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Taij4an

AllStarSaciid said:
Here you are tryna convince me that sex isn’t everything. Yet your go to insult to get under my skin is to call me a virgin.
When I say u talk like a woman this is what I mean.
how ironic.
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Bruv I don't think u even understand what a woman talks like if you think I talk like a woman.

The reason i ask if you are a virgin is because it seems like you have never interacted with a woman on a relationship level, if you have never even been in a relationship with a women how could u possibly be contending me on matters that u have never even experienced urself, this is pure speculation from you, when u get into an actual relationship your opinion may change and u will probably have more understanding(hopefully), not everyone has the privalage of a single income household, I assume u are unmarried and live at home with ur parents, try working and being married at the same time and u will see how expensive life is, its not easy.

"Here you are trying to convince me sex isn't everything", I am not convincing you, it i just a fact, from my perspective it seems to me that you believe sex is everything? which is also a sing that you are a virgin and also very young, because relationships are not about sex, sex is like 3% of your life, you have 97% of other stuff to worry about yet u fixate on that.

Get married first then start talking to me about all this stuff
 
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AllStarSaciid

Lostbox said:
Damn @AllStarSaciid your a lost cause

Take, take, take and never give back right? So much for a partnership
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A marriage isn’t between two partner. It’s between a husband and a wife. My responsibilities are to protect, provide and to be parentally invested in the offspring. Simple.
But people keep on insulting me and assuming things abt my life. It is what it is.
 
Aegon

Aegon

The Conqueror, King of all Westeros
For yourself, obviously you have to know how to cook, if you live alone before you get married or in general, a man must know how to manage all alone
But when your wife is in good physical shape and she has no worries, no there are no excuses, you work all day, you get up in the morning to provide for your family. , you come home in the evening and you see your wife slump on the sofa asking you to cook and clean up ?

Knowing that on top of that, don't think that the role of the father/head of the family is just to work, he tinkers, he goes shopping, etc.
 
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Angelina

VIP
Taij4an said:
Nah give him a chance he is young and impressionable, inshaallah he will realize this is all BS
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I hope so, but one thing i've noticed is that people are born/raised with empathy and people who think that way unless they have deep growth rarely evolve.


AllStarSaciid said:
You guys ever live in Baadiyo? I have. Reared camels, goats and sheep. Living in the west now, a lot of western Somalis lack perspective. Women in Baadiyo, most of the time fetch water from far distances, build the houses, take care of the children, take care of the house, risk wild animals like hyenas and shit yet, you rarely hear a reer Baadiyo woman complain that her husband doesn’t help around the house. Men on the other hand fight off invading tribes, rear the camels, responsible for the protection of their family etc.
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So now you want women to live like reer Badio women and do the roles like buiding an areesh (house) like that of a man. Reer Badio women lived harsh lives and would often also die in childbirth and have health difficulties. Of course they couldn't say anything as it is a man's world and women hardly had any rights. In traditional badio culture women didn't even get their Islamic inheritance and they still wouldn't say anything.
AllStarSaciid said:
Come to the west now. Where everything was made easier, washing machines for dishes and clothes, houses to protect you from the cold, heat and rain. Stoves to cook your food, water that runs regardless of time, medicine, maternity wards where the possibility of death is close to non, Cars that take you from point a to point b, This sense of security where you can call cops at the touch of a button.
Everything men made to make life easier for women and themselves yet your wife is still tired and doesn’t want to be intimate with you coz the sink is full and dishes need to be washed cuz she was prolly chasing a check pouring coffee for a boss that can fire her anytime.
What a time to be alive.
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Just say, you don't have empathy for women and you don't want to help all of this waffle means nothing.

You want a woman to have empathy for you for working in an air conditioned office but can't have empathy for a woman that gives birth to your children and cooks and cleans around the clock.

No one likes ungrateful people tbh and that is why men like you will continue to get the short end of the stick. Xaasidnimo never prospers.
 
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Angelina said:
Just say, you don't have empathy for women and you don't want to help all of this waffle means nothing.

You want a woman to have empathy for you for working in an air conditioned office but can't have empathy for a woman that gives birth to your children and cooks and cleans around the clock.

No one likes ungrateful people tbh and that is why men like you will continue to get the short end of the stick. Xaasidnimo never prospers.
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now you're just making a judgment call and appealing to my emotions. this is the difference between me and you. you don't know anything about me and here all of you are assuming.
for all u know, i might be the most kind person to my family. I'm trying have a discussion void of emotion. i don't expect u to understand.

but you made up your mind a long time ago abt me.
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