How many of you are married and..

[Gibiin-Udug]

Only losers would go back home to get married.

 

[Leila]

Married for 2 years , live in the West.

 

[Luciddreamer]

It's already has a vote so it seems like it was relevant

While you were focusing on zina you conveniently left out cousin marriage
Now i wonder why that is?

 

[Mimir]

Honestly,I will get married to whoever I want.Restricting yourself to one people isn't a must.You might miss the chance of meeting and falling for one of the most attractive people both inside and out just because of having a 'Somali only' rule.

 

[Wiilyam Ina Sheekh Zubeer]

Being married in the West esp UK is no different in general for men. The key is to plan a way to exit. It's tough in the beginning but worth it if you good healthy marriage with children raised on deen and akhlaq away from the west

Honestly nothing wrong with that.

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[Samaalic Era]

While you were focusing on zina you conveniently left out cousin marriage
Now i wonder why that is?

Most who go back marry a distant relative anyway sxb, it's an all inclusive package :siilaanyosmile:

 

[Samaalic Era]

Honestly nothing wrong with that.

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Getting a western passport for your children is easy and I know personally know ppl who have.

I would only bring my sons tho to study in higher education in the West but once they are married and they are upright

 

[Samaalic Era]

Honestly,I will get married to whoever I want.Restricting yourself to one people isn't a must.You might miss the chance of meeting and falling for one of the most attractive people both inside and out just because of having a 'Somali only' rule.

It's not all about beauty sxb. You are better off with 7/10 with deen and akhlaq rather than a 9 or 10 who is a headache. If a woman has character, she will become beautiful in your eyes sxb. The prophet pbuh said to go for the one who has deen but that doesn't mean marry a hideous person.

 

[Samaalic Era]

Only losers would go back home to get married.

It's about preference, what you seek in a person differs to what others seek in a person. In the west, Somali women want to have a career over family that is the least of many other issues why I would not recommend the faraxs to marry in the west

 

[Samaalic Era]

Married for 2 years , live in the West.

That's good to hear, may Allah swt bless your marriage

 

[Lostbox]

You’re like my sister. Everyone’s speaking Somali then she replies in English. Super annoying

You and me wouldn't never get along

 

[Samaalic Era]

For the single guys, it’s better to bang chicks that need some gus than jacking off to videos.

Do you ever intend to get married and would you marry more than 1

 

[Mimir]

It's not all about beauty sxb. You are better off with 7/10 with deen and akhlaq rather than a 9 or 10 who is a headache. If a woman has character, she will become beautiful in your eyes sxb. The prophet pbuh said to go for the one who has deen but that doesn't mean marry a hideous person.

That's why I said 'attractive inside and out' as in she has an attractive personality and has morals.
Plus,I don't see myself marrying a non-Muslim and Inshallah I'll meet a person with deen and looks(not a must she be Somali)

 

[Macalin M]

You and me wouldn't never get along

So we would get along?

 

[Samaalic Era]

That's why I said 'attractive inside and out' as in she has an attractive personality and has morals.
Plus,I don't see myself marrying a non-Muslim and Inshallah I'll meet a person with deen and looks(not a must she be Somali)

Also think about the future of your children and how the environment will effect. How they turn it will be your responsibility on Qiyama

 

[Mckenzie]

@Samaalic Era you need to take one for the team and wifey @beenleey, my niece is suffering with her identity and religion, i have no doubt you will be gentle and forgiving

 

[Mimir]

Also think about the future of your children and how the environment will effect. How they turn it will be your responsibility on Qiyama

Bro! Why you making it seem like if I marry an ajnabi all hell will break loose and my kids will either be gangbangers or s?

 

[TekNiKo]

Back home better

 

[Wiilyam Ina Sheekh Zubeer]

It's not all about beauty sxb. You are better off with 7/10 with deen and akhlaq rather than a 9 or 10 who is a headache. If a woman has character, she will become beautiful in your eyes sxb. The prophet pbuh said to go for the one who has deen but that doesn't mean marry a hideous person.

Exactly! Deen and good character boost attractiveness like nothing else.
Ratings out of 10 are not even objective and considering the average person is a 5 anyway and Somalis being on average more beautiful than other ethnicities, an average Somali 5 is a conventional 7. Add one point each for deen, character and akhlaaq and you have a perfect 10.

 

[Samaalic Era]

@Samaalic Era you need to take one for the team and wifey @beenleey, my niece is suffering with her identity and religion, i have no doubt you will be gentle and forgiving

My dear cousin @beenleey, its time we tied the knot and join the family