house duties.

[Angelina]

It is besides the point.

I could say, No I’m not married and you’ll go “See he’s not married, he’s redpill, I was right, you sad little $hit, what do u know abt marriage.”

or

I could say Yes, I’m married. And you’ll go like.
“You’re a useless man who doesn’t help out his wife, you’re abusive. She should leave u.”

there is no winning with u.

It matters because it is very easy to have certain ideas when you're not with a woman. Ultimately, relationships are give and take. Think about your friendships. I'm sure you have friends who go above and beyond for you and you probably have a better friendship with them and would do the same for them as well. But people that don't help you, aren't going to get that side. Once you realise that your spouse is a human you don't need to compete with or have weird power dynamics, it all clicks after a while.

I get it but that’s your rationale as a man mercur

Its also the rationale of a woman. If you go out of your way to do things that make him happy, if he is a good person he'll do the same. That is how loving and healthy relationships work.

my wife should love me more and appreciate me and be intimate, coz I do abc for her.

now the question is, is she intimate with you coz u helped her out and she’s doing it out of obligation or will she be intimate with you regardless of whether you help her out or not.

How do you think love works? What makes a person love someone? Have you thought of that? What fosters genuine desire longterm? Especially when stress and kids come into the picture?


Also, you've not answered my question?

 

[AllStarSaciid]

You've not answered my question?

How would I know if she sleeps with the 1st man or the second? Everything considered she might have genuine desire for the Couch potato smash him whether he helps or not. Or smash the chump that helped her do dishes because now she’s obligated to do so and she never had genuine desire for him to begin with.

 

[Angelina]

How would I know if she sleeps with the 1st man or the second? Everything considered she might have genuine desire for the coach potato smash him whether he helps or not. Or smash the chump that helped her do dishes because now she’s obligated to do so and she never had genuine desire for him to begin with.

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We're talking about long-term relationships. In the beginning, most married men don't have an issue in that department. Especially when there aren't kids, stress and obligation. However, how is she meant to continue having genuine desires when she is overworked, hardly has time for herself and her coach potato man who could help refuses to? The vast majority of people whether it be in friendship, families or marriages grow to resent those that do not help them.

It is all well and good for a woman to have genuine desires for you, but can you keep that in a long-term relationship?

 

[Mercury]

I get it but that’s your rationale as a man mercur

my wife should love me more and appreciate me and be intimate, coz I do abc for her.

now the question is, is she intimate with you coz u helped her out and she’s doing it out of obligation or will she be intimate with you regardless of whether you help her out or not.

its not considered help to do chores in the household especially when you live there and its your home 2ndly I highly doubt your wife Will be intimate out of obligation because you did some chores in the house

A marriage is a partnership you dont go around tracking the things you do and expecting something in return

 

[AllStarSaciid]

We're talking about long-term relationships. In the beginning, most married men don't have an issue in that department. Especially when there aren't kids, stress and obligation. However, how is she meant to continue having genuine desires when she is overworked, hardly has time for herself and her coach potato man who could help refuses to? The vast majority of people whether it be in friendship, families or marriages grow to resent those that do not help them.

It is all well and good for a woman to have genuine desires for you, but can you keep that in a long-term relationship?

Why do I have to help u clean and do dishes for you to want to be intimate with me?
Why do I have to help you do what was conventionally your duties as a wife to score points with you in bed?

Why do I have to work 100hrs a week, to provide for you and your offsprings, only to come home and help you with your duties for you to be intimate with me?

how hard and stressful is it for you to raise kids when youre biologically designed to handle that?

 

[Angelina]

Why do I have to help u clean and do dishes for you to want to be intimate with me?

Because she could be tired? Do you expect her to do everything herself and the kids AND have enough energy to satisfy you? Do you think women have constant supply of energy?!

Why do I have to help you do what was conventionally your duties as a wife to score points with you in bed?

Because women are human. Helping out in a house that you live in should be the norm. Why should a woman want to sleep with a man who refuses to make her life easier?

Why do I have to work 100hrs a week, to provide for you and your offsprings, only to come home and help you with your duties for you to be intimate with me?

Because women also work now. Most people don't work 100hrs so stop exaggerating. The vast majority of working people get breaks and start times. If a woman has babies when does she get a break? Does she get weekends off? Does she clock out of mother duties at 5?

how hard and stressful is it for you to raise kids when youre biologically designed to handle that?

Very hard and especially combine that with pregnancy which takes a toll on women's bodies. Being biologicaly designed for something doesn't take away the stress.

I think your issue is so much more than woman vs men. But you seem to lack basic empathy. You want women to have empathy for you as a working man, but you can't extend that empathy. Very interesting.

 

[Taij4an]

Why do I have to help u clean and do dishes for you to want to be intimate with me?

thats the way life works G
stop listening to red pill

 

[Angelina]

thats the way life works G
stop listening to red pill

Its like he refuses to use common sense. If you think about it. Helping your wife allows you more time to be intimate as she'll finish her chores quicker and be less tired.

Men like @AllStarSaciid shoot themselves on the foot.

 

[Taij4an]

w hard and stressful is it for you to raise kids when youre biologically designed to handle that?

Bruv
I'm gonna have mercy on you, I have heard this alot from men, especially in my school, and online etc etc,
They believe because a woman is designed to have children, she should enjoy it, hypothetically

The problem here is, these men, live priveleged lives, what I mean is, if you think life is meant to be easy and enjoyable you are dead wrong

A man is literally designed to have war, fight and do combat, but war is violent and difficult and tiring, hunting for animals, running and chasing after them, going days of starving, working manual labour, etc etc, you were designed to do it, yet it is painful
life is painful, u are born crying and die in pain, men have to work all day just to afford a basic living for their family, they have to sacrifice their time and effort, have to put up with their families and get not much out of it.
Woman are designed to have children, but childbirth is one of the most difficult things, so is looking after children, so is working all day, everyone has a difficulty, life is difficult for everyone G
only the top 1% of the world live it easy, in fact u live in the west u have already surpassed 80% of the world

Woman live difficult lives, so do men, thats just life

When u come back from a 14 hours shift back to shouting kids everywhere a messy house and food cold as a Man would u not be pissed off and not in the mood to talk to ur wife?
Thats life
Same way a women will also experience these things

In fact in the west we dont even have naps during the day, this is a sidebenefit, if u read matthew walkers book u will know what im talking about, but we are designed to nao during the day, if a woman, gets a nap during the day, it actually increases her libido by alot, so just by ur woman being stressed and sleep deprived, and u not helping out, she is not gonna have the drive to be intimate with u,

 

[Taij4an]

Its like he refuses to use common sense. If you think about it. Helping your wife allows you more time to be intimate as she'll finish her chores quicker and be less tired.

Men like @AllStarSaciid shoot themselves on the foot.

Nah give him a chance he is young and impressionable, inshaallah he will realize this is all BS

 

[AllStarSaciid]

Because she could be tired? Do you expect her to do everything herself and the kids AND have enough energy to satisfy you? Do you think women have constant supply of energy?!

Because women are human. Helping out in a house that you live in should be the norm. Why should a woman want to sleep with a man who refuses to make her life easier?

Because women also work now. Most people don't work 100hrs so stop exaggerating. The vast majority of working people get breaks and start times. If a woman has babies when does she get a break? Does she get weekends off? Does she clock out of mother duties at 5?

Very hard and especially combine that with pregnancy which takes a toll on women's bodies. Being biologicaly designed for something doesn't take away the stress.

I think your issue is so much more than woman vs men. But you seem to lack basic empathy. You want women to have empathy for you as a working man, but you can't extend that empathy. Very interesting.

You guys ever live in Baadiyo? I have. Reared camels, goats and sheep. Living in the west now, a lot of western Somalis lack perspective. Women in Baadiyo, most of the time fetch water from far distances, build the houses, take care of the children, take care of the house, risk wild animals like hyenas and shit yet, you rarely hear a reer Baadiyo woman complain that her husband doesn’t help around the house. Men on the other hand fight off invading tribes, rear the camels, responsible for the protection of their family etc.

Come to the west now. Where everything was made easier, washing machines for dishes and clothes, houses to protect you from the cold, heat and rain. Stoves to cook your food, water that runs regardless of time, medicine, maternity wards where the possibility of death is close to non, Cars that take you from point a to point b, This sense of security where you can call cops at the touch of a button.
Everything men made to make life easier for women and themselves yet your wife is still tired and doesn’t want to be intimate with you coz the sink is full and dishes need to be washed cuz she was prolly chasing a check pouring coffee for a boss that can fire her anytime.
What a time to be alive.

I'm gonna have mercy on you, I have heard this alot from men, especially in my school, and online etc etc,
They believe because a woman is designed to have children, she should enjoy it, hypothetically

The problem here is, these men, live priveleged lives, what I mean is, if you think life is meant to be easy and enjoyable you are dead wrong

A man is literally designed to have war, fight and do combat, but war is violent and difficult and tiring, hunting for animals, running and chasing after them, going days of starving, working manual labour, etc etc, you were designed to do it, yet it is painful
life is painful, u are born crying and die in pain, men have to work all day just to afford a basic living for their family, they have to sacrifice their time and effort, have to put up with their families and get not much out of it.
Woman are designed to have children, but childbirth is one of the most difficult things, so is looking after children, so is working all day, everyone has a difficulty, life is difficult for everyone G
only the top 1% of the world live it easy, in fact u live in the west u have already surpassed 80% of the world

Woman live difficult lives, so do men, thats just life

When u come back from a 14 hours shift back to shouting kids everywhere a messy house and food cold as a Man would u not be pissed off and not in the mood to talk to ur wife?
Thats life
Same way a women will also experience these things

In fact in the west we dont even have naps during the day, this is a sidebenefit, if u read matthew walkers book u will know what im talking about, but we are designed to nao during the day, if a woman, gets a nap during the day, it actually increases her libido by alot, so just by ur woman being stressed and sleep deprived, and u not helping out, she is not gonna have the drive to be intimate with u,

 

[AllStarSaciid]

Bruv
I'm gonna have mercy on you, I have heard this alot from men, especially in my school, and online etc etc,
They believe because a woman is designed to have children, she should enjoy it, hypothetically

The problem here is, these men, live priveleged lives, what I mean is, if you think life is meant to be easy and enjoyable you are dead wrong

A man is literally designed to have war, fight and do combat, but war is violent and difficult and tiring, hunting for animals, running and chasing after them, going days of starving, working manual labour, etc etc, you were designed to do it, yet it is painful
life is painful, u are born crying and die in pain, men have to work all day just to afford a basic living for their family, they have to sacrifice their time and effort, have to put up with their families and get not much out of it.
Woman are designed to have children, but childbirth is one of the most difficult things, so is looking after children, so is working all day, everyone has a difficulty, life is difficult for everyone G
only the top 1% of the world live it easy, in fact u live in the west u have already surpassed 80% of the world

Woman live difficult lives, so do men, thats just life

When u come back from a 14 hours shift back to shouting kids everywhere a messy house and food cold as a Man would u not be pissed off and not in the mood to talk to ur wife?
Thats life
Same way a women will also experience these things

In fact in the west we dont even have naps during the day, this is a sidebenefit, if u read matthew walkers book u will know what im talking about, but we are designed to nao during the day, if a woman, gets a nap during the day, it actually increases her libido by alot, so just by ur woman being stressed and sleep deprived, and u not helping out, she is not gonna have the drive to be intimate with u,

Bullshit!

 

[AllStarSaciid]

Its like he refuses to use common sense. If you think about it. Helping your wife allows you more time to be intimate as she'll finish her chores quicker and be less tired.

Men like @AllStarSaciid shoot themselves on the foot.

Omg..! If I don’t help my wife she will be too tired and you know what that means Mr.
NO MALAB for you. Make yourself useful and do the dishes.

yeah right.

YOU CANT NEGOTIATE INTIMACY.

 

[Taij4an]

YOU CANT NEGOTIATE INTIMACY.

Yes just force her to do it


Bruh just tell me which red pill youtubers u watch
is it that mahdi tidjani guy

 

[Taij4an]

Bullshit!

ur opinion means nothing
i bet ur still a virgin

 

[Taij4an]

If I don’t help my wife she will be too tired

Are you telling me that a woman is never gonna be tired in her life

 

[Taij4an]

you know what that means Mr.
NO MALAB for you.

if ur too tired to have sex whats the problem

 

[AllStarSaciid]

ur opinion means nothing
i bet ur still a virgin

I bet it’ll make your day if I said yes. Goofy.

stop projecting.

 

[Taij4an]

I bet it’ll make your day if I said yes. Goofy.

stop projecting.

You cannot even formulate a proper argument, let alone make a full sentence reply to anything I have said.
Goofy
I here all the internet nerds say this now, because all red pill youtubers do is call other people "goofy" like its some insult, bro you are the goofy one, so are these people u listen to, think for yourself

Projecting, throwing out random phrases to sound smart, you flopped.

And yes you just confirmed my belief, you are a virgin
Dont worry u will get some siil soon

 

[AllStarSaciid]

You cannot even formulate a proper argument, let alone make a full sentence reply to anything I have said.
Goofy
I here all the internet nerds say this now, because all red pill youtubers do is call other people "goofy" like its some insult, bro you are the goofy one, so are these people u listen to, think for yourself

Projecting, throwing out random phrases to sound smart, you flopped.

And yes you just confirmed my belief, you are a virgin
Dont worry u will get some siil soon

Here you are tryna convince me that sex isn’t everything. Yet your go to insult to get under my skin is to call me a virgin.
When I say u talk like a woman this is what I mean.
how ironic.