Hooyo said she won't accept 'no' when it comes to marriage lol

Kizaru

Cast in the name of God Ye not Guilty
I say you get your financial situtation in a better place. Getting a wife right now could be a deficit. After your finances maybe then choose if you want or not.
 
You're a grown adult sxb, tell your hooyo to chill. How're getting bullied in your own household, do you not contribute toward the bills or something? :hemad:
 

Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
Staff Member
that is exactly me

The problem though, as Man, is that although you may hate marriage, most men,cannot control themselves sexually, therefore are compelled to get married for a halal outlet, I guarantee you alot of men do not love their wives or children they just deal with them because thats the life the man chose for himself

Most men are not ready for marriage, especiallly in todays day and age, takes alot of learning and room for growth as a person, also alot of sacrifice,

I don't even understand why men get married tbh, but at the end of the day, life was never enjoyable, its always painful, men love women, even if they won't try to have a successful marriage, they will still want to be married, which to a certain extent is a societal necessity, from the aspect of having kids and sustaining the population

Some are like that. They marry more conveniently to fulfill their 'needs' and conform to societal or religious expectations. Companionship or even fondness for the spouse might not be enough of a deciding factor for them. I gather they are merely the type to tolerate and endure for their creator's sake.

Personally, in the world we live in, I don't think a loveless marriage would be healthy, especially for children. They subconsciously know they aren't cared for and are merely tolerated by their parent or parents. It also makes it easy to pack up, leave, divorce the wife and kids, and start a new elsewhere, acting like a bachelor who never had kids and establishing another family.

Of course, the cold fathers who stay put also exist because it's easier to stay than go. Some were infatuated with their wives initially, but that cooled and became mere marriage continuity to maintain an image. Oddly, some men make nice people and great citizens and help others but not their families. This is what I call everybody's hero, except at home. It creates mixed messaging. It is sad, but it means more money for shrinks.​
I think you hit the nail on the head
Don't buckle only to be angry in the future. They are trying to age-shame you when you can choose to get married if and when you like. You aren't a basement dweller when you pay your parents' bills and reduce expenses. Also, you aren't financially struggling, as you've reiterated to them many times.​
 
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