house duties.

I just searched up rollo tomassi, apparantly one of his teachings of his doctrine is that desire cannot be negotiated, I see where you get that phrase from now, these are not ur own opinions, u are just copy and pasting them from some nerd who wrote a couple books.

Ok I found the reason you made this post now

"There is an idea of Rollo Tomassi's that is quite cruel to men: "Desire cannot be negotiated." According to Tomassi, if sexual attraction wanes or "dies," there's no way to bring it back, so it's best to end the relationship.

Are you saying genuine desire can be negotiated? Lil bro you have never touched a woman’s skin before.

There is saying that goes like this “A woman knows wether she wants to do the tango with a man, in the first 5 seconds of meeting him”

A woman loses sexual attraction for her man when he loses his masculine frame,his body game or fails to satisfy her primal urges. Due to hypergamy it also means his replacement has already arrived, at that point what is there to negotiation.
 
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1.I dont need to be a women to know that women cant be happy all the time, its literally impossible for any human being, life is full of trials thats just what it comes with, u will never have happy wife happy life all the time, everyone has arguments and disagreements with their spouse
2.You are not a man, so how would u know having a happy wife gives u a happy life, unless u are lesbian, it is only a man who can answer that, it is not a mans duty to want to please is wife to the point she becomes happy in everything, his wife is not his God, a man will have to displease his wife in life, thats just how life works,
Plus u calling me a little boy is ironic because only immature women use terminology like that
didnt read family guy GIF
 
Are you saying genuine desire can be negotiated? Lil bro you have never touched a woman’s skin before.
Again with your assumptions I have never touched a women skin:ftw9nwa::ftw9nwa:
the context of this is him saying desire cannot be negotiated therefore a man should not have to do house duties and help his wife around the house in order for his wife to want to have sex with him
the problem here is 1. u are not negotiating a desire 2.doing house work doesnt make u more attractive or less attractive
The point here being that a women may be too tired to have sex because of the plethora of housework so saying desire cannot be negotiated in this specific situation is a false equivocation since doing housework isn't negotiating a desire it is just alleviating difficulty from the women which would in turn make it more likely she will have more energy to be intimate(in specific situations)
 
There is saying that goes like this “A woman knows wether she wants to do the tango with a man, in the first 5 seconds of meeting him”
There is some truth to this but again an overgeneralisation a women can not be interested in a man for years but suddenly be interested in him when she gets to know more about him.
Attraction isnt always the same in every situation, u can grow to like someone
 
. Do to hypergamy it also means his replacement has already arrived, at that point what is there to negotiation.
Wdym?
Alot of women stay committed to a man even if he doesnt satisfy her due to other reasons
Maye u are talking about non-muslim promiscous women
maybe a small percentage of muslim married women may do this aswell but the majority will stay in the marriage,
Also what is ur obsession with hypergamy, women seek men of lower social status sometimes, as u sed urself, bad boys, usually for short term relationships, this would counter ur idea of hypergamy for women,
 

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At the end of the day the house is your and your wife is supporting you, so you must be involved and be hands on when you can
 
Again with your assumptions I have never touched a women skin:ftw9nwa::ftw9nwa:
the context of this is him saying desire cannot be negotiated therefore a man should not have to do house duties and help his wife around the house in order for his wife to want to have sex with him
the problem here is 1. u are not negotiating a desire 2.doing house work doesnt make u more attractive or less attractive
The point here being that a women may be too tired to have sex because of the plethora of housework so saying desire cannot be negotiated in this specific situation is a false equivocation since doing housework isn't negotiating a desire it is just alleviating difficulty from the women which would in turn make it more likely she will have more energy to be intimate(in specific situations)

Guess what most submissive men do house chores to earn their woman’s favor, in order to get petty reward sex from their “better half”. There are articles online promoting these unmanly habits, so Rollo is right.

There is some truth to this but again an over generalization a women can not be interested in a man for years but suddenly be interested in him when she gets to know more about him.Attraction isnt always the same in every situation, u can grow to like someone
the only to way to re kindle a woman’s desire after years in a relationship is to get in shape, gain status or make serious bank.

Wdym?
Alot of women stay committed to a man even if he doesnt satisfy her due to other reasons
Maye u are talking about non-muslim promiscous women
maybe a small percentage of muslim married women may do this aswell but the majority will stay in the marriage,
Also what is ur obsession with hypergamy, women seek men of lower social status sometimes, as u sed urself, bad boys, usually for short term relationships, this would counter ur idea of hypergamy for women,
Because of social or cultural pressures, not because of religion. It’s really disgusting and I consider that a form of abused, when a woman is shamed in to stay in a unhappy marriage.
 
Guess what most submissive men do house chores to earn their woman’s favor, in order to get petty reward sex from their “better half” there are articles online promoting these unmanly habits, so Rollo is right.
You are too brainwashed to understand the truth, i feel sorry for you
 
Because of social or cultural pressures, not because of religion. It’s really disgusting and I consider that a form of abused, when a woman is shamed in to stay in a unhappy marriage.
not every marriage without sex is an unhappy marriage
 

Enjoy reading it and good night young man.
I don't understand what u are saying
1Even if what this article says is true it only proves my point
other than that I do not trust the daily mail on any kind of relationship advice, they gave one vague study which again is limited by numver of ppl and also a subjective opinion of women

What point are you trying to prove by sending me this anyway
 
do you guys think that doing house chores(cleaning, cooking, doing dishes etc) makes a woman/wife more attracted to you?

ladies are you more attracted to your man when he helps you around the house?

help me out, I REALLY WANNA KNOW.
Ima say this… most people nowadays recognize that couples are both working … so it’s only fair to split it … but …

The amount of somali women I know that are working alongside their husbands and STILL doing all the cleaning and cooking and taking care of the children ? You know what they would confide in me ?

They lost attraction to their husbands and built resentment towards them. They lowkey hated them cause they wouldn’t help with the household chores.
The husbands would often wonder why they didn’t have time for “jiggy jiggy” with them and they would tell me how it’s hard to even do that cause they’re not being helped with the chores and still having to work smh.

Mind you these were all older couples I knew in their 30s. And fob, aka came to Canada from various African countries ( Kenya , Uganda, etc ) a few years ago.
 
Ima say this… most people nowadays recognize that couples are both working … so it’s only fair to split it … but …

The amount of somali women I know that are working alongside their husbands and STILL doing all the cleaning and cooking and taking care of the children ? You know what they would confide in me ?

They lost attraction to their husbands and built resentment towards them. They lowkey hated them cause they wouldn’t help with the household chores.
The husbands would often wonder why they didn’t have time for “jiggy jiggy” with them and they would tell me how it’s hard to even do that cause they’re not being helped with the chores and still having to work smh.

Mind you these were all older couples I knew in their 30s. And fob, aka came to Canada from various African countries ( Kenya , Uganda, etc ) a few years ago.
Or maybe they weren’t even into the man in the first place……?
 

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