Gacmeey
Madaxweynaha Qurbo Joogta 🇸🇴
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I’m genuinely scared
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Are you limiting yourself to just the Somali community? Very bad idea.
balanbalis
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Everyone is flawed, who you choose to marry will have flaws that you don't mind living with. Whether thats being cringe, loud, stubborn, lazy etc all humans have bad traits. A relationship is communication and lifting one another. If two mature compatible people with similar goals/needs end up together, the relationship will surely be stable.
Kids and super sheltered young adults see the world through rose-colored glasses. Like all adults are perfect higher beings who never make mistakes and deserve 100% blind trust.
But once you actually get out in the world u realize everybody’s just winging it. Your parents, teachers, bosses, even that miskeen hijabi xalimo from chemistry class who had 6 niggas ran a train on her last Friday…. They’re all just flawed humans figuring things out as they go.
Nobody’s perfect. Being judgmental is actually super counterproductive. Trust your own judgement and find people you’re actually compatible with. She likes to party and u don’t? Cool just means you’re not a match.
She’s a solid girl but dresses like FOB? Just take her shopping and upgrade her fit. Problem solved. And etc.
But once you actually get out in the world u realize everybody’s just winging it. Your parents, teachers, bosses, even that miskeen hijabi xalimo from chemistry class who had 6 niggas ran a train on her last Friday…. They’re all just flawed humans figuring things out as they go.
Nobody’s perfect. Being judgmental is actually super counterproductive. Trust your own judgement and find people you’re actually compatible with. She likes to party and u don’t? Cool just means you’re not a match.
She’s a solid girl but dresses like FOB? Just take her shopping and upgrade her fit. Problem solved. And etc.
balanbalis
"Ignore" button warrior
Gacmeey
Madaxweynaha Qurbo Joogta 🇸🇴
I think there is a category issue in this statement
We are all flawed I know that, but can some flawed humans just stay away from me… like super far away
If your one of the guys saving themselves for marriage than you need to start hanging around other Somali men and women doing the same thing. In fact just hang around young Muslims like that in general. Hanging around young men that are messing around with chicks will ultimately make you paranoid.
We got too many "miskeen niggas" falling into the red pill pipeline all because they believe they'll end up with a former hoe.
By 18 I was able to identify which chicks dated around and which chicks didn't.
Bingo, you can easily tell which girls messed around and which didn’t. There is no clever ruse former höes use to catch ”miskeen” guys.
There is plenty of good women out there, you just have to find them @Gacmeey. It can take a long time but be patient, just weed out the bad apples.
Im not just talking about body count. There is alot of virgin girls with bad qualities. Be aware of them especially.
amiirad
Burtinle - Galkayo Puntland
Good idea, it’s best to stick your people, if you marry outside it’s just pain and issues and problems.
Im am in my mid 20s and in this time period you start what other are upto. Guys who I never thought would sell drugs became drug dealers. You know their whole family, dads, brothers and sisters. Sad sight to see.
I partly believe why we got wannabe gangbangers and drug dealers is because the value of hard work has not been installed into them. Parents coddled these boys, giving them everything and not making them work for it. Zero ambition were installed into them.
I partly believe why we got wannabe gangbangers and drug dealers is because the value of hard work has not been installed into them. Parents coddled these boys, giving them everything and not making them work for it. Zero ambition were installed into them.
Gacmeey
Madaxweynaha Qurbo Joogta 🇸🇴
I just had a shock is all. I hang around with Arabs and Pakistanis and white people here and there so when I hear the fucked up stories they have, I pass it off as it just them and their lenient cultures. Never thought I’d hear similar stories amongst Somali kids in real life about people I thought were somewhat normal
Gacmeey
Madaxweynaha Qurbo Joogta 🇸🇴
Yes, I want my kids to be full Somalis and I want my wealth and what my family has worked for to stay in the Somali community. The Jews are my model community, I wish we could be more like them
I think the saying “birds of a feather flock together” is perfect because you can use this to rule out a lot of people. Majority of times people are very similar to their friends and this is applicable to both genders.
Bisinkathat's specific, is this a personal experience
No one’s forcing you to be with themI think there is a category issue in this statement
We are all flawed I know that, but can some flawed humans just stay away from me… like super far away
.My point was: stop being childish. No one’s perfect, and we all have our vices. You just have to know which vices and personality types you can handle. And you better start ASAP cuz it’ll only get harder to find a non-jaded miskeen woman. The streets are ruthless and women are terrible at managing their memories.
Gotta 2nd this.
