not sure why you're denying the obvious fact that people are noticing nowadays. It is not like they're making up stories. This is a reality.

That was due to the Salafi craze of 2009 to 2014. Most of these girls were niqab/jilbaab wearing jilbaab girls marrying zealous attar selling thobe wearing reverts with terrible attitudes. I once lived in an area notorious for that. That craze has died down. Women have realized how disgusting those salafi marriage bandits were and Somali girls were not the only victims. Even Pakistani girls got caught up with one story coming out of a xaasid madow revert abusing the hell out of his timo jilec wife despite her giving up everything for him.

On my end, I honestly think unless the woman is your immediate relative, we should ignore them. It is their lives to live after-all, so ignore them. Let them deal with the consequences of their decisions. And when you see them crying online, the next thing that should follow is keep ridiculing them and remind them that they should've listened to the counsel of their parents and relatives when they were running with their "romantic" ajnabi men.

What does ridiculing them achieve apart from making yourself look like a horrible bitter individual? People make mistakes in life, why is that mistake so personal for men like you? It makes you come across as controlling and shows you really couldn't careless about the wellbeing of people in general as it is very much about the anger because you feel betrayed that these girls didn't marry Somali men like you. Absolutely entitled. Also, why do you act like some Somali girls don't end up in bad relationships with some Somali men as well?! Everyday on tiktok we're also seeing Somali couples and their toxic calaacal as well.

 

[Man with a garuun]

Man, shut the fu#$ up, if I saw you in real life I'd crack your jaw, GTFO @here man

Why?

Fyi, men who issue threats online are just wimps who never threw a punch.

 

[Angelina]

Man, shut the fu#$ up, if I saw you in real life I'd crack your jaw, GTFO @here man

Xaasid wallahi. Kullaha they need to be ridiculed. Imagine thinking it is a good idea to pile on a woman who is already suffering. Some people seriously have a mental illness. This has nothing to do with caring about the wellbeing of Somali women, but about wanting to punish Somali women who don't marry Somali men. EVERYTHING is about their ego and insecurities.

 

[Man with a garuun]

Don't lie. I've never seen a Somali girl marry a fob Arab or timo jelic unless she is a fob herself. All the Somali girls that marry Pakistani men are married to men whose families all live in the UK. That is why they are usually forced to live with the in-laws and why these marriages are difficult. Last time you tried to site 'lovehabibi' at least more than 60% of those profiles are fake. A common google search will tell you how not reputable that site is.

I am not lying. I've stated it is a recent phenomena, and have seen other Somalis in my area discussing it. About Lovehabibi, I really don't know which matchmaking site is reputable and which one is not, and don't even know what you mean by those profiles are fake. I was doing a research, and the Somali girls who post their profiles are all legit. Perhaps you frequent those matchmaking sites and are only sharing your own personal experiences. There was one site you stated you liked, not sure why though.

That was due to the Salafi craze of 2009 to 2014. Most of these girls were niqab/jilbaab wearing jilbaab girls marrying zealous attar selling thobe wearing reverts with terrible attitudes. I once lived in an area notorious for that. That craze has died down. Women have realized how disgusting those salafi marriage bandits were and Somali girls were not the only victims. Even Pakistani girls got caught up with one story coming out of a xaasid madow revert abusing the hell out of his timo jilec wife despite her giving up everything for him.

I remember people talking about in lat 2017 and 18. But if it died down, then it is all good.

What does ridiculing them achieve apart from making yourself look like a horrible bitter individual?

Ridiculing means when they run back to the community and ask for help on how their ajnabi "romantic" were beating the sh-t out of them or when they want us to accept their muuq-shabeel looking kids. Somalis online already do it. You saw them saying "stick with your romantic hubby" or "dawladaan ma aha mid romantic ah, mid romantic ah raadso", etc.

People make mistakes in life, why is that mistake so personal for men like you? It makes you come across as controlling and shows you really couldn't careless about the wellbeing of people in general as is very much about the anger because you feel betrayed that these girls didn't marry Somali men like you.

No one is bitter here. The topic is about how these girls are easy prey for men who are just out of prisons. For goodness sake, men who are ex-convicts, just come out of prisons, and abuse them and their children. Good grief, what are we talking about here? Some in the community can't get their head around what is wrong with Somali girls who are the easy prey for men like the ex-convicts? Seriously though, the way you're reacting to these threads reveals something and yeah it definitely reveals something deeper. (I wont say much as I've already let the cat out of the bag).

 

[Angelina]

I am not lying. I've stated it is a recent phenomena, and have seen other Somalis in my area discussing it. About Lovehabibi, I really don't know which matchmaking site is reputable and which one is not, and don't even know what you mean by those profiles are fake. I was doing a research, and the Somali girls who post their profiles are all legit. Perhaps you frequent those matchmaking sites and are only sharing your own personal experiences. There was one site you stated you liked, not sure why though.

Research my back foot. You think people lack brain cells? How can one do research when they don’t know the reputation of a site? A simple google research will tell you about the likes of lovehabibi.

I stated Muzmatch as it is the most popular and reputable site amongst Western youngsters. If you did indeed did do research on dating Muslim sites you would have tried to look into the most popular one. Not one that no one under 35 uses and one with high rates of fakery.

I remember people talking about in lat 2017 and 18. But if it died down, then it is all good.



Ridiculing means when they run back to the community and ask for help on how their ajnabi "romantic" were beating the sh-t out of them or when they want us to accept their muuq-shabeel looking kids. Somalis online already do it. You saw them saying "stick with your romantic hubby" or "dawladaan ma aha mid romantic ah, mid romantic ah raadso", etc.

Really makes you come across as bitter. Why? Is it a cases of, you choose others so now you deserve to be burnt? Because it really looks that way. Definitely makes it seem as though the girls marriages is personal to Faraxs like you and in turn you behave like spurned exs who are happy that their ex’s new relationship is failing. That is why many of you weirdos use words like ‘cucked’ because you genuinely believe you owe these women, hence why you feel the need to mock and ridicule.

No one is bitter here. The topic is about how these girls are easy prey for men who are just out of prisons. For goodness sake, men who are ex-convicts, just come out of prisons, and abuse them and their children. Good grief, what are we talking about here? Some in the community can't get their head around what is wrong with Somali girls who are the easy prey for men like the ex-convicts? Seriously though, the way you're reacting to these threads reveals something and yeah it definitely reveals something deeper. (I wont say much as I've already let the cat out of the bag).

A lot of girls were easy prey to these ex convicts. It was an issue in the Salafi community and we know why they were. It was overzealous brainwashing and misinterpretation of deen along with terrible imaams. Some of you honorless Faraxs want to behave as though it is a Somali girl thing when all you have to do is google Salafi marriage bandits and you will see UK Muslim women of all backgrounds being effected. But because you have 0 pride you simply want to create a narrative of behaving as though only the women of your nation were in that situation.

There needs to be a case study of men like you. You want to insinuate that I must be married to an ajnabi. But for the life of me I cannot believe you are a Somali man who will throw his women under the bus. How are you married to a Somali woman or have Somali daughters when this is how you behave? Where is your dhig? I have more Somalinimo in my left toe than every part of you. Ceeb

 

[Man with a garuun]

Research my back foot. You think people lack brain cells. How can one do research when they don’t know the reputation of a site? A simple google research will tell you about the likes of lovehabibi.

I stated Muzmatch as it is the most popular and reputable site amongst Western youngsters. If you did indeed did do research on dating Muslim sites you would have tried to look into the most popular one. Not one that no one under 35 uses and one with high rates of fakery.

Not sure why you were fixated on "lovehabibi" but I told you I used different sites. Over 35? Some of those women were in their 20s. And how fake they're when the people who post their people are legit? Are you saying you posted your profile and the ajnabi men you met there were all fake? I am not sure what you mean by fake. I personally don't care which one that is fake and which one that is not. All I care about was a file feed that I could use to carry out my analysis. But since you're promoting one match-making site over the others, then it means you either own one site or you met your men there. Nevertheless, I could careless which one you like the most as it is pointless to discuss

Really makes you come across as bitter. Why? Is it a cases of, you choose others so now you deserve to burnt. Because it really looks that way. Definitely makes it seem as though the girls marriages is personal to Faraxs like you and in turn you behave like spurned exs who are happy that their ex’s new relationship is failing. That is why many you weirdos use words like ‘cucked’ because you genuinely believe you owe these women, hence why you feel the need to mock and ridicule.

Who wants to be bitter for desperados who married ex-convicts and became a pariah within the Somali community? Their dhagax and saancadaale "hubbies" are dissing them online. Good grief! Every Somali man who wants to get married has a plenty of Somali women to choose from either in the West or back home, so how can we anyone be bitter for some couchie who has taken a hammering from every convict in the world? You're really messed up. Fine another tactic to defend these weirdos whose ajnabi hubbies shame online.

 

[rep]

I actually don't care as long as they are real muslim the bad part (for the woman) is marrying fake reverts latley i have seen more and more guys say they will lie and say im a muslim to get with a somali women or a muslim women in general .

Usually these guys will use this trick to sleep with them some take compromising pictures and bounce but a loser might actually keep the lie and get married .

 

[Angelina]

Not sure why you were fixated on "lovehabibi" but I told you I used different sites. Over 35? Some of those women were in their 20s. And how fake they're when the people who post their people are legit? Are you saying you posted your profile and the ajnabi men you met there were all fake? I am not sure what you mean by fake. I personally don't care which one that is fake and which one that is not. All I care about was a file feed that I could use to carry out my analysis. But since you're promoting one match-making site over the others, then it means you either own one site or you met your men there. Nevertheless, I could careless which one you like the most as it is pointless to discuss

What sites did you use? You can't even tell me that. I'm fixed on lovehabibi as that is what YOU said was the main one YOU used and I can easily find that thread.

Everyone knows that in this day and age and amongst under 35s Muzmatch is indeed the main one. Others on this site who aren't odeys like you can confirm as well.

This has nothing to do with me. Trying to attack and make things personal isn't going to cover up obvious holes in your arguments that are indeed unravelling. How can one do research about dating apps, but know anything about them? How can one do research about it, but not know the ones people actually use and don't use? That is basic 101. Everything i've pointed out are easy to google. Yet, supposedly, you did 'research'. Get the hell out of here.
You're lying, gigg is up and everyone can see it.

What wants to be bitter for desperados who married ex-convicts and became a pariah within the Somali community? Their dhagax and saancadaale "hubbies" are dissing them online.

If you're not bitter why do you advice for people to dedicate their precious time to bully them online when they're already down and suffering? If a Farax married a gaal and now he was in a custody battle and was going through it emotionally ect, the vast majority of us wouldn't feel the need to insult him. What has happened, happened.

Good grief! Every Somali man who wants to get married has a plenty of Somali women to choose from either in the West or back home, so can we anyone can be bitter for some couchie who has taken a hammering from every convict in the world? You're really messed up. Fine another tactic to defend these weirdos whose ajnabi hubbies shame online.

If so, why do these men keep on talking about being 'cucked'?! Many on this site use that word and i've asked them time and time again, how can a woman you never was with 'cuck' you?!

Again, you sound bitter and vulgar. Why are you now talking about people's private parts? Were you raised in a bush with no athab and daqan? Most of these girls that married ex convicts are usually brainwashed Salafis usually between the ages of 18-21 and were only married to one man. Why are you implying that they slept around? Only a bitter man talks that way. This is a sickness at this point.

 

[Chase]

What sites did you use? You can't even tell me that. I'm fixed on lovehabibi as that is what YOU said was the main one YOU used and I can easily find that thread.

Everyone knows that in this day and age and amongst under 35 Muzmatch is indeed the main one. Others on this site who aren't odeys like you can confirm as well.

This has nothing to do with me. Trying to attack and make things personal isn't going to cover up obvious holes in your arguments that are indeed unravelling. Everything i've pointed out are easy to google. You're lying, gigg is up and everyone can see it.

If you're not bitter why do you advice for people to dedicate their precious time to bully them online when they're already down and suffering? If a Farax married a gaal and now he was in a custody battle and was going through it emotionally ect, the vast majority of us wouldn't feel the need to insult him. What has happened, happened.

If so, why do these men keep on talking about being 'cucked'?! Many on this site use that word and i've asked them time and time again, how can a woman you never was with 'cuck' you?!

Again, you sound bitter and vulgar. Why are you now talking about people's private parts? Were you raised in a bush with no athab and daqan? Most of these girls that married ex convicts are usually brainwashed Salafis usually between the ages of 18-21 and were only married to one man. Why are you implying that they slept around? Only a bitter man talks that way. This is a sickness at this point.

I agree with what you're saying, but a lot of these girls have been introduced to drinking/sleeping around by Somali guys themselves, they ain't these innocent miskeens you think they are

 

[Angelina]

I agree with what you're saying, but a lot of these girls have been introduced to drinking/sleeping around by Somali guys themselves, they ain't these innocent miskeens you think they are

With regards to these girls that are marrying ex convict Salafis they are usually the brainwashed Salafi types with no minds of their own apart from Sh. Madkhali said this and Sh. Abu Khajidah said that. I'm a millanial and I remember when this whole Salafi marriage bandit shit show was kicking off from 2009 to 2014. I literally saw it first hand.


Those girls were not the type to party, they didn't even freemix. They would be set up by others or the masjid and have like one or two marriage meetings and would believe this brother was on the 'manhaj' because he would walk around wearing a thawb, through around some Arabic words and attend Islamic classes at the local masjid. I sometimes look back in horror how young those girls were.

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Those girls were the ones that wore big jilbaabs/niqabs and would often takfir you for the smallest of things. I've seen some of these girls who were very young by the way around 18 to 23 fall into this brainwashing and sadly once married to these men they think are 'righteous brothers' be abused and imprisoned at home.