Arent u almost 18, shouldnt u be finishing skl this year?Yes they are. I sadly am attending a school with mainly White Dutch women, so I am around them 24/7. I don’t mind them but it’s tiresome because they are all about partying, the social life boys etc and I am not that interested into it because I am not a social person at all.
the other girl ghosted me because she mentioned that she didn’t like girl B at all and found her clingy, like whenever out of school she’ll be calling me etc but once we’re at school it’s as if I don’t even exist.
I sadly will have to deal with her for the next 2 yearsClasses won’t be switched so I’ll have the same class until I finished up my degree
I need tips
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VIP
I’m in college.
I’m already 18,
Ur in uni?
Xoxoxo
VIP
No it’s college
In Uk college means 16-18 and uni is 18 onwards
have u got a different system
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VIP
Yes! I live in the Netherlands. Depending on hour lvl you’re either at a college, university for applied science and normal university
So u r going college instead of normal uni? wat u studying
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VIP
I’m in the medical field and am studying normal nursery.
yes sadly I am because I was wasting my time when I was 12-15 years old
mashaallah
Im tryna get into medicine, it is very difficult unfortunetly in UK student loans have riba which means im taking gap years to work and save up money so i dont have to take the loan
If u r antisocial how r u gonna work in the medicine field? ur gonna have to talk alot to ppl and pretend like u care about their problems
when u say nursery do u mean ur gonna be working with kids?
Do u wanna be a nurse or soemthing?
Xoxoxo
VIP
I want to eventually be a nurse yes.
I’m more so anti-social with hanging around people or having friends etc. I just know that those people won’t be a part of my whole life so that’s fine
Sister
As a nurse
u have to wipes peoples **sses
old people, men, women, u have to wipe their gentalia, no matter what age, u have to see thousands of ppl naked, ur have to insert catheters inside males genitalia, u have to touch their genitalia, u have to talk to ppl and feed them, U will see all sights of ungodly things.
This is the biggest setback to me wanting to be a doctor tbh cos as a muslim i wanna keep my hayaa and i hate nudity
ur gonna have to mentally prepare to see disgusting things everyday until u are 50 years old
Being a nurse is an amazing profession @Xoxoxo ! My cousin is a nurse and she doesn’t change people diapers it’s actually the PSW that do that. Nursing is changing and their scope is getting wider! You can be a health advocate, work in the medical esthetician field if you love skin care etc… continue what your doing it’s never too late!
yh but when u train to be a nurse u have to do that. u only get to chose after uve completed ur course. so she will intevitably have to do that anyway
I agree but I wouldn’t discourage her from doing it. It’s a means to an end. Nursing is a very useful tool and you make good money.
You shouldn’t be discourage aswell! Become a doctor if your passionate about it! Good luck
yh but islamically i dont wanna be seeing woman naked everyday, ideally i move to a muslim country or somewhere where i donot need to see womans awrah everydayYou shouldn’t be discourage aswell! Become a doctor if your passionate about it! Good luck
very true she could work in a childrens unit or something. but part of nurse training u will have to practice on volunteers and to trial placements where u will inevitably see stuff. u have seen how much she sed she hates looking at gentalia i just want to prepare her
I get it but that’s temporary…. If not go into IT big banks right there
nah being a doctor is the only thing i wanna do. i get to save ppls lives thats very good reward for the akhirah
Allahumma barik lahu and InshAllah khair! Good luck
