I can’t trust Somalis who marry non Somali.

[Shmurda]

responding with my thoughts is not debating, im putting my opinions out there for people to consume, its not my fault i write a lot, too much for some who start sweating after reading more than 2 lines. word count does not correlate with passion, i can right a whole page and forget what i was talking about an hour later

Writing a lot on a topic usually comes off as being passionate about the subject but I understand what your saying and I agree with you

 

[dr.leorio]

if you choose to STAY in your kids life, they will identify and be Somali. Regardless of Gender this is facts and you cant argue this. If you leave, they will identify with the other mix. Prime Example is miss maya jama, you think she'd be a Gaal who cant speak somali and only dates non-somalis if her mother was Somali?

A man always stays and raises his kids. Maya Jama is an unfortunate case. Sadly, most males nowadays are stuck in a perpetual Peterpan "manchild" limbo and have not entered manhood yet.

 

[Jiron]

Always keep an open mind and accept people on who they are as a person and how they treat others

 

[NotreDame]

I heard mixed children are generally healthier, smarter, and subjectively better looking than homogeneous individuals. Diversifying the genes ever so slightly is sometimes good for proper generational evolution.

 

[GoldmanSachs]

I know two and unfortunately I can’t trust them. It is very very weird, with my other Somalis we talk about everything down to the nail but I keep it to the weather with them like any other Cadaans.

In my eyes you have chosen to exit the culture, tradition and people. Your kids will be half Somali and seeing their parents, wont probably marry a Somali. Therefore starting a cycle until Somalinimo vanishes from their lineage.

How do you guys feel about it?

Funny shit. I base trust in Somalis on actual normal shit, like clan or how long I've known them.


If they ain't your family, who people choose to marry ain't your business sxb.

 

[Juke]

I know two and unfortunately I can’t trust them. It is very very weird, with my other Somalis we talk about everything down to the nail but I keep it to the weather with them like any other Cadaans.

In my eyes you have chosen to exit the culture, tradition and people. Your kids will be half Somali and seeing their parents, wont probably marry a Somali. Therefore starting a cycle until Somalinimo vanishes from their lineage.

How do you guys feel about it?

Somalinimo is paternal

 

[Mehmet]

I know two and unfortunately I can’t trust them. It is very very weird, with my other Somalis we talk about everything down to the nail but I keep it to the weather with them like any other Cadaans.

In my eyes you have chosen to exit the culture, tradition and people. Your kids will be half Somali and seeing their parents, wont probably marry a Somali. Therefore starting a cycle until Somalinimo vanishes from their lineage.

How do you guys feel about it?

Great points

 

[Fiivio]

We should definitely encourage marriage between somalis, but not care about the small percentage of people who marry out. I have close relatives and friend that are half somali. They definitely identify with their somali side more. If the somali parent and their family are involved then there is a strong possibility of them stickting to somalis.

I do view mixing as a problem if more than 5% of somalis start mixing. This is the limit

 

[Prettymuslim94]

I'm a Somali guy with a White Albanian muslim girlfriend aka future wifey. My future kids will be Somali as Somali lineage is paternal and they'll be muslim.

I Think you're overreacting

Got yourself a Balkan queen

 

[mrlog]

No because I wouldn't have anything in common with someone like that and I doubt I'd have any good experiences with them also that's completely different from the original question you first asked if I'd be friends with someone that married an ajnabi now ur talking about crossdressing atheist gay

Its called a strawman argument

 

[Shmurda]

Its called a strawman argument

Akhi I'm not the brightest lightbulb ima need u to expand on what that means

 

[Djokovic]

I'm a Somali guy with a White Albanian muslim girlfriend aka future wifey. My future kids will be Somali as Somali lineage is paternal and they'll be muslim.

I Think you're overreacting

No such thing as girlfriend in Islam if your not married to her leave her alone

 

[Nåture]

your kids will be half somali if the genders of their parents was swapped anyway. somali dudes talking about fathers passing down their somalinimo should have had that conversation with virtually every somali man who had a kid with an ajnabi, seeing as most somali dads with mixed kids are deadbeat. its all good and well saying all this somali tribal culture of passing down somalinimo through the dad, but lets get real, most somalis who are mixed and lost in identity is due to a somali dad who left or wasnt present or married a somali later on, leaving their kid both not looking or feeling somali, whereas somali moms with mixed kids always stay and hence teach their kids somalinimo. you legit cannute refute that point

That’s a lie. A Somali female who marries an ajnabi and has mixed children is not Somali anymore by the law of Somali lineage along with her mutt children. So her, teaching her Mutt children Somalinimo would be pointless

 

[NotoriusBIG-V2]

Techinically if your half Soma

I know two and unfortunately I can’t trust them. It is very very weird, with my other Somalis we talk about everything down to the nail but I keep it to the weather with them like any other Cadaans.

In my eyes you have chosen to exit the culture, tradition and people. Your kids will be half Somali and seeing their parents, wont probably marry a Somali. Therefore starting a cycle until Somalinimo vanishes from their lineage.

How do you guys feel about it?

I agree with your statement, I have seen enough half Somali kids to know that some of them are messed up. Being Somali means you have to look physically Somali. My uncle married an ajanabi white woman and his kids look nothing like him, I personally don't agree with mixing but people can do whatever they want. You can't be open with people who are in interracial relationship out of the fear of offending them. Even if they keep the last name for three generations they will forget Islam and Somali culture and be absorbed by the majority.

 

[Ghandi23]

I'm a Somali guy with a White Albanian muslim girlfriend aka future wifey. My future kids will be Somali as Somali lineage is paternal and they'll be muslim.

I Think you're overreacting

A lineage that isn't pure Somali. Anyone who wants to marry out is a traitor. Stay living in the West and don't corrupt our people back home.

 

[Scourge venom]

Akhi I'm not the brightest lightbulb ima need u to expand on what that means

He took your point, turned it into something else and then dismantled that made-up premise which makes it seem like he rebut your point when in actuality he just committed a logical fallacy.

 

[Ghandi23]

We should definitely encourage marriage between somalis, but not care about the small percentage of people who marry out. I have close relatives and friend that are half somali. They definitely identify with their somali side more. If the somali parent and their family are involved then there is a strong possibility of them stickting to somalis.

I do view mixing as a problem if more than 5% of somalis start mixing. This is the limit

5% is too much because those morons only love to brag about it and encourage it. Also, we're a population of 30 million globally so we really shouldn't even entertain the idea.

 

[kurobecky08]

I know two and unfortunately I can’t trust them. It is very very weird, with my other Somalis we talk about everything down to the nail but I keep it to the weather with them like any other Cadaans.

In my eyes you have chosen to exit the culture, tradition and people. Your kids will be half Somali and seeing their parents, wont probably marry a Somali. Therefore starting a cycle until Somalinimo vanishes from their lineage.

How do you guys feel about it?

Depends. Sometimes, like with me, it could be that they aren’t around other Somalis. But I hate blacks that claim that they’re woke and hate whitey and then date/marry outside their race. Now if it was a Pan-Somali that claims they’re an isolationist dating an ajnabi, then I would find it weird.
Also, depends on what type of ajnabi, too. If you notice that even when people date outside their race, it’s usually a culture that similar. Like how AAs tend to be attracted to Puerto Ricans or Italians over Swedish or Mexicans. East Asian men would go for a Somali or Liyban over a Bantu or Pygmy

 

[Zog]

Somalis, instead of spending their holidays in the mountains or on the beach, avoiding contact, getting away from relations, they instead visit each other they are welcomed by each other.This prevents one of the several pillars of assimilation the destruction of the family. First of all, Anjnabi family relationship have always been more or less casual, and lacking the clannish instinct of somalis.

 

[Sophisticate]

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