How do people do this

[Siddhartha]

How do people date multiple people at once...I've got 3 girls in rotation and I'm struggling to balance them,work,social life and alone time

 

[Taij4an]

How do people date multiple people at once...I've got 3 girls in rotation and I'm struggling to balance then,work,social life and alone time

Do they know about each other?

 

[Siddhartha]

Do they know about each other?

No but I told one of them I don't want to be monogamous and she's sending me articles about ethical non monogamy and polyamory

 

[Taij4an]

No but I told one of them I don't want to be monogamous and she's sending me articles about ethical non monogamy and polyamory

The thing is, if none of them know that you are polgynous, it means u are gonna have to jump through extra hoops to balance all of them and keep it lowkey at the same time.

The most important thing you need to do is make sure they understand you have limited time, and don't ask about stuff that doesn't concern them, you basically need to have a allotted time to deal with each of them, otherwise they will all require the same amount of your energy all week and u will be torn apart, i assume u aren't living with any of them, the best thing to do is to notify each one what days you are free.

Also don't be sloppy, if you get sloppy, and under pressure, they may end up finding out about each other and ruining everything, u need to finesse all of them, lie as little as possible, because when you start lying you will end up being caught out, u will always have an guilty conscious or be worried u will be found out, instead just answer questions with a vague response and don't take it as a big deal.

You basically gotta deal with each woman on a scheduled basis, also schedule alone time, where noone can text you or talk, set your boundaries,
Last of all
Have fun otherwise there is no point in u doing all of this if u are gonna be stressed all the time

 

[Siddhartha]

The thing is, if none of them know that you are polgynous, it means u are gonna have to jump through extra hoops to balance all of them and keep it lowkey at the same time.

The most important thing you need to do is make sure they understand you have limited time, and don't ask about stuff that doesn't concern them, you basically need to have a allotted time to deal with each of them, otherwise they will all require the same amount of your energy all week and u will be torn apart, i assume u aren't living with any of them, the best thing to do is to notify each one what days you are free.

Also don't be sloppy, if you get sloppy, and under pressure, they may end up finding out about each other and ruining everything, u need to finesse all of them, lie as little as possible, because when you start lying you will end up being caught out, u will always have an guilty conscious or be worried u will be found out, instead just answer questions with a vague response and don't take it as a big deal.

You basically gotta deal with each woman on a scheduled basis, also schedule alone time, where noone can text you or talk, set your boundaries,
Last of all
Have fun otherwise there is no point in u doing all of this if u are gonna be stressed all the time

Solid advice thanks

 

[AllStarSaciid]

The thing is, if none of them know that you are polgynous, it means u are gonna have to jump through extra hoops to balance all of them and keep it lowkey at the same time.

The most important thing you need to do is make sure they understand you have limited time, and don't ask about stuff that doesn't concern them, you basically need to have a allotted time to deal with each of them, otherwise they will all require the same amount of your energy all week and u will be torn apart, i assume u aren't living with any of them, the best thing to do is to notify each one what days you are free.

Also don't be sloppy, if you get sloppy, and under pressure, they may end up finding out about each other and ruining everything, u need to finesse all of them, lie as little as possible, because when you start lying you will end up being caught out, u will always have an guilty conscious or be worried u will be found out, instead just answer questions with a vague response and don't take it as a big deal.

You basically gotta deal with each woman on a scheduled basis, also schedule alone time, where noone can text you or talk, set your boundaries,
Last of all
Have fun otherwise there is no point in u doing all of this if u are gonna be stressed all the time

You’re a walking contradiction man.
One minute you saying dating multiple women is degenerate and immoral the next you’re giving a nigga seeing multiple women advice on how to do it better.
My guy be consistent with your views.

 

[Taij4an]

You’re a walking contradiction man.
One minute you saying dating multiple women is degenerate and immoral the next you’re giving a nigga seeing multiple women advice on how to do it better.
My guy be consistent with your views.

I am just giving him clear advice.

Although I believe zinaa is disgusting, I still have lived a life in the past, I know what I am talking about, Unlike you, your an incel who reads red pill from some white nerd who cant get women and takes everything he says as divine word, go out in the real world and learn what women are like, study psycology not psuedo science, talk to different people, be open minded

Also dating multiple women, although nothing like marriage with multiple women, still has some similarities

Women will respect your boundaries if you put them down, as long a u can stay consistent in your timetable u will be fine dealing with them, now if u are a nerd who is gassed to get multiple woman, u will end up trying to play all of them with some game u learnt bc u never dealt with a women in ur life, and u will end up blowing ur brains out,

Dealing with ppl is a natural skill, if u need to read a book to deal with woman on base level I would most likely say you are a weirdo and can't be helped.

 

[AllStarSaciid]

I am just giving him clear advice.

Although I believe zinaa is disgusting, I still have lived a life in the past, I know what I am talking about, Unlike you, your an incel who reads red pill from some white nerd who cant get women and takes everything he says as divine word, go out in the real world and learn what women are like, study psycology not psuedo science, talk to different people, be open minded

Also dating multiple women, although nothing like marriage with multiple women, still has some similarities

Women will respect your boundaries if you put them down, as long a u can stay consistent in your timetable u will be fine dealing with them, now if u are a nerd who is gassed to get multiple woman, u will end up trying to play all of them with some game u learnt bc u never dealt with a women in ur life, and u will end up blowing ur brains out,

Dealing with ppl is a natural skill, if u need to read a book to deal with woman on base level I would most likely say you are a weirdo and can't be helped.

You have no problem whatsoever holding conflicting views.

 

[Taij4an]

You have no problem whatsoever holding conflicting views.

Tell me what about my views are conflicting?
All my views are consistent

 

[Basra]

 

[AllStarSaciid]

Tell me what about my views are conflicting?
All my views are consistent

Yeah right.

 

[Mac Sonkor]

Team single is the best