Hot Selections (Dilemma)

[Sophisticate]

Imagine two handsome equally matched choices present themselves before you. One makes no haste in declaring their commitment. While the other is going to soon but their offer is still pending. But they are starting to grow on you a little more. I mean they seem so compassionate. You see how their goals and yours match in a near kismet way. There is one snag. There are no guarrantees. And the shot clock is on as offer one who also meets your list of credentials may disappear (given they too are a hot commodity).

This is a hypothetical scenario.

 

[Desert Flower]

Imagine two handsome equally matched choices present themselves before you. One makes no haste in declaring their commitment. While the other is going to soon but their offer is still pending. But they are starting to grow on you a little more. I mean they seem so compassionate. You see how their goals and yours match in a near kismet way. There is one snag. There are no guarrantees. And the shot clock is on as offer one who also meets your list of credentials may disappear (given they too are a hot commodity).

This is a hypothetical scenario.

I'd take the first one. The second guy seems a little too flighty for me.

 

[Hali]

This is anxiety inducing...they can both go.

 

[Basra]

Imagine two handsome equally matched choices present themselves before you. One makes no haste in declaring their commitment. While the other is going to soon but their offer is still pending. But they are starting to grow on you a little more. I mean they seem so compassionate. You see how their goals and yours match in a near kismet way. There is one snag. There are no guarrantees. And the shot clock is on as offer one who also meets your list of credentials may disappear (given they too are a hot commodity).

This is a hypothetical scenario.

Abaaay..........u r cancelled

 

[QueenofKings]

Whose richer though? That’s who I’d go for.

 

[Sophisticate]

I'd take the first one. The second guy seems a little too flighty for me.

What if you've just known #2 in a shorter time frame but they seem to have a bit more in common. *We're raising the stakes.*

 

[Ghengis Kaarhis]

Imagine two handsome equally matched choices present themselves before you. One makes no haste in declaring their commitment. While the other is going to soon but their offer is still pending. But they are starting to grow on you a little more. I mean they seem so compassionate. You see how their goals and yours match in a near kismet way. There is one snag. There are no guarrantees. And the shot clock is on as offer one who also meets your list of credentials may disappear (given they too are a hot commodity).

This is a hypothetical scenario.

we can totally fast track the aroos macantaay

 

[Timo Jareer and proud]

Imagine two handsome equally matched choices present themselves before you. One makes no haste in declaring their commitment. While the other is going to soon but their offer is still pending. But they are starting to grow on you a little more. I mean they seem so compassionate. You see how their goals and yours match in a near kismet way. There is one snag. There are no guarrantees. And the shot clock is on as offer one who also meets your list of credentials may disappear (given they too are a hot commodity).

This is a hypothetical scenario.

Take the both in as my first 2 wives

 

[Sophisticate]

This is anxiety inducing...they can both go.

If only we could multi-task like that.

Whose richer though? That’s who I’d go for.

Very similar in lacaag.

 

[Desert Flower]

What if you've just known #2 in a shorter time frame but they seem to have a bit more in common. *We're raising the stakes.*

Then I'd go for the one that I have more chemistry with.

 

[inflorescence]

I choose the one I vibe with

 

[Amirah]

I agree with desert, I’d take the one I’ve known longer, the one that came with his offer first. Chances that you my lose out on the first one and the second may not come through. But at the end of the day, deep down you know who you want...I say always listen to your gut feeling.

 

[Wiilyam Ina Sheekh Zubeer]

Imagine two handsome equally matched choices present themselves before you. One makes no haste in declaring their commitment. While the other is going to soon but their offer is still pending. But they are starting to grow on you a little more. I mean they seem so compassionate. You see how their goals and yours match in a near kismet way. There is one snag. There are no guarrantees. And the shot clock is on as offer one who also meets your list of credentials may disappear (given they too are a hot commodity).

This is a hypothetical scenario.

A seems to know what or rather who he wants. Is the lack of haste/time taken on his part making you second guess the honesty of his commitment? No? Then that's a big plus, he definitely appreciates what he sees in you.
What makes you come to the conclusion that B might declare his interest soon? Any (non-verbal) cues that can't be dismissed as vague? Could be a case of once bitten twice shy or in the worst case disinterest with a veneer of politeness. On the other hand you like him more, so you could nudge him subtly in one way or the other to provoke more telling signs of his commitment being underway.
Could be completely off so take my suugo with a punch of salt.

 

[QueenofKings]

If only we could multi-task like that.



Very similar in lacaag.

Then I’d go for the one who has better earning potential. Shared interests and keenness aren’t gonna pay the bills.

 

[AbdiS]

Is this hypothetical based on what you've experienced with some SSpotters online, and how you'd imagine they would present themselves to you irl?

 

[Gojo Satoru]

The one that I like more

 

[Naacasfrompunt]

Two wives

 

[Zoobear]

If their similar enough compare the two families, you could also compare their credit scores.

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

What if you've just known #2 in a shorter time frame but they seem to have a bit more in common. *We're raising the stakes.*

You've already subconsciously made your decision, it's #2, but you're playing it safe. Go all in or fold!

 

[Sophisticate]

Abaaay..........u r cancelled

Basra, have you succumbed to cancel culture?

we can totally fast track the aroos macantaay

Anyway, what would you do in a similar scenario Ghengis if we reversed the genders?

Two wives

Take both in as my first 2 wives

That is not happening in the west little ones: