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I am tired of this BS this guy I know is giving me and...
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Sigmundd
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For your mental health distance from him, he has shown his jealousy and hatred for somalis by showing you things about somalis that makes you uncomfortable, having said that how can you continue to give interaction with a blatant racist? I understand is going to be difficult but is for the best, just slowly detach from him till he gets bored of you or gets the hint. Having some one like him around you is toxic and dangerous. Get him gone. Btw what type of racist video about somalis does this moron show you?
Mohmed
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Thanks, But yeah you and @Mohmed are right I should distance myself from him slowly instead of blatantly, but the thing is the guy is too clingy and only hangs out with us he has no other friends or people to be around or be with. Also I will send some videos and pictures he sent.
I dont tell him how his country is also a shithole and give him a never-ending plethora of problems and issues his country has, out of respect.
Mohmed
"For sale: Baby shoes, never worn."
Mashallah, I respect that you would rather become a bigger person than drop down to someone's level.
Sigmundd
Positive Cow
If its too difficult for you to detach from him than your going to have to confront him by force and tell him to stop sending you distasteful videos of somalis or anything related to somalis unless it's positive as thats what makes you uncomfortable. Be brutally honest with him without being harsh but be firm. If he still continues after your stern warning than cut him off even if he realises as he violated your rights.
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Cut him off and stand up for yourself.
I dont know I feel like it will backfire on me or some drama will happen which I dont want or got the energy for.
Give him the same treatment. Send him videos of what Shia rawfidh do. Send him one of the videos of them dragging themselves on the ground, dressing up as women, mutah and thier general Suleman dead body.
It will just add more flame to the fire
Sigmundd
Positive Cow
I understand bro but I care for your wellbeing I don't want you to be constantly stressed by him and his distasteful videos and remarks there has to be a solution to this. You can't sit back and let him do this to you. You either slowly detach from him or give him a warning to stop posting anything somali related without being harsh.
One time in college I went to the prayer area and I was going to pray and I see brother walk in to pray too and he kept putting me off and it turned out he was Shia and he was doing strange ritual, in my prayer I asked Allah to return every insult he sent against the sahaba to himself and prayed for his guidance.
The thing is the others in my friend group are also growing tired of him because not only does he say racist things to me and all of us but he always does embarassing and degenarate things like when we have boys outings and he comes with us he always ruins it by doing embarrasing things and stupid things. But I will talk with the other boys about this.
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Thats what I am thinking but I am trying to think about how I will go about this to ensure its a peaceful detachment or it doesnt bring drama and issues, since my school literally follows up the drama at school and I wouldnt like it if when I do cut him off he starts spreading bad things and rumours about me and my friends behind our backs.
Sigmundd
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That's a good idea talk with your other friends about his unbearable behaviour without being mean. Highlight his sly remarks and how it makes you all uncomfortable. Discuss the truth and don't be afraid as this so-called friend of yours as he showed his true colours. This is someone you cannot continue to be friends with let alone have a daily interaction.
I only got one year of school left so i think I will slowly distance but not too much for it to be "cutting off" just enough to be away from his toxic influence as well as turn my notifications off and dont read his messages, If I go about it this way then I can enjoy my last year of school in relative peace only having to deal with him in some hours of school.
