I need to move when I’m done my degree cuz I’m tired fr. Canada (atleast where I’m at) is getting total flooded with fobs rn, particularly from India and West Africa and for me that’s double homicide. Even though I look fully Somali I keep getting mistaken as an international student even by other Indians. Because of the insane numbers that they’re coming in (hundreds of thousands every year) xenophobia particularly against Indians have definitely became rampant which I somehow am now dealing with. People are getting blown away I speak English now and constantly praising me (almost as if they’re relieved that I’m not an international like they assumed)
Now the west African fobs (and the Ethiopians fobs but there’s less of them.. They can tell I’m somali and basically start harassing me. Ethiopian fobs tbh have been worst to me I’ve had 3-4 of them straight up follow me an entire block asking to get my number. They sit next to be on the bus claiming they recognize me or some other way to try and talk to me. West African fobs are also bad. For example Yesterday I was on the train some dude was staring at me (turning his body backwards to look at me!) for like almost 15 minutes while nodding his head and making kissy faces (????). I could go on all day listing all the stories but this is already long (sorry). And before y’all try to blame me 1) it’s happens regardless hijab or not 2) I don’t dress suggestive or wear tight clothes any makeup so don’t try and put this on me. tbfh everyone who knows me tells me maybe its cuz (apparently) I look very “innocent” (I look a lot younger than my age and regularly get mistaken as a high schooler) so it’s more like they think I’m miskeen and imma put up with this when it couldn’t be further than the truth
SO what’s the best country for Somalis where 1) I fit in 2) no weird pervert culture like this staring and following 3) atleast relatively stable with a decent standard of living obviously… any recommendations
Now the west African fobs (and the Ethiopians fobs but there’s less of them.. They can tell I’m somali and basically start harassing me. Ethiopian fobs tbh have been worst to me I’ve had 3-4 of them straight up follow me an entire block asking to get my number. They sit next to be on the bus claiming they recognize me or some other way to try and talk to me. West African fobs are also bad. For example Yesterday I was on the train some dude was staring at me (turning his body backwards to look at me!) for like almost 15 minutes while nodding his head and making kissy faces (????). I could go on all day listing all the stories but this is already long (sorry). And before y’all try to blame me 1) it’s happens regardless hijab or not 2) I don’t dress suggestive or wear tight clothes any makeup so don’t try and put this on me. tbfh everyone who knows me tells me maybe its cuz (apparently) I look very “innocent” (I look a lot younger than my age and regularly get mistaken as a high schooler) so it’s more like they think I’m miskeen and imma put up with this when it couldn’t be further than the truth
SO what’s the best country for Somalis where 1) I fit in 2) no weird pervert culture like this staring and following 3) atleast relatively stable with a decent standard of living obviously… any recommendations
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