I blame Somali parents for shitty kids.

[Taij4an]

Another major issue is also having a support system. People are individualistic in the West and people don't live in a community setting which isn't great for the mental health of new mothers especially if the husband isn't helping. Back home, when you give birth you're surrounded by the women in your family who will come and help you. They might have a maid or a little sister who stays with them for a bit to help with the chores ect and they usually live in the same area as their parents and in-laws who can pop in and offer support and babysitting.

In the West, women literally can only rely on their husbands. How can you expect a woman to have a like 8 kids with no help? That hardly happens backhome. Even poorer women are surrounded by many people. Have you heard of the saying, it takes a village to a raise a child? That is the great thing about third world countries.

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When you have ahaadiith integrated in the culture like this and Muslims who actually eager to practice the deen you will have a thriving society,

Anas ibn Malik reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever is pleased to have his provision expanded and his life span extended, let him keep good relations with his family.”

Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 2067, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2557

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

 

[Febbie]

This is very common in my neighbourhood. Ciyaal suuq Somalis with single mothers who have no clue where or what their kids are upto in the streets.

 

[yurikwon]

Raising very large family should only happen back home, to increase our ethnicity, in the west is not a good idea as is more of a chance more than 3 of those children will turn to criminals, as most of us know Somali parents have a hard time raising their children correct.

 

[BintAbukar]

Thank God I have lived in UAE, Malaysia and mostly Islamic countries. Nonsense is just not tolerated in where I was raised. You're always surrounded by clean neighborhoods in UAE! I feel bad for the western diaspora. You guys deserve better.

Yup! I moved from Canada to the UAE when I was very young and the life here is way better and safer for kids than in Canada

 

[Basra]

Yup! I moved from Canada to the UAE when I was very young and the life here is way better and safer for kids than in Canada

are they becoming more westernised in arab land Binti>?

 

[tyrannicalmanager]

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[AbrahamFreedom]

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I hope the young men/women here are careful picking their spouse. Your life gets screwed up if you pick the wrong one. Looks and beauty is not even top 5 things to look for honestly. I always talk about it because I have seen ruined lives because of it. I'm trying to save as many as I can.

 

[Barni]

I don’t why but having many kids in the west today seems like some poor ppl shit.

 

[chronic]

I am so glad I live 30 minutes away from the nearest ghetto. I am so glad that I never adopted the lifestyle of African Americans. There is nothing better but living among a civilized society. Where I don’t have to worry about gunshots.