Housewife or working wife

Would you like your future wife to work or stay at home?

  • Housewife

    Votes: 34 52.3%
  • Working wife

    Votes: 24 36.9%
  • Not sure

    Votes: 7 10.8%

  • Total voters
    65

Periplus

Min Al-Nahr ila Al-Ba7r
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Even if I make 400K a year, my wife is working, if we didn’t live in the West, it’d be a different argument.

Having a homemaker wife is a fantasy shown on television. The harsh reality is that most of us will not be rich but middle class and by having one parent stay at home, you’re essentially reducing the amount of money available for the family to utilise.

Even if your wife makes 50K a year, that’s an extra 50K that can be put into an index fund or pay bills or used to send kids to private school.

:manny:
 
Women are better at housework. Even if I wanted to help, I would do a shitty job, so better she does it
Practice makes a master. Nigga grab that broom and dhulka xaaq.
Even if I make 400K a year, my wife is working, if we didn’t live in the West, it’d be a different argument.

Having a homemaker wife is a fantasy shown on television. The harsh reality is that most of us will not be rich but middle class and by having one parent stay at home, you’re essentially reducing the amount of money available for the family to utilise.

Even if your wife makes 50K a year, that’s an extra 50K that can be put into an index fund or pay bills or used to send kids to private school.

:manny:
I agree, and if american media is to be believed 90% of the housewifes practice adultry.
:francis:
 
Working wife if youre a broke nigga

Housewife if youre a educated nigga with good career or a well to do businessman

I voted not sure


Smart guy. If there is no reason for her to work and finances are good with one paycheck, she shouldn't waste her time working unless she has some type of degree that affords her comfortable work environment.

I say like you it depends. If she is a Nurse, A doctor, or has similar necessary and good for community/humanity jobs, by all means, it is better for her to put her skills to good use. If not, she stays home and saves herself from meaningless energy drain to get paid barely above minimum wage and deal with ignorant folks all day long at the same time.

Many professional women opt for family care and would prefer to be a stay home mom if they could. In many cases, there is no dignity for generating an income based on hourly wages.

If she can have her own business though, by all means again.
 

ProMichaelAli

John Karbash Al Somaloid
I want a husband that works and clean

At that point, you might as well take out the strap on​


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We must be adaptable to our circumstances, I would give her the option of staying at home and home school the kids and/or providing her with a job.

My selfishness wouldn't allow me to bestow another man the potential to influence her, that's my function.
 
I have no problem with working from home and women working. The issue is women don't know how to transition. They can be a manager or director bossing people around, the moment they come home they cant be a loving feminine wife. They'll bring their bossiness and bs attitude to the relationship. So,opt out and you won't have those challenges easy.
 
I have no problem with working from home and women working. The issue is women don't know how to transition. They can be a manager or director bossing people around, the moment they come home they cant be a loving feminine wife. They'll bring their bossiness and bs attitude to the relationship. So,opt out and you won't have those challenges easy.
Have you ever met every business woman/boss or is this your prejudice talking? You're not even married, let alone married to a business woman, so how on earth do you know about their private lives with their partners?

Also, your logic doesn't even make sense, even in the context of the home, a woman might be bossy on some occasions and some sceniors and not in others. Think motherhood. Mothers are bossy and tell their children what to do and expect obedience, even if their children are well into adulthood. Does that mean all women boss around their husbands?! Since you claim woman can't transition.
 
I don’t want to work when married, but I’m afraid the times we are living in a lot of brothers aren’t going to accept this arrangement. And i think it’s better for men to marry women that they can provide for.


I'm curious when you say you dont want to work when married. Do you mean looking after kids? Because that's understandable. But if you and your husband don't have kids yet, wouldn't you like to work to earn your own money and have more resources between you both?

A nice work/life balance is actually healthy.
 

Hodan from HR

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The man I end up with better be supportive of my career path coz I love love what I do.

To the guys who are saying their wife will work for them, what happens when your business collapses? I am a strong believer of not putting all your eggs in one basket. Diversify the skills and income in your family so that if anything was to happen to one of us, the other parent can easily step up for the kids 🙃
 
I'm curious when you say you dont want to work when married. Do you mean looking after kids? Because that's understandable. But if you and your husband don't have kids yet, wouldn't you like to work to earn your own money and have more resources between you both?

A nice work/life balance is actually healthy.
I agree, but even with no kids I don’t really want to work. I don’t mind volunteering or doing some remote work from if I need to. I really hate working to be fair and I don’t know why so many muslim women want to have careers while married don’t you want to be provided and cared for.
 

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