I can't breathe through my nose ever since the assault happened

JackieBurkhart

The years don't matter, the life in those years do
Including aunts and uncles? Common on? I’ve seen my fair share of batshit crazy parents but there is usually one sane one in the extended family.
She mentioned that since she has a very bad relationship with her immediate family, her extended ones don't like her. Also, it seems a lot of her siblings are half and pick on her. Wallahi, I love @CALMONE20###, she doesn't deserve this. I think she should try going to a domestic abuse shelter once she comes home. If you see this, please don't give up on life. Abaayo, your worth it and whatever illnesses you have don't make you less of a person.
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She mentioned that since she has a very bad relationship with her immediate family, her extended ones don't like her.
Subhanallah, they probably believe the lies her mother spouted, but surely seeing a mother take pictures of her undressed daughter would make them see that the mother is unhinged. How can normal people think that’s okay? Somalis tend to blame children for the reason their mother beats and shouts at them, but you’d think a woman taking pictures of her own daughter would make them change their minds completely.
Also, it seems a lot of her siblings are half and pick on her. Wallahi, I love @CALMONE20###, she doesn't deserve this. I think she should try going to a domestic abuse shelter once she comes home. If you see this, please don't give up on life. Abaayo, your worth it and whatever illnesses you have don't make you less of a person.
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She definitely should Subhanallah. She doesn’t deserve this whatsoever. May Allah make it easy for her.
 

JackieBurkhart

The years don't matter, the life in those years do
Subhanallah, they probably believe the lies her mother spouted, but surely seeing a mother take pictures of her undressed daughter would make them see that the mother is unhinged. How can normal people think that’s okay? Somalis tend to blame children for the reason their mother beats and shouts at them, but you’d think a woman taking pictures of her own daughter would make them change their minds completely.

She definitely should Subhanallah. She doesn’t deserve this whatsoever. May Allah make it easy for her.
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Parents got all the leverage back home, I remember when I visited me and my abo were driving past a prison and he randomly told me “I can get you locked up in there if I wanted”. All I was thinking was what kinda sick flex / power move is this.
:damn::dead:
 

JackieBurkhart

The years don't matter, the life in those years do
Parents got all the leverage back home, I remember when I visited me and my abo were driving past a prison and he randomly told me “I can get you locked up in there if I wanted”. All I was thinking was what kinda sick flex / power move is this.
:damn::dead:
Right, I don't know what's wrong with them. Thank god I live in the west where they don't take everything a parent says at face value.
 
Right, I don't know what's wrong with them. Thank god I live in the west where they don't take everything a parent says at face value.
He was obviously joking but it surprised me that older family members can send younger family members to prison for a short bit, no use of courts no justice just word of mouth.
 

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You gotta understand that even if I am quiet they will still beat the living fucking crap out of me. And if I stand up for myself,guess what they will still beat the brakes off me. I can't win either way.
How old are you?

How about we set you up with a solid plan to get you out of this abusive cycle.

Eat and sleep well, try to distance yourself a bit during the day in order to get some rest from this situation. Pray to god to change your situation.

In shaa Allah you will survive this, and outshine them all.
 

CALMONE20###

Roots in Somaliland + Somali Region ✝️
Subhanallah, they probably believe the lies her mother spouted, but surely seeing a mother take pictures of her undressed daughter would make them see that the mother is unhinged. How can normal people think that’s okay? Somalis tend to blame children for the reason their mother beats and shouts at them, but you’d think a woman taking pictures of her own daughter would make them change their minds completely.

She definitely should Subhanallah. She doesn’t deserve this whatsoever. May Allah make it easy for her.
My mother turned everyone against me
 

CALMONE20###

Roots in Somaliland + Somali Region ✝️
Sis, did she send them pictures of you undressed?? Surely your aunts and uncles were disturbed? Your mother doesn’t sound mentally well. Authobillah
My mother is sane and knew what she was doing. Yes she sent the pics to my aunts and uncles and they took her side.
 

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