How do I make my mom come to terms with me not marrying

[Hodan from HR]

Will you cook abaayo

Never bro!

For starters, there are some ground rules that need to be established.

- Separate bedrooms.

- My home cooked meals in the fridge are off limits.

- Physical contact of any form is strictly prohibited. Don't even think about touching my pinkie.

- If families inquire about the absence of children, fake husband will take the responsibility and claim infertility..

 

[Odious Delirium]

Never bro!

For starters, there are some ground rules that need to be established.

- Separate bedrooms.

- My home cooked meals in the fridge are off limits.

- Physical contact of any form is strictly prohibited. Don't even think about touching my pinkie.

- If families inquire about the absence of children, fake husband will take the responsibility and claim infertility..

So glorified roommates

It would be more fair terms if he got some of the home cooked meals for taking the infertility fall

 

[Waa dhamatay]

You sound like a coper

 

[Wervelwind]

Be direct, you’re wasting her time by being vague.

I already said I don't want to marry. I can't see how more direct I can be

 

[Wervelwind]

Never bro!

For starters, there are some ground rules that need to be established.

- Separate bedrooms.

- My home cooked meals in the fridge are off limits.

- Physical contact of any form is strictly prohibited. Don't even think about touching my pinkie.

- If families inquire about the absence of children, fake husband will take the responsibility and claim infertility..

Haye what about emotional support tho

 

[Wervelwind]

You sound like a coper

what do you mean

 

[Hodan from HR]

So glorified roommates

It would be more fair terms if he got some of the home cooked meals for taking the infertility fall

It is not suppose to be fair, just practical.
Husband and wife eat together and share things, roommates don't

Haye what about emotional support tho

I have a therapist hehe..

 

[Nin123]

Have some balls and marry.

 

[Waa dhamatay]

what do you mean

You want to get married but you’re too scared of making muh sacrifices + muh anxiety

 

[Rakoon]

I'm certain you can find some xalimos interested in part-time long-distance type of marriage, where you can enjoy a few quality months together each year, while also having the freedom to pursue individual interests during the remaining time, creating a sense of personal fulfillment and avoiding boredom.

In this type of aroos, #1 ur mama is gonna be happy, #2 no one will think something is wrong with you like being qaniis laga roone or something but also allows you both to appreciate ur time together even more, as you have space to explore ur own passions and maintain a healthy balance between togetherness and independence.

 

[Basra]

I'm turning 32 next month and my hooyo is exponentially becoming more involved with me marrying and wanting to introduce me to girls.

I've already told her I don't want to marry but is there an easier/better way to break it to her? I've got 3 brothers near my age but these saqajaans aren't marrying anytime soon to take the heat off me

I pity u huuno. Send her to Hajj! And tell her that is a condition for u to stop- she will appreciate it and she will think she is smarter than u by accepting and taking the offer of Hajj and secretly praying for you to get married! lol

 

[Superiorabdi]

He a corn addict lol

 

[Hilmaam]

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If you get married for your gus it's gonna get ugly sxb

Lol is this Finnesteride talking

 

[Abu Hesi]

A succubus( Aashiq Jinn) might be riding you every night, seek Ruqyah treatment.

 

[Wervelwind]

You want to get married but you’re too scared of making muh sacrifices + muh anxiety

What makes you think I wanna get married tho. You can want to know more about something without being interested in doing it

I'm certain you can find some xalimos interested in part-time long-distance type of marriage, where you can enjoy a few quality months together each year, while also having the freedom to pursue individual interests during the remaining time, creating a sense of personal fulfillment and avoiding boredom.

In this type of aroos, #1 ur mama is gonna be happy, #2 no one will think something is wrong with you like being qaniis laga roone or something but also allows you both to appreciate ur time together even more, as you have space to explore ur own passions and maintain a healthy balance between togetherness and independence.

I see what you mean but I think only a really small minority of xalimos want that kind of thing though. Like fishing for gold

I pity u huuno. Send her to Hajj! And tell her that is a condition for u to stop- she will appreciate it and she will think she is smarter than u by accepting and taking the offer of Hajj and secretly praying for you to get married! lol

If she goes hajj with family/friends they're gonna put pressure on her lol. By either asking why I'm not married or by wanting to introduce their daughters

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Lol is this Finnesteride talking

Maybe. I've been on it for a year but it may have done something to me without me being conscious about it. It stopped me from balding hard though

 

[Anon91]

This is so confusing.
How are you okay as a straight man to stay single at age 32.
Maybe if you were a woman it would be understandable but this.

 

[Hilmaam]

What makes you think I wanna get married tho. You can want to know more about something without being interested in doing it



I see what you mean but I think only a really small minority of xalimos want that kind of thing though. Like fishing for gold



If she goes hajj with family/friends they're gonna put pressure on her lol. By either asking why I'm not married or by wanting to introduce their daughters



Maybe. I've been on it for a year but it may have done something to me without me being conscious about it. It stopped me from balding hard though

Thanks for being honest I see to many people promoting that drug on here and not talking about potential sides. Get tested for free and total testosterone best way to know for sure.

On another note it could be you are becoming apathetic to marriage after being single for too long. All it takes is one chance meeting with right girl that you click with for your whole life to change, keep hope man pandemic made life hard for a lot of folks

 

[DangerBadan]

So you have help from your mother to be your matchmaker and you don't want it? You're so lucky and you're not even taking the advantage given to you. So many don't have that opportunity.

 

[Qeelbax]

if you aren’t gonna put the work in then don’t get married and don’t waste some poor girls time and chance.

 

[Nin123]

if you aren’t gonna put the work in then don’t get married and don’t waste some poor girls time and chance.

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