Marriage is not limited to being an Islamic or Christian concept. You will find sacred matrimony in every religion and culture world-wide, which is why Islam recognises foreign marriage as being valid if that a non Muslim were to convert. The need for marriage is undeniable. It protects the rights for both man and woman and both parties are obliged to perform their duties first and foremost before anything. Unfortunately, western modern day culture promotes ‘love before anything’ mindset, which is toxic and unrealistic, as love fluctuates constantly and bad patches are inevitable. Thus marriage, with ones primary concern being performing his duty - while neither negating the love aspect, stabilises relationships with rules that will guarantee success if one were to abide to them will courtesy. Marriage also safeguards honour and chastity, nowadays we see promiscuity being promoted which indicates a breakdown of culture and civilisation. Human beings are creatures that NEED to be bound by laws, we cannot govern ourself. Marriage has been performed since the beginning of humanity and will continue to be performed.
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IKR! I if don't get financially supported, at least 30k meher, and an extravagant wedding, you know what's upWho the hell wants to do wifely duties for girlfriend price?No meher, no wedding, no haaq and you're cohabiting?
Now from an Islamic perspective, zina is destructive. “Immorality never appears among a nation to such an extent that they commit it openly, but plagues and diseases that were never known among the predecessors will spread among them”. This hadith informs us that zina and diseases are linked. Even foreshadowing the coming of sexually transmitted diseases. Just in the recent past AIDS, HIV and others of the sort didn’t exists. Now there infection rates are in the millions world wide. The lack of marriage undeniably increases Zina.
Abdullah ibn Mas’ud reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Adultery and usury do not become prevalent among people but that the punishment of Allah Almighty is justified against them.” Unfortunately both are very common in 2023.
Abdullah ibn Mas’ud reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Adultery and usury do not become prevalent among people but that the punishment of Allah Almighty is justified against them.” Unfortunately both are very common in 2023.
Furthermore, one of the signs of the end of time is that ‘children will be filled with rage’. A scholar I listen to said it will be due to being illegitimate children. From what I’ve seen most degenerates are a product of being born out of wedlock, and the most stable people I’ve seen come from two parent matrimonial households. If you see in first world countries, most of people born today are born OOW. So it’s no surprise degeneracy is increasing. Also it’s worth noting that many of Dajjals followers will be those born out of wedlock. Protect marriage and don’t promote this onto others. Try this lifestyle for yourself first and see where it leads you, is my advice.
