I hate weddings

[Alluring]

Imagine spending thousands of dollars for random habos to give you evil eye and then wonder why your marriage can’t last more than 3 months. Couldn’t be me

Spending all that money for one night where you’re judged and can barely have fun. It’s like giving free food to vultures who get a free ticket to your wedding. And then it gets broadcasted on snapchat and is given more evil eye by the viewers.

Buying an ugly European traditional white dress to be a cuck to your ancestors.

I will never understand why people are obsessed with weddings. They are so low vibrational and ghetto. It’s suppose to be the coming of two people but it’s all about pleasing guests who will just b*tcch about you anyways. Not to mention they are at the worst of hours, 2am like gaalos at a bar partying up.

When I get married, I’m having a small Nikah with close family members and then enjoying my 2 week long honeymoon in Bali with no buuq and balayo.

 

[Halimo-2018]

It's really not the evil eye that ends their wedding its because they were too busy chasing an imagine they forgot to do their homework lol by the time the wedding is over they're like I dont even know you i hate wedding too much stress i rather go to other people's weddings than my own definitely more fun that way lol

 

[Alluring]

It's really not the evil eye that ends their wedding its because they were too busy chasing an imagine they forgot to do their homework lol by the time the wedding is over they're like I dont even know i hate wedding too much stress i rather go to other people's weddings than my own definitely more fun that way lol

I also hate the over fantasization of marriage and weddings from Muslims in particular.

Not everything is perfect, and you and your partner will have flaws.
But, they get all their love from watching Netflix so they lack the communication skills to work things out like mature Adults. Instead choosing to gossip about the person you claim to “love”, pathetic.

 

[AishaBarri]

I agree. Not trying to be surrounded by a bunch of ingrates on such a big day. People always find something to complain about smh. I’d rather skip all that negativity and travel the world.

 

[Halimo-2018]

I also hate the over fantasization of marriage and weddings from Muslims in particular.

Not everything is perfect, and you and your partner will have flaws.
But, they get all their love from watching Netflix so they lack the communication skills to work things out like mature Adults. Instead choosing to gossip about the person you claim to “love”, pathetic.

It's because of patriarchy. Also not every divorce is a curse like they paint it to be it can be a relief. You sound a lot like me I wish we can hang grab coffee to talk about this mess.

 

[Juliet]

Imagine spending thousands of dollars for random habos to give you evil eye and then wonder why your marriage can’t last more than 3 months. Couldn’t be me

Spending all that money for one night where you’re judged and can barely have fun. It’s like giving free food to vultures who get a free ticket to your wedding. And then it gets broadcasted on snapchat and is given more evil eye by the viewers.

Buying an ugly European traditional white dress to be a cuck to your ancestors.

I will never understand why people are obsessed with weddings. They are so low vibrational and ghetto. It’s suppose to be the coming of two people but it’s all about pleasing guests who will just b*tcch about you anyways. Not to mention they are at the worst of hours, 2am like gaalos at a bar partying up.

When I get married, I’m having a small Nikah with close family members and then enjoying my 2 week long honeymoon in Bali with no buuq and balayo.

I won’t be inviting old habros unless its my family or my grooms. I don’t need oldies ruining the atmosphere with their misery and judgmental behaviour

 

[Desert Flower]

Spending thousands so some miserable Habaryar’s can take over your own wedding and buranbuur for hours? No.

I want a small wedding, good food, a wonderful photographer and a honeymoon to Bali, Maldives, Zanzibar, Seychelles. I also want to eventually own a home. Why don’t I spend the money on a down payment?

 

[486th President]

Will your husband agree to these terms?

 

[Sloane Ranger]

I hate going to weddings and find it so boring. Somalis love to be invited to weddings even if they don't know the couple getting married or the family. If I had a small wedding it'd ruffle too many feathers so I will just stick to the religious ceremony and have my honeymoon.

 

[XalimosVeryOwn]

WLH, this is the truth! Every wedding i been too where the bride and grooms (18-24), always have these old habiyars doing baraanbur and basically ruining the wedding as a whole. And I usually see them look upset, since this was probably their parents idea.

 

[Alluring]

Will your husband agree to these terms?

Yes because his values will align with me.

 

[Quruxley]

I've never been to one

 

[Ciyaalka Xaafada]

I've never been to one

How? There is a Wedding everyday in London

 

[Villainess]

I don't think I can avoid a wedding lol. I have to give in sooner or later