How do parents expect you not to interact with the opposite gender yet also get married?

[Baarisiyomoos]

My parents think I have never looked in the same direction as a man in my entire life, forget even talking to one. They always talk about marriage though and how Allah will find me a good man in the future. How do they expect that to happen
if they think I literally am incapable of talking to men confusing

 

[Juliet]

Just sneak around, that's what most of us do

 

[Mercury]

My parents think I have never looked in the same direction as a man in my entire life, forget even talking to one. They always talk about marriage though and how Allah will find me a good man in the future. How do they expect that to happen
if they think I literally am incapable of talking to men confusing

somalis that discourage dating are hypocrites there's a saying "dumarka kuun aye la sheekestan hal na wa guursadan" which clearly tells us somali girls and boys where dating up a storm back in the day and not sitting around idle unlike what they are trying to convince others

 

[Angelina]

Somali parents:

Teens and early 20s: talking to guys is ceeb! Focus on education, don't even glance at an Abdi.

Mid twenties: You should be talking to guys, where is your husband? Are you telling me you've never spoken to an Abdi?!

 

[Amal Hassan]

My parents think I have never looked in the same direction as a man in my entire life, forget even talking to one. They always talk about marriage though and how Allah will find me a good man in the future. How do they expect that to happen
if they think I literally am incapable of talking to men confusing

Take your freedom my friend, it will never come. Talk to them, get too see your like etc… cause at the end of the day your parents will ask why you are not married or not talking to anyone

 

[Sheikh Google]

Ceeb culture plays a big part.

 

[King Khufu]

People just meet.
Possibly at random or at mutual places.
Sometimes internet even!
Just never know until the perfect opportunity is presented.

Even then, remember, nothing is promised.

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[Sky Geeljire]

Just sneak around, that's what most of us do

This is why I won’t get married to a Western Somali girl.

 

[Angelina]

This is why I won’t get married to a Western Somali girl.

Let me guess? You probably sneak around do 10x worse, but you feel because you're a man you deserve the best.

How cute.

 

[Sky Geeljire]

Let me guess? You probably sneak around do 10x worse, but you feel because you're a man you deserve the best.

How cute.

I don’t “sneak around” because I don’t want to. Now as a grown Woman, it looks like you have no concept of Xishood/decency.

That is very off putting.

 

[Wervelwind]

Let me guess? You probably sneak around do 10x worse, but you feel because you're a man you deserve the best.

How cute.

Somali culture will always view men and women different. If you're strong enough to counter that then it's fine but you can't say that it isn't so

 

[4head]

 

[Basra]

My parents think I have never looked in the same direction as a man in my entire life, forget even talking to one. They always talk about marriage though and how Allah will find me a good man in the future. How do they expect that to happen
if they think I literally am incapable of talking to men confusing

They will arrange you one. Preferably your inaa adeer-- the clan of your father, or your mother if it is different. The basic thought of this psychology is-- you only talk to your engaged fiancée.

 

[Basra]

This is why I won’t get married to a Western Somali girl.

HA HA HA HAH AH HA HA

 

[Angelina]

Ceeb culture plays a big part.

We can't even really call it 'ceeb' culture because she's going to get to an age where her parents will be asking her why she isn't speaking to a guy.

 

[Juliet]

This is why I won’t get married to a Western Somali girl.

Big booty,bare-minimum bashir doesn't want me? Noooooo

 

[Basra]

Big booty,bare-minimum bashir doesn't want me? Noooooo

go to the corner huuno, u told us u r good in oral sex.

 

[Bernie Madoff]

Is everyday gender wars with you lot?

Grown folks insulting opposite gender like some ciyaal

No wonder this section has turned to shit

 

[Sky Geeljire]

Big booty,bare-minimum bashir doesn't want me? Noooooo

If my flat ass is fatter than yours, you need to Dhaqan Celis Xalimo and check into Brazil and take some shots up the dabo, nobody is interesting in caressing a Giraffe.

 

[Sheikh Google]

If my flat ass is fatter than yours, you need to Dhaqan Celis Xalimo and check into Brazil and take some shots up the dabo, nobody is interesting in caressing a Giraffe.

Im doneee man spoke facts.