I need tips

[Xoxoxo]

I am stuck with this one girl, and tbh I don’t like her.

It’s not that I hate her or she did smt against me, I just can’t vibe with her???

she’s new at my school and I was (forced) to show her around but ever since then she has been at my hip and I don’t enjoy it at all. I used to get along very well with this other girl and we clicked really good but ever since this girl actually sort off *claimed me* the other one took a massive distance from me.


before you guys critic me, I have a reason.

I got Corona for a very long ass time and was almost dying, almost nobody except for the girl I used to get along with called me and asked me how I was and really cared about my whereabouts, the other one didn’t care (while I always messaged her and asked her how she was whenever she wasn’t at school) she only asked me when I was at school last week which pissed me off but I just ignored it.

I don’t want to ghost or ignore her because I did that in the past and it never ends well, but I’m too scared to tell her upfront because I don’t want to hurt her feelings (she doesn’t even have any other friends in our class), but I don’t want to lie her and be fake in her face & just feel sad and depressed because she takes alot of my energy and I just don’t like talking a lot and I prefer to watch videos and be on my phone.

 

[Xoxoxo]

Also to add this:

i really am sick and tired of talking about boys and parties. A little backstory about myself:

I never had a boyfriend, nor was I ever in my life interested in guys like that. I hate parties and to even be around humans or associate with them.

our topics go nowhere because I am interested into shit she doesn’t like and vice versa. I am just done because she takes a huge amount of my energy which is just making me tired

 

[Encroacher]

The solution is to be a 'wingwoman' - in the friend sense. Try to get get her involved with all kinds of people before you slowly retreat from the front lines. I surprise myself with my high IQ and genius

 

[Xoxoxo]

The solution is to be a 'wingwoman' - in the friend sense. Try to get get her involved with all kinds of people before you slowly retreat from the front lines. I surprise myself with my high IQ and genius

That’s hard to do because nobody really fucks like that with her.

she tried to hang around the popular girls girls in my class but they had no interest in her.

she isn’t that close with the other foreigners and she especially doesn’t like the weird white girls in my class.

She mainly hangs around with me because I wasn’t mean to her or smt? I just didn’t mind her but it’s now getting on my nerves

 

[Xoxoxo]

What if I just reveal to her that I am a weirdo who’s into weird stuff? We don’t have anything in common and if she finds me weird I’ll finally be free

 

[Xoxoxo]

What if I just reveal to her that I am a weirdo who’s into weird stuff? We don’t have anything in common and if she finds me weird I’ll finally be free

But I’m also scared that she wouldn’t mind it and I would still be stuck with her.

my life is miserable why does this shit happen to me? I try to be social and this happens. Wallahi I won’t make any more friends never ever Because this is tiresome and I could waste my time on actual fun things

 

[Encroacher]

What if I just reveal to her that I am a weirdo who’s into weird stuff? We don’t have anything in common and if she finds me weird I’ll finally be free

Seems like a good solution, if that doesnt work just tell her that you don't have time to hang out or make friends cos you need to study, that is also true. I never had that sort of predicament when I was a kid cos I was that loner runtii.

 

[Xoxoxo]

Seems like a good solution, if that works just tell her that you don't have time to hand out or make friends cos you need to study, that is also true. I never had that sort of predicament when I was a kid cos I was that loner runtii.

I am a loner wallahi but I felt bad for her but I never thought this would eventually happen to me at any time.

 

[Xoxoxo]

@Shimbiris you give one of the best tips walaal help a sister out

 

[amk2]

Also to add this:

i really am sick and tired of talking about boys and parties. A little backstory about myself:

I never had a boyfriend, nor was I ever in my life interested in guys like that. I hate parties and to even be around humans or associate with them.

our topics go nowhere because I am interested into shit she doesn’t like and vice versa. I am just done because she takes a huge amount of my energy which is just making me tired

this kinda happens to me.
My only solution to u is to not care about her and jus air her cos life is too short to care about her feelings.
Mashaallah uve never had a bf or gone parties u already ahead of 90% of women.

But dont turn into an femcel who only likes anime men cos thats just wierd and ull turn into a wierdo

 

[Xoxoxo]

this kinda happens to me.
My only solution to u is to not care about her and jus air her cos life is too short to care about her feelings.
Mashaallah uve never had a bf or gone parties u already ahead of 90% of women.

But dont turn into an femcel who only likes anime men cos thats just wierd and ull turn into a wierdo

She’s been going through it tbh and nobody fucks with her like that, so I’ll just feel guilty as hell if I let her down because I talk with her and do our school work together etc. It also sucks because I had a great friendship with this other girl and it’s basically dead because of this person.

Hmmm to be honest to you I am not interested into guys like that so I don’t see myself getting married until I’m in my 30s. I’m just socially awkward and I don’t see myself doing that because it will make me sick and nauseous

 

[Xoxoxo]

I am never EVER going to associate myself with these type of white people

 

[amk2]

She’s been going through it tbh and nobody fucks with her like that, so I’ll just feel guilty as hell if I let her down because I talk with her and do our school work together etc. It also sucks because I had a great friendship with this other girl and it’s basically dead because of this person.

Hmmm to be honest to you I am not interested into guys like that so I don’t see myself getting married until I’m in my 30s. I’m just socially awkward and I don’t see myself doing that because it will make me sick and nauseous

I dont see myself getting married until 30s cos until then i dont have the ohysical time or mental energy to deal with another human being.
Tbh this is a minor issue u dont really need advice on it just do wat u think is best

 

[senor chang]

I never had a boyfriend
You said u used to date a arab guy tho

 

[Xoxoxo]

@RKellyfan

I don’t consider my old flings and daters experiences as my boyfriends. Never was interested into niggas like that.

A boyfriend is someone I am with everyday and have intercourse with, not some random nigga I am just playing around with

 

[sagegreen]

I am stuck with this one girl, and tbh I don’t like her.

It’s not that I hate her or she did smt against me, I just can’t vibe with her???

she’s new at my school and I was (forced) to show her around but ever since then she has been at my hip and I don’t enjoy it at all. I used to get along very well with this other girl and we clicked really good but ever since this girl actually sort off *claimed me* the other one took a massive distance from me.


before you guys critic me, I have a reason.

I got Corona for a very long ass time and was almost dying, almost nobody except for the girl I used to get along with called me and asked me how I was and really cared about my whereabouts, the other one didn’t care (while I always messaged her and asked her how she was whenever she wasn’t at school) she only asked me when I was at school last week which pissed me off but I just ignored it.

I don’t want to ghost or ignore her because I did that in the past and it never ends well, but I’m too scared to tell her upfront because I don’t want to hurt her feelings (she doesn’t even have any other friends in our class), but I don’t want to lie her and be fake in her face & just feel sad and depressed because she takes alot of my energy and I just don’t like talking a lot and I prefer to watch videos and be on my phone.

Distance yourself slowly from her. She is just looking for a "schoolfriend".

 

[Aboow]

@RKellyfan

I don’t consider my old flings and daters experiences as my boyfriends. Never was interested into niggas like that.

A boyfriend is someone I am with everyday and have intercourse with, not some random nigga I am just playing around with

I have a question are those girls cadaan? I never had a cadaan friend tbh and am not sure what their temperament is. Why did the other girl ghost you when the new girl became clingy? Does she have a bad reputation? I would piggy back on what @sagegreen said. Slowly cut her off since this semester is almost done and you won’t have to deal with her anymore during the summer.

 

[Encroacher]

@Xoxoxo gives me liberal vibes, I like that that, I wouldn't vibe with a girl if she wasn't open minded

 

[Basra]

I am stuck with this one girl, and tbh I don’t like her.

It’s not that I hate her or she did smt against me, I just can’t vibe with her???

she’s new at my school and I was (forced) to show her around but ever since then she has been at my hip and I don’t enjoy it at all. I used to get along very well with this other girl and we clicked really good but ever since this girl actually sort off *claimed me* the other one took a massive distance from me.


before you guys critic me, I have a reason.

I got Corona for a very long ass time and was almost dying, almost nobody except for the girl I used to get along with called me and asked me how I was and really cared about my whereabouts, the other one didn’t care (while I always messaged her and asked her how she was whenever she wasn’t at school) she only asked me when I was at school last week which pissed me off but I just ignored it.

I don’t want to ghost or ignore her because I did that in the past and it never ends well, but I’m too scared to tell her upfront because I don’t want to hurt her feelings (she doesn’t even have any other friends in our class), but I don’t want to lie her and be fake in her face & just feel sad and depressed because she takes alot of my energy and I just don’t like talking a lot and I prefer to watch videos and be on my phone.

I can't advice u on lesbian entanglement huuno. Its beyond my scope

 

[Xoxoxo]

I have a question are those girls cadaan? I never had a cadaan friend tbh and am not sure what their temperament is. Why did the other girl ghost you when the new girl became clingy? Does she have a bad reputation? I would piggy back on what @sagegreen said. Slowly cut her off since this semester is almost done and you won’t have to deal with her anymore during the summer.

Yes they are. I sadly am attending a school with mainly White Dutch women, so I am around them 24/7. I don’t mind them but it’s tiresome because they are all about partying, the social life boys etc and I am not that interested into it because I am not a social person at all.

the other girl ghosted me because she mentioned that she didn’t like girl B at all and found her clingy, like whenever out of school she’ll be calling me etc but once we’re at school it’s as if I don’t even exist.

I sadly will have to deal with her for the next 2 years Classes won’t be switched so I’ll have the same class until I finished up my degree