I can't stand my nieces anymore

[Aegon]

Guy, need to tell you and ask advice

So i stil live with my mom with my other siblings and my sister have 2 daugther, one is 4 the other 2

But here's the problem: she works and so does her husband, so my mother keeps them at home almost every week, which means I see them all the time.

But now, since they grew up, it's no longer possible: they have become UNBEARABLE, my mother gives them everything and the biggest one gives us fits of hysteria when she doesn't have what she wants

Damn, I can't stand this situation anymore, since when do you make kids not to take care of it? of course these last months they don't come anymore because she is preparing a move but when it starts again i feel i will get angry again

I understand that it is my sister and that it is my family, but it is really more possible what, me too I go to classes and sometimes I have to do remotely on the computer but what to do when they are there? i know the kids are all boring but they reach an incredible level them.

 

[sailormoon]

are you okay with locking ur self in the room when they come over ? Or talking to ur sis ? I feel bad for your mom she raised kids and when ur sister has grown she leaves them with ur mom to raise ... nothing wrong with leaving them with ur mom once in a while but she seems as if she’s doing the most, I would try talking to her if not I probably wouldn’t leave my room when they come over

 

[Aegon]

are you okay with locking ur self in the room when they come over ? Or talking to ur sis ? I feel bad for your mom she raised kids and when ur sister has grown she leaves them with ur mom to raise ... nothing wrong with leaving them with ur mom once in a while but she seems as if she’s doing the most, I would try talking to her if not I probably wouldn’t leave my room when they come over

She is too sensitive, she will start to cry.

 

[Empress of Hawiye]

just Lock yourself in your room like me

 

[Amirah]

Guy, need to tell you and ask advice

So i stil live with my mom with my other siblings and my sister have 2 daugther, one is 4 the other 2

But here's the problem: she works and so does her husband, so my mother keeps them at home almost every week, which means I see them all the time.

But now, since they grew up, it's no longer possible: they have become UNBEARABLE, my mother gives them everything and the biggest one gives us fits of hysteria when she doesn't have what she wants

Damn, I can't stand this situation anymore, since when do you make kids not to take care of it? of course these last months they don't come anymore because she is preparing a move but when it starts again i feel i will get angry again

I understand that it is my sister and that it is my family, but it is really more possible what, me too I go to classes and sometimes I have to do remotely on the computer but what to do when they are there? i know the kids are all boring but they reach an incredible level them.

Are they being loud? Is that’s what bothering you cuz idk what else couple toddlers can possible do to annoy anyone. They’re just kids, have some patience. If they were yours you wouldn’t want one of your siblings to feel this way. Your sister needs your moms help else she’d have to drop them off at daycare and with COVID it’s not safe. Did you consider maybe going to the library or cafe to work?

 

[Lostbox]

One of my friends is a dog trainer, he taught me a few tricks

You'll get very far in changing their behaviour with sweets and a dog clicker...



If my sisters knew why their kids are so well behaved around me...

 

[jabsveg276]

Guy, need to tell you and ask advice

So i stil live with my mom with my other siblings and my sister have 2 daugther, one is 4 the other 2

But here's the problem: she works and so does her husband, so my mother keeps them at home almost every week, which means I see them all the time.

But now, since they grew up, it's no longer possible: they have become UNBEARABLE, my mother gives them everything and the biggest one gives us fits of hysteria when she doesn't have what she wants

Damn, I can't stand this situation anymore, since when do you make kids not to take care of it? of course these last months they don't come anymore because she is preparing a move but when it starts again i feel i will get angry again

I understand that it is my sister and that it is my family, but it is really more possible what, me too I go to classes and sometimes I have to do remotely on the computer but what to do when they are there? i know the kids are all boring but they reach an incredible level them.

move out then

 

[jabsveg276]

are you okay with locking ur self in the room when they come over ? Or talking to ur sis ? I feel bad for your mom she raised kids and when ur sister has grown she leaves them with ur mom to raise ... nothing wrong with leaving them with ur mom once in a while but she seems as if she’s doing the most, I would try talking to her if not I probably wouldn’t leave my room when they come over

I would've just moved out!

 

[Empress of Hawiye]

I would've just moved out!

she might not have the money for that

 

[Sloane Ranger]

Find out what toys they find entertaining and keep them occupied. Kids are the worst when they're bored.

 

[Angelina]

They are soo cute and fun at that age.

You and your mum need to discipline the older one though since your sister is out of the house. I can imagine you and your mum spoil her. Grandmothers and abtis love spoiling their grandkids/nieces. She's getting older and once she reaches a certain age it might get worse.

 

[Basra]

Guy, need to tell you and ask advice

So i stil live with my mom with my other siblings and my sister have 2 daugther, one is 4 the other 2

But here's the problem: she works and so does her husband, so my mother keeps them at home almost every week, which means I see them all the time.

But now, since they grew up, it's no longer possible: they have become UNBEARABLE, my mother gives them everything and the biggest one gives us fits of hysteria when she doesn't have what she wants

Damn, I can't stand this situation anymore, since when do you make kids not to take care of it? of course these last months they don't come anymore because she is preparing a move but when it starts again i feel i will get angry again

I understand that it is my sister and that it is my family, but it is really more possible what, me too I go to classes and sometimes I have to do remotely on the computer but what to do when they are there? i know the kids are all boring but they reach an incredible level them.

Why is a grown man living with his parents? U r jealous u r not the only one making fits and tantrums. Your territory has been invaded by 4 year old. Its tuff sxb

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

I supported my brother and his wife with there children. It was hard, my mother became unwell so i was given the responsbility to take care of them. i had to wake up early in the morning and change them out of their sleeping clothes, change nappy and make breakfast for them.
Doing all this was a mission. The children wouldn't cooperate , for example they will be refusing to eat, refusing to let me change their clothes and i was actually hating my life lmao. They are good at sucking all your energy out.They also would not play by themselves instead would want me to be around and i had litreally no free time for myself. This went on for 2 years. when they moved out i started to miss them even though they annoyed the hell out of me. Home became quite and boring.

 

[Empress of Hawiye]

Why is a grown man living with his parents? U r jealous u r not the only one making fits and tantrums. Your territory has been invaded by 4 year old. Its tuff sxb

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[Marshall D Abdi]

How you gonna call urself uncle to these ciyaal its ur duty to beat them and discipline them before its too late, What a cuck uncle

 

[Shimbiris]

One of my friends is a dog trainer, he taught me a few tricks

You'll get very far in changing their behaviour with sweets and a dog clicker...



If my sisters knew why their kids are so well behaved around me...

Subxanallah, niyahow! You used a dog clicker on your abaayo's children?!

 

[Netflix]

How you gonna call urself uncle to these ciyaal its ur duty to beat them and discipline them before its too late, What a cuck uncle

Nigga needs to bring out the sticks on those kids ong.

 

[Shimbiris]

Nigga needs to bring out the sticks on those kids ong.
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Reminds me of when I was staying at a cousin's house as a kid. My cousin did some ill-behaved shit and while just chilling and smoking her shisha his hooyo calls for the housekeeper with "Nayaa, ushaydi ii keen" and I shit you not the girl comes into the room with a stick his mother apparently used specifically for beating him and sis and she begins whipping at his feet while STILL being seated and smoking her shisha and he's skipping about crying like "Hooyo, no! Hooyo, no!" was just so bizarre, wallahi.

 

[Netflix]

Reminds me of when I was staying at a cousin's house as a kid. My cousin did some ill-behaved shit and while just chilling and smoking her shisha his hooyo calls for the housekeeper with "Nayaa, ushaydi ii keen" and I shit you not the girl comes into the room with a stick his mother apparently used specifically for beating him and sis and she begins whipping at his feet while STILL being seated and smoking her shisha and he's skipping about crying like "Hooyo, no! Hooyo, no!" was just so bizarre, wallahi.

Are you an uncle yet

 

[Shimbiris]

Are you an uncle yet

Yeah but I don't have siblings so they're the children of cousins. I'm even a great uncle as some of my nieces and nephews have kids now (some of hooyo's siblings are way older than her).