How to comfort a friend

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Hakuna matata
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I’m really awkward in situations like this , but my friend was in a group chat today and she full blown started getting emotional , she started crying like waterfalls & her eyes red and turned off the phone cause she felt a big lump in her throat. she said she has no real friends, she invited one girl over and that girl didn’t show up 3 times and she made her food etc she even said I was not a real friend, I don’t go over to hers , didnt go to her enagagment and was not happy with my excuses like uni & work and how I have no car anymore .

how do I comfort her?
 
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Hakuna matata
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If you really cared about someone you would make time for them. Also if they really knew you they would understand when/why you are busy and be mature enough to understand people have their own shit to focus on. Works in both platonic and nonplatonic relationships. If I care about someone I will find time to make my way to what is important for them and If i cant make it then I best have a good reason which they will understand. Simples.
 
Sis don't waste your energy on her. She got her own issues to worry about to be testing her friends. This ain't a wedding just an engagement not a big deal especially if you're gonna be at her wedding. Just like our friend Dabcasar put it beautifully, "Gus bay rabtaa, kaa lee qaboojinkara" can you give her that? There you go.
 
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is she really you friend or someone you run into from time to time. And you didn't go to her engagement thingy, did you at least call her ahead of time?
 

yaqir

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She should abandon your ass no need for toxic people in her life!
 

Abdalla

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You know how to find out when a freaking PM gets fired but you can’t make a free time to comfort a friend who’s going through stuff?
 

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