How do you get over someone?

[Periplus]

@Sheikh Google my virtual son, I feel your pain.

As Ted from himym said, there are two ways to deal with it: "dive in to your work or dive in to women."

As Gina Linetti from b99 said "you can only get over an ex with meaningless sex, it rhymes cos its true."

However, if you have a good circle of friends make sure you spend time with them and be transparent with them. While it seems you may be alone, you never know how much support you have until you share your emotional burden with others.

Your friends will probably be very supportive and take your mind off this, if not then you can go for the quotes I listed earlier.

 

[Never Broke Again]

man, why it feels like I was born in the wrong era

Shake it, baby move your body tonight- Mijackkson

 

[Never Broke Again]

Shake it, baby move your body tonight- Mijackkson

Listen to the jacksons: Don't stop till you get enough. Great song

 

[Abdisamad]

I have done all of that sxb but it comes a time when the fuckboi lifestyle gets lonely and you just want to love someone like you used to. I ain't a young buck anymore, that lifestyle gets boring and is actually lonely af.

Go find yourself a good woman make her halal and treat her good and your life will change for the better InshaAllah

 

[Shaafici Mujaahid]

Yeah, I tried to get closure but I reached out recently, and damn she moved on after telling me she wasn't ready for a relationship. I went full fuckboi mode after which I now regret and now im feeling its like was I not good enough for you but this new nigga is.

she better be an ajnaabi??

 

[Geeljire lotus]

I feel you abti there’s a girl who I fell in love with and I’m still recovering from her I swear she was so perfect to me

 

[minaaa]

I got my heart broken by a chinese guy. Very embarrassing. But I was in high school and he broke up with me because I wouldn’t sleep with him. I was very sad for a while but then got over it by remembering my values and why it didn’t work out in the first place so I suggest you do that too.

 

[Cerberus]

A poem/song i made out of the album nectar by joji

"

When it's lovely, I believe in anything
What does love mean when the end is rolling in? (Ooh)
Let it go, let it stay
Can we love one another?
Cold, is it safe to be warm in the summer?
Who knows? (Who knows?)
I said, "Who knows?"
Ooh, teach me to love just to let me go
I can't believe that I'm not enough
Not enough

I fell for your magic
I tasted your skin
And though this is tragic
At least I found the end
I witness your madness
You shed light on my sins
And if we share in this sadness
Then where have you been?

I know you're not in love
Like you used to be
Guess I'm not the one
Like you used to think
So you just run
I know that I'm stuck
In this misery
Guess I'm not enough
Like you used to think
So I'll just run


Praying nine to five like a saint for you (like a saint)
Can you tell me how it turned this way? (How?)
Yeah, things have changed, yeah (yeah)
Yeah, filled with rage, yeah (filled with rage)

So lost in these diamonds
So lost in this paradise
Don't speed on that highway
We need you to shine bright
When life gets too complicated
Please stand with me after dark
I'll stay in the limelight
Like a beautiful afterthought
Like a beautiful afterthought



Have you ever loved? Would you go again?
Don't be down when it's over, baby, yeah
I'll be your man, oh, man

Speed it up, slow it down
Need control, need it now
I need to live a thousand times
I cannot stop, I cannot cry
I will not fret, I will not die
I am machine, I stay alive
Sometimes I think, sometimes I think
Sometimes I think, sometimes I (oh)


And I hope this is the hardest part
We try, we try
And when they say they're satisfied
They're lying, they're lying
Do forgive me, I've seen the treasure's in the bloom
But right now, I'm just not strong enough for you

Sorry, you can see it in my retina
Focus in and out, I'm doing better
Artificial ghost with no perception
I wanna be a Chevy, not a Sentra, uh (yeah, yeah, yeah)

I don't feel the way they programmed me to feel today
Some pieces falling from the waist up
I'm so sorry for delays
Just need one moment to erase
That burning pain before the rage
I feel good, I feel good, I feel good (I fixed it)"
Listen to the whole album its actually a banger

Almost looks like a Spell.

 

[Cerberus]

I feel you abti there’s a girl who I fell in love with and I’m still recovering from her I swear she was so perfect to me

If she wronged you after you treated her good and was in love with her then your higherself evil eye will cause misfortunes for her InshaAllah. I been there too, I usually hear of people who wronged me get some bad luck.

 

[Bundasliga]

You left the deen & she left you ,
Come back to the deen & you'll get over it - dr.jecel

 

[Cerberus]

I got my heart broken by a chinese guy. Very embarrassing. But I was in high school and he broke up with me because I wouldn’t sleep with him. I was very sad for a while but then got over it by remembering my values and why it didn’t work out in the first place so I suggest you do that too.

Dump any Ajnabi or Somali who wants to sleep with you out of wedlock. f*ck them incels, they just want sex.

 

[Xaruun]

Don’t let yourself get heartbroken over 3dpd like a simp. Embrace 2D, your waifu will never leave you

 

[Geeljire lotus]

I suggest you focus on yourself sxb hit the gym,books, making money. She’s the one missing out on great guy. Heartbreak can really make or break people I suggest you do the former.

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

At least she had the decency to break up with you, she could've gotten pregnant with another niggas baby while you were "on a break". Why are some women so cruel?

I got over it by getting with girls who looked like her and then took my rage/fustration out on them lol

 

[JohnCena]

I just realised the reason why I always run away from the first sign of commitment is because my ex and the only girl ive ever loved gave me trust issues when she broke up with me. Now she's moved on I'm all up in my feelings tonight. @Boqorada help a nigga with some psychoanalysis.

Keep yourself distracted with hobbies and career development. I was dealing with this legit issue last year.

I'm still not over her, but its slowly getting better.

 

[SadioMane]

I just realised the reason why I always run away from the first sign of commitment is because my ex and the only girl ive ever loved gave me trust issues when she broke up with me. Now she's moved on I'm all up in my feelings tonight. @Boqorada help a nigga with some psychoanalysis.

Weak.

There's more women in the world. Get busy with improving yourself bro.

 

[Sheikh Google]

Update: Spoke with my ex as it was eating me up and had a heart to heart and we both maturely accepted it wasn't to be. Felt so cathartic and I wish I done it all these years ago. Time to move on and thank you to everyone on here who gave me advice and even those with the great jokes. Aight enough sappy shit lool.

 

[mrlog]

ninyo get a bunch of dollar bills and hit the local strip club and make it rain.
u need to hit rock bottom before u can rebound