He’s a fool for letting the hadal of his buddies get to his head. Why are they even commenting on his marriage? What happened to boundaries?
Good riddance if you ask me.
Good riddance if you ask me.
He’s a fool for letting the hadal of his buddies get to his head. Why are they even commenting on his marriage? What happened to boundaries?
Good riddance if you ask me.
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Btw, I'm tired of defending women from bad polygamous situations. I've heard of women, who are sharing a man, and working at the same time. Can you imagine that? All the men in this world, and you've decided to share ONE man, and he's not even paying the bills?
That's when I retired from defending them.
The thing is, as much as they claim to a lot of men aren’t attracted to overly miskeen women who lack boundaries. Kind yes, cooperative yes, but especially in the beginning I’ve noticed many men won’t take you serious if you’re too miskeen and accommodating towards him. That isn’t a challenge to him, there isn’t an element of looking forward to get know her if she’s already ready to chase him back. I’ve seen men confirm this theory and I’ve seen it play out in real life.You don't have permission to view the spoiler content. Log in or register now.
Isnt becky refered ti white woman kkk.This is very common. A woman builds with a man and gets replaced by a different one. Never become Barbra the builder. Barbra never reaps the benefits of her hard work. Benefits goes to Becky with the good bod.
Mashallah, let him lose his mind lol
How often do you see men with multiple wives in Somalia galhareeri??B
Isnt becky refered ti white woman kkk.
I swear to good u hit the point i am amazed how wel u know how men think .I agree but at the same time, the easiest way to find a man that will end up doing well is Uni. Getting a medical student, law or economics graduate at a top school ect. But in saying that, it can pose the question, are you truly his real type? People don’t realize this but men can be intimidated by very conveniently beautiful women and whilst he is trying to climb the ladder, be may settle for a woman whom he believes is simply ‘ok’ attraction wise.
Start from my father has 2 wives .How often do you see men with multiple wives in Somalia galhareeri??
Bro u dont get somalis here in somalia too i can tel you men specialy 30 plus talk about woman al the time .He’s a fool for letting the hadal of his buddies get to his head. Why are they even commenting on his marriage? What happened to boundaries?
Good riddance if you ask me.
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So, this woman was with him when he was broke, he loved her, but chose his ego and friends and decided to marry again. Now he’s lost his 1st wife and doesn’t even like this second like the 1st. Now his first is getting married. This story is a common one.
He said if first wife wants divorce than let it be becos i didt want her that much ahe was just kumeel gaar
It does not matter, as it seems somewhat plausible.How we know this is real?
LOOOOOOL @Kisame look at this?I swear to good u hit the point i am amazed how wel u know how men think .
I have two friends of mine who talked about it exactly they way u explained here these guys are not at their peak walhi. .
Bit do they have potenial yes 100% the thing is that here in xamar girls who are top 10 of looks look for men who are finacialy at their peak so some guys are intimidated by talking to such girl instead they go for girl with an okey attraction .
One of the two friends sugestedatleast after three years make some more noney than he wants to get the girl of his dream imo when he is at his peak.
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He said if first wife wants divorce than let it be becos i didt want her that much ahe was just kumeel gaar
I wil give u advise only mary a man wh financial well. Its good sign a man is mature to be loyal to u.LOOOOOOL @Kisame look at this?
I think honest men are a gift from God. Thank you young man.
@Kane also look at this?
@galhareeri The average Western diaspora man will lie and gaslight women and tell them that what they see in real life and what honest men like you admit isn’t true. Tbh, not all men are the same and some men are lucky enough to find their dream woman whilst broke. There are many men who have met a woman whilst he was at his lowest but still stayed with her due to genuine love but that doesn’t change the fact that many men think the way you just mentioned.
Angeline tel me some dirty secrets of women as in red flags of a woman lets exchange thoughts .LOOOOOOL @Kisame look at this?
I think honest men are a gift from God. Thank you young man.
@Kane also look at this?
@galhareeri The average Western diaspora man will lie and gaslight women and tell them that what they see in real life and what honest men like you admit isn’t true. Tbh, not all men are the same and some men are lucky enough to find their dream woman whilst broke. There are many men who have met a woman whilst he was at his lowest but still stayed with her due to genuine love but that doesn’t change the fact that many men think the way you just mentioned.
@𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒 @Mudug_gyal @Yaraye @Journey @Kisame @ShimbirisBro u dont get somalis here in somalia too i can tel you men specialy 30 plus talk about woman al the time .
They talk about geting secomd and third wife imo. Its part of the culture here in somalia. Walahu they even wil sugest a girl for u
Sister it depends if some guys have soft heart and very empathetic to behonest but if u meet them from far u wont thi k they are empathatic but get to know them u will.@𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒 @Mudug_gyal @Yaraye @Journey @Kisame @Shimbiris
People, men in particular say that women ruin their friends marriages/relationships ect via bad advice. But one thing I’ve noticed in our culture is that many fob Somali men are 5x worse when it comes to this phenomenon. This isn’t talked about enough because unfortunately from a cultural standpoint, especially in the context of back home, women are seen as disposable. Hence why, you’ll see cases of men being quick to push a man who can’t even afford polygamy into being polygamous or even to emotionally cheat by encouraging ‘shukaansi’ even though said man has a halal wife. Even if the wife is the mother of his 8 kids and has been by his side for 30 yrs, you’ll get odeys saying ‘why are you still only with your old wife, she’s an islaan now, find gabar Yaar oo shidan’. If the wife become sick, these men will be the first to try and offer him a new woman since the old one is too sick. If the wife was to die, even less than a couple of months, they’ll offer him a new woman.
Their attitudes to women is devilish and you can see why we have very and I mean very high divorce rates back home. Women aren’t valued and tbh, women in that environment also learn to be cutthroat although Somali women are limited to their biology and finances and hence can’t see their marriages as disposable. Some of the things I saw and witnessed back home truly disgusted me. I even saw male relatives of mine who did actually love their wife succumb to this after a while of being back home and then deeply regret it once they left that mad mindset.
I’m well aware that not all parts of Somalia is the same. Traditionally, my Northern side are way more monogamous although places like Hargesia are catching up but Xamar for me was the worst when it comes to this. I don’t know about PL. maybe you lot are a bit better.