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iskufilann

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@johnsepei said incant breathe through my nose because I'm obese,at the time my mother beat me back in January. @Caaro called me mentally disturbed on a thread asking ppl their opinions of me. And @Man with a garuun keeps bringing up my past relationship in random threads.And another user stalked my old account and brought up my old threads. It's been only male users who have been mean to me.
Wow that is bad.. @Man with a garuun so, so you got an issue with her relationship? It looks like you're preparing a dissertation as you keep bringing it up. Any reason for it? @Caaro you clearly do not think before you speak and therefore I suggest you apologise to the poor girl who is currently going through issues. And the other user I am aware of who it is and I understand they should have not brought up your old account along with your old threads.. I am sorry that you have to go through this hun but just know some on here are extremely cold-hearted and come across this way!
 

iskufilann

inactive.
If you want us to not care about you then don't share your problems with us. It's that simple.
I'm not going to lie she should have not said the part " why should you guys care about random stranger on the internet" but I guess you tried your best and advised her. May Allah make things easy for her!
 
She committed suicide.
I tried to tell them but they blocked my number. I feel very alone. At least if I had friends or kind family members, I'd feel less suicidal. I have an aunt on my dad's side who knows I'm in borama, yet she deliberately chose to not visit me,because she hates me and my siblings because of my parents' divorce. I have no other place to go. I want to escape. If I had enough money for a hotel I'd probably book myself a hotel room. I let my cousins borrow some of my stuff and they treat me like crap. I had a breakdown this morning because of how rude they are being towards me. And they recorded me. My aunt's husband recorded me too. My father is here in borama yet he will not even call me to ask how I am. I'm back to feeling suicidal again yay :/
Are you getting any physical activity and adequate sun?

Shaydaanka iska naar please when you have ideas of self-harm. In shaa Allah you will overcome the family problems.

It may be hard but do try to read (even listen) Quran and say athkar. It is calming and soothing for our souls. Deep breathing exercises and learning to emotionally regulate yourself can help you deal with these thoughts. May Allah make it easier for you abaayo.
 

Caaro

I do something called "what I want"
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Wow that is bad.. @Man with a garuun so, so you got an issue with her relationship? It looks like you're preparing a dissertation as you keep bringing it up. Any reason for it? @Caaro you clearly do not think before you speak and therefore I suggest you apologise to the poor girl who is currently going through issues. And the other user I am aware of who it is and I understand they should have not brought up your old account along with your old threads.. I am sorry that you have to go through this hun but just know some on here are extremely cold-hearted and come across this way!
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Caaro

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@CALMONE20### get out of Somalia asap. When your family fails you you need to look for resources outside, there are no resources in Somalia.

Go back to London, talk to a (free) therapist and often times they can help direct you towards shelters and care facilities that can help you start your independent journey away from a toxic family.

They also provide help with any mental issues you may or may not be dealing with.

I know you don’t like me very much so this’ll be my last time interacting with you on this forum. Good luck.
 

Internet Nomad

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@CALMONE20### If you have internet access and your trying to get enough money to leave Somalia. There are many online jobs that you can make a quick buck. It will take some time but in the end its worth it.

Hope is the greatest tool in your arsenal.
Have hope in Allah and have Hope in yourself.
 

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