How do I get my HOYOO to stop talking bad about me to her friends

[hannah54321]

So basically she’s ruining my reputation by always telling her friends , my daughter doesn’t cook , clean ( exaggerated lies ) and the worst part is that her friends all have good looking sons instead of setting me up , she’s making me sound like an ungrateful hyena . I think I’m gonna have to stage an intervention ASAP as we’ve moved into a new area with many Somalis ...

 

[Marshall D Abdi]

Waraa ayo i think i know u

 

[hannah54321]

Waraa ayo i think i know u

where do u live

 

[Sloane Ranger]

So basically she’s ruining my reputation by always telling her friends , my daughter doesn’t cook , clean ( exaggerated lies ) and the worst part is that her friends all have good looking sons instead of setting me up , she’s making me sound like an ungrateful hyena . I think I’m gonna have to stage an intervention ASAP as we’ve moved into a new area with many Somalis ...

Hooyo used to embarrass me to her friends whenever I messed up a meal. Now that I've improved she's off my case.

 

[salma saluuni]

Alhamdulilah it’s just my sister she does it to

 

[Chun Li]

where do u live

He’s messing with your head, he don’t even know you lmaooo never mind know what you look like

 

[Capone]

Why is your mom tryna downgrade her own daughter in front of her friends...? That’s weird.

 

[Octavian]

So basically she’s ruining my reputation by always telling her friends , my daughter doesn’t cook , clean ( exaggerated lies ) and the worst part is that her friends all have good looking sons instead of setting me up , she’s making me sound like an ungrateful hyena . I think I’m gonna have to stage an intervention ASAP as we’ve moved into a new area with many Somalis ...

naah that ain't happening ur a tool to be used by ur parents in order to make them sound like royalty and sheiid u just have to put up with it until u move out or get better at making baaris

 

[Chun Li]

Let’s cut the bullshit, does your mom seem to be jealous of you?

Even in the slightest shape or form, jealousy can stem from anywhere. Your looks, personality, being educated, having plenty of friends or being confident enough to not let people influence you.

I hope your mom is just teasing you & it’s simply light hearted, but then again, you made this post so it shows you care about it & that you’re hurt from what she’s doing to you

 

[Octavian]

Why is your mom tryna downgrade her own daughter in front of her friends...? That’s weird.

nope its supposed make herself look like martyr thats being abused by a devil child milking that sympathy since nabi adam

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

This young sheikh was over our house once and I was cleaning the dishes. I was done. Then my hoyo looks at the dishes I cleaned and was like "come back naya, clean this properly" and put like three of the dishes I cleaned back into the sink and showed me how to clean , and said I was useless. I was so embarrassed .
This was when I was 20. Now I can't see that sheikh when I am out I always hide lol.

 

[Chun Li]

naah that ain't happening ur a tool to be used by ur parents in order to make them sound like royalty and sheiid u just have to put up with it until u move out or get better at making baaris

nope its supposed make herself look like martyr thats being abused by a devil child milking that sympathy since nabi adam

I don’t understand what you’re trying to say.

Are you trying to say that the mom is lowering her child in front of her friend so that the mom’s friend feels sorry for the daughter & makes a marriage proposal??

 

[Octavian]

I don’t understand what you’re trying to say.

Are you trying to say that the mom is lowering her child in front of her friend so that the mom’s friend feels sorry for the daughter & makes a marriage proposal??

nope its used as an ego boost and something to joke about while sippin shah

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

My auntie also use to tell me I was useless at 14 because I didn't know how to cook.
They use to bully me and I was miskeen, and I cried once . So evil.

 

[Amazonian]

Start praying five times a day in front of her

She'll be calling you a qalanjo by next week

 

[Chun Li]

This young sheikh was over our house once and I was cleaning the dishes. I was done. Then my hoyo looks at the dishes I cleaned and was like "come back naya, clean this properly" and put like three of the dishes I cleaned back into the sink and showed me how to clean , and said I was useless. I was so embarrassed .
This was when I was 20. Now I can't see that sheikh when I am out I always hide lol.

I can’t lie, that’s xaasid. I just want to say your mom knew what she was doing

 

[Marshall D Abdi]

This young sheikh was over our house once and I was cleaning the dishes. I was done. Then my hoyo looks at the dishes I cleaned and was like "come back naya, clean this properly" and put like three of the dishes I cleaned back into the sink and showed me how to clean , and said I was useless. I was so embarrassed .
This was when I was 20. Now I can't see that sheikh when I am out I always hide lol.

Ur over 20?

 

[hannah54321]

Let’s cut the bullshit, does your mom seem to be jealous of you?

Even in the slightest shape or form, jealousy can stem from anywhere. Your looks, personality, being educated, having plenty of friends or being confident enough to not let people influence you.

I hope your mom is just teasing you & it’s simply light hearted, but then again, you made this post so it shows you care about it & that you’re hurt from what she’s doing to you

Tbh my mom is miskeen so I don’t think she would do it out of jealousy. She’s not thinking that her future actions will have an impact on how others will see me , the funny part is most people see me as a good miskeen girl - I want to keep this reputation

 

[Chun Li]

nope its used as an ego boost and something to joke about while sippin shah

Okay I get it now. So it’s like the mom is drinking shaax & having banter with her friend, but it’s not deep or anything.

I know it’s all jokes, but some mothers should know that their daughters are sensitive, so while it’s funny in the moment, the daughter will remember that moment

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

The worst is when hoyo goes to her friends house and compares you to her friends daughters.



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