Hooyos swearing by their sons

Most fathers favor their daughters and mother favor their sons. It's because fathers were sons at one point in their life, they weren't daughters and that's why they are caring towards them. Same goes for the mother, she wasn't a son so that is what makes her more caring towards her sons. However in my family none of this exists.
 

Gambar

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I think they favour their sons but I don’t think they show them emotional support or love where it counts tbh. I don’t baby my son, he’s a toddler but I potty trained him fast and had him eating on his own fast. Teach your sons independence and you won’t regret it. May Allah bless our sons ameen.
 
It’s universal, sons tend to have closer relationships with their mom, and daughters have with their dad, if he’s around :p
 

AbdiS

"Only the weak demand equality..."
Cuz Hoyos know Xalimos are only useful in the kitchen, so they spend hours trying teach them how to cook which can get very frustrating if the Xalimo is mediocre at everything (Majority of female Sspot users)

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I will give you guys a serious answer

Somali parenting is traditionally gendered. The father focuses more on the son and the mother focuses more on the daughter.

Traditionally the sons would spend more time with the father following in his footsteps,taking his occupation, etc and vice versa. This is how it is.

Fathers are more strict with their sons and mothers are more strict with their daughters. I will give you guys an example of gendered parenting. In somali culture, I think the father never beats his daughters. This is clear separation. I wager this true for all somalis.

Traditionally the sons would take the fathers occupation and spent more time with him than the mother. Here in the west, this dynamic switches up. The father goes to work, while the mother stays at home. The sos spend a lot of time with the mother. The mother does not hold them to the same standard as to the daughters. She does not maybe expect the sons to cook but expects the daughters. It is the fathers job to primarily raise the son.
 
I think it's because they were raised in a society that's harsher on girls and more preferential to boys so they apply the same values to their daughters and sons.
 

Abdalla

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I think they favour their sons but I don’t think they show them emotional support or love where it counts tbh. I don’t baby my son, he’s a toddler but I potty trained him fast and had him eating on his own fast. Teach your sons independence and you won’t regret it. May Allah bless our sons ameen.
You potty trained him fast so you could be on facebook live all day
 

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