I think Somali parents need to have high expectations and rules for their kids boys and girls You will see Somali parents won't allow their daughters out late at night or they got a curfew and are protective of them in General
That same should apply to their sons be an active parents who protects their family
And always invite their friends over for a dinner so you can get can idea of who they are hanging around with what they study/work where they work etc
The only ones who will die on the streets are the ones who are selling drugs
Never seen this before, must be lower class families.My grandfather was so strict on my father. One day my father skipped school.My grandfather placed a pistol on the desk, he then begun asking questions.The psychological weight of this along with him sipping shaax mustve been hell. My father had no chance to lie as my grandfather literally interrogated people for a living, in the end my father got hot shaax thrown at him.It worked well for him eventually as my father won the award for the highest test scores throughout Somalia.With his name on the newspaper he achieved 30,000 shilling.
The myth of dysfunctional somali families is perpetuated by a low class majority who grew up in households where the children weren't taught how to handle themselves.The main reason most somali families in the west arent successful is they aren't taught the path to success. That coupled with the fact that families led by welfare abusers lead to an unhealthy cycle of a subconscious yearning for indefinite state support.