I need help getting over a grudge.

[PhaedrusHunt]

If only other male members on here were to follow in pursuit.. maybe we wouldn't have so many gender-war topics...

Who wants to go next?

Get out of here.

The guys a cuck. Somali women, at the end of the day, are women. This thread is low-key pissing me off.

 

[YourBroMoe]

Foster your hatred for them and hold the grudge with a tight grip. They've let you known throughout your life that they don't like you, so pay them no respect. Only through hatred can you destroy them.

Walahi you're on some Darth Sidious type shit nigga. You fkin Sith lord.

 

[Daleelah]

Get out of here.

The guys a cuck. Somali women, at the end of the day, are women. This thread is low-key pissing me off.

He's as real as they get...he's expressing his emotions...

Bax dhagax yahow billa feelings ga

 

[YourBroMoe]

Bruh this happened to me in middle school and high school. My solution was very fkin simple:

I went for other women. It's a confidence booster. You learn your fkin worth and you lose your insecurities. If you want a Xalimo, you can't be a little . Go out with women to claim your manhood back, and then get a Xalimo like a fkin man.

It was fking high school! Are you really going to let high school grudges hold you back?! And the girl who locked arms with you obviously wanted you, but you were into a Polish woman.

So obviously, your experiences with Xalimos in high school made you want women from other races. Which worked, since you bagged the Polish woman. So why are you still acting like a about this? You got tings. Get a Xalimo, fk the haters who are probably losers, and be a fkin man!

 

[SumMo]

Get out of here.

The guys a cuck. Somali women, at the end of the day, are women. This thread is low-key pissing me off.

If only all men were this manly. What an alpha man!


You are making me weak to my knees..Naga jooji walaal.

 

[YourBroMoe]

Get out of here.

The guys a cuck. Somali women, at the end of the day, are women. This thread is low-key pissing me off.

Facts, we can't have Faraxs acting like es in droves. It's unbecoming. If you got insecurities, fight them like a man. Don't post it like a . Just keeping it real.

 

[Basra]

I need help getting over a grudge that I've developed towards Somali women.

Before I continue, I want to say that "grudge" is too strong of a word. My feelings are more of a mild dislike due to previous interactions, but "grudge" is easier to type and I'm using it for lack of a better word.

So where does this all stem from...

I have never met a Somali girl who hasn't been a dick to me up until I was 19. I'm not exaggerating.

During secondary school, I wasn't picked on much but 90% of the insults I did get were from Somali girls. Most of the time it was light teasing, but sometimes it was pretty insulting. For example, on non-uniform day I would spend some time picking out my clothes for the day only to walk into morning registration and get roasted by the same handful of Somali girls. I know this is petty and I would always say something back to them, but sometimes it did get to me. I was just a young teenager.
But towards year 10 and 11, I stopped talking with these girls and responding to their insults. Eventually they left me alone.

Fast forward to College, there was one occasion which really cemented this mentality into me. There was a Somali girl who shared some of my classes and friends. Eventually we become friends. (First actual female Somali friend)
One day I left college with her, we were walking down the high street together and out of nowhere she links arms with me. I immediately pulled away and asked her what she was doing (I had a massive crush on this Polish girl from class who was near us). She said it was a joke etc. Later that night I got a message from her full of abuse. Saying I'm ugly and that she's going to find my mum and tell her I'm sleeping with the Polish girl. I tried to apologise the next day but she started to ignore me for a while and I stopped bothering with her.


From then on, I became SUPER disinterested in Somali girls. Towards the end of uni and up until now, I've had 3 really good Somali girls come into my life. Each one I stupidly turned away from.

I met one, a year ago, at a Syrian charity event I was dragged to. We talked for like 40 minutes and swapped numbers. I ended up picking this other girl (who I was seeing at the time and who turned out to be a complete ) over her. Even though the Somali girl was better in every single way. Smarter, funnier, more attractive etc.

A few months back, I was introduced to one by a friend. We went out once and had a lot of fun. That night I lied to her saying that I was super busy with work and can't see her again for a while. Eventually we stopped talking.



Reading through this, I realise it's complete BS. But I can't help it. I find it hard looking at Somali girls from a relationship standpoint. Although my preference is not with Somalis and my parents don't mind where the woman I end marrying is from. A part of me still wants to start a family with a Somali woman someday.

What do I do?

STOP ting around and settle down. I think its obvious right?

 

[YourBroMoe]

If only all men were this manly. What an alpha man!


You are making me weak to my knees..Naga jooji walaal.
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[Slickback]

STOP ting around and settle down. I think its obvious right?

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[YourBroMoe]

STOP ting around and settle down. I think its obvious right?

Some men need to f*ck their way out of their insecurities. Let the nigga do what he has to do.

 

[Daleelah]

Most Somali guys grew up being told it's ceeb to cry/show emotion...so they aren't really to blame

Hooyo would be there with her dacas in one hand whilst holding her ear and saying "Carrrrrr ooy nacas yahow, aabaha dhakada wayn ka cun ee"

 

[YourBroMoe]

Most Somali guys grew up being told it's ceeb to cry/show emotion...so they aren't really to blame

Hooyo would be there with her dacas in one hand whilst holding her ear and saying "Carrrrrr ooy nacas yahow, aabaha dhakada wayn ka cun ee"

But it's true. If you had a Farax as a husband, you'll prob appreciate it if he rants once in a blue moon. But if he was on some "I'm sensitive" bullshit, I guarantee, you'll hate the punk ass .

 

[SumMo]

Facts, we can't have Faraxs acting like es in droves. It's unbecoming. If you got insecurities, fight them like a man. Don't post it like a . Just keeping it real.

Too much alphaness on here! War ilaahey ka baq, ramadan is approaching.

 

[YourBroMoe]

Too much alphaness on here. War ilaahey ka baq, ramadan is approaching.
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dfkm

 

[Gadiid]

Who wants to go next?

You sure?

I hate Somali women!! All of 'em be harlots, aye.
Shame them ajnabis can't get past my super reflective forehead that shines like a thousand suns!
Now I'm stuck in a cycle of hatred that will end in ruin.
Hark! Such a fate should not befall a noble Geeljire.
I shall complain in forums in the comfort of my macawiis till the end of my days, forever in darkness!

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[Daleelah]

You sure?

I hate Somali women!! All of 'em be harlots, aye.
Shame them ajnabis can't get past my super reflective forehead that shines like a thousand suns!
Now I'm stuck in a cycle of hatred that will end in ruin.
Hark! Such a fate should not befall a noble Geeljire.
I shall complain in forums in the comfort of my macawiis till the end of my days, forever in darkness!

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hilariously sad wallah

 

[YourBroMoe]

You sure?

I hate Somali women!! All of 'em be harlots, aye.
Shame them ajnabis can't get past my super reflective forehead that shines like a thousand suns!
Now I'm stuck in a cycle of hatred that will end in ruin.
Hark! Such a fate should not befall a noble Geeljire.
I shall complain in forums in the comfort of my macawiis till the end of my days, forever in darkness!

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On God bro

 

[Daleelah]

But it's true. If you had a Farax as a husband, you'll prob appreciate it if he rants once in a blue moon. But if he was on some "I'm sensitive" bullshit, I guarantee, you'll hate the punk ass .

But am I right? From a young age you were taught it was ceeb/nacasnimo to show emotion or shed a tear?

 

[Daleelah]

If Allah wills..I shall tell my army of kings to express their emotions like real men..

 

[YourBroMoe]

But am I right? From a young age you were taught it was ceeb/nacasnimo to show emotion or shed a tear?

Obviously. Every man is raised to be a man. Showing weakness isn't great for men. You get picked on for example. There are times where it's appropriate to be sensitive. The death of a loved one. Crippling depression. Etc. But just being sensitive in a general basis is unbecoming of men. It's unnatural. I'm just being honest.