Husband humiliates Wife for not losing weight

[Angelina]

a chemical imbalance that is caused by you not exercising and eating right. Like a said, eat right and take care of ur body and watch all these issues disappear, your just proving my point. it’s kind of the same thing when fat people say “some people just can’t lose weight” or “i have a slow metabolism” Yeh you might but that doesn’t mean it’s impossible, you just gotta work harder. I wonder what people did before all these anti depressants.

PPD isn't caused by not exercising mate. Are you okay? Stop trying to make it seem like its like a normal depression. Its actually a lot more severe. This is what I mean when I say you argue for the sake of arguing.

No one is denying that exercising and looking after herself will make her feel better. I feel like you don't seem to understand what people are trying to say here.

 

[bluebird]

deaf people have a physical incapability. Someone who is in bed all day, eating junk food than hiding behind “depression” is pretty fucking stupid.She’s literally 5 months in after having the kid that’s a long time to get ur shiit together

depression is a mental illness not a state of being and about your comment what people did in the past, they used to get locked up in insane asylums. mental illness is not new, it's just treated differently. Even in somalia, you hear about moms who go crazy, walking around with unkempt hair, and a dirty house- some even being a danger to their kids.

what I meant when i asked if a deaf person can hear, was that the neurotransmitter that makes you want to try harder is dopamine, without it, you won't be able to the strive same way a healthy person would.

 

[bluebird]

some of you who are saying depressed people should try harder should read this: The Role of Dopamine as a Neurotransmitter in the Human Brain - Enzo Life Sciences

You can't tell someone who lacks it that they should have the same zest you have for life with a healthy dopamine/ or serotonin levels.

not all depression is the same, but sometimes if a depressed person has really low levels of dopamine, it can even cause physical symptoms like muscle weakness, psychomotor agitation and muscle tremors.

 

[KingSomali999]

depression is a mental illness not a state of being and about your comment what people did in the past, they used to get locked up in insane asylums. mental illness is not new, it's just treated differently. Even in somalia, you hear about moms who go crazy, walking around with unkempt hair, and a dirty house- some even being a danger to their kids.

what I meant when i asked if a deaf person can hear, was that the neurotransmitter that makes you want to try harder is dopamine, without it, you won't be able to the strive same way a healthy person would.

most of y’all haven’t even been to the doctor and been diagnosed with severe depression. Say all you want but at the end of the day. she had enough time and her not doing shiit about it speaks volume. if it’s really that bad than she can go to a doctor and be drugged up but that don’t change that she needs to lose weight. case closed.

 

[qalanjoqoordheer]

most of y’all haven’t even been to the doctor and been diagnosed with severe depression. Say all you want but at the end of the day. she had enough time and her not doing shiit about it speaks volume. if it’s really that bad than she can go to a doctor and be drugged up but that don’t change that she needs to lose weight. case closed.

Why would a mother going through post natal depression feel obligated to lose weight?
Depression isn't just a feeling as it is often reduced to but an actual condition which most mothers go through after a drop in hormone levels after birth.

 

[Drago]

Dave?
Sounds like a white boy
Aint nothing wrong with the thiccness

 

[bluebird]

most of y’all haven’t even been to the doctor and been diagnosed with severe depression. Say all you want but at the end of the day. she had enough time and her not doing shiit about it speaks volume. if it’s really that bad than she can go to a doctor and be drugged up but that don’t change that she needs to lose weight. case closed.

losing weight and getting her illness treated are both for her own health benefit. why do you feel you have a right to tell a stranger they need to lose weight besides if she didnt have a weight problem before naturally the excess fat will come off once she no longer has the PPD

 

[SOMALIKNIGHT]

Being fat is a choice you make. Most people don't excercise at all but they are not fat because they don't eat like a pig. Extra caloric intake makes you fat. You have only your duuni imaanka mouth to blame. Not even your genetics is at play. It just means you have to do 30 minutes of excercise 5 times a week.

 

[World]

In East Asia unlike in the West, fat people are openly shamed and given zero tolerance. Guess what? East Asia has some of the lowest overweight and obesity levels in the world. They are slim and healthy people unlike in the West where the majority of people are overweight and obese.